Just stop spending time with him, sounds like he is desperate and if you don't like him, then there's no point you should keep spending too much time with him.
Oh my god this killed me. Creep is a legend 😂 I hope that dude is happy because he's missing out on a good girl. Funny shit really. I'd just look at him and laugh.
But try laughing at him when he acts all cool, confident and funny at the office And when i am alone with him outside the office he turns on this act.. haha
But try laughing at him when he acts all cool, confident and funny at the office And when i am alone with him outside the office he turns on this act.. haha
I gave h the cold shoulder starting from September and two weeks ago i was like maybe talk to him again since we need to work together for 8 hours and in those pas 2,5 months i Saw him flirting with every new girl who looks a bit like me (blonde Hair blue eyes fair skin)
I dont give him any form of attention when he flirts with another its Just whenever he flirts with another he makes such a show the whole office is watching thats when i spot him with this new blonde and im like "okay" *shruggs*
Not 100% but he never said to me he had a girlfriend he accidently told another coworker who told me and then he came clean that he had a girlfriend but he en er talks about her nor does anyone bring it up
First of all, anything you do has effect on the situation, and based in that effect you can get the your answer. So you can just tell him that you are going on a date, and see how he would react, things like this will reveal his thoughts on you.
First, since he asked you first, he is interested but you know some guys likes to just play games, and for what it seems he is both. So you take things to another level, and see where he stands, does he want to play or ask you out! And you can always use the friends card to know what is he like.
Either i call him out on this behavior or i Just ignore him. Both have zero effect. But why in Hell's name would he act like this? If he wanted me he could have had me this summer when i was crushing on him and didn't know he had a girlfriend and then if heplayed it right i would have Fell in his trap. When i found out he has a girlfriend i found him a ugly piece of shit but now he acts like this?
I don't know people change situations change it could just be him being weird or acting on some random urge or acting based on a current situation or event
My friend said that my attention to a guy and the way i look at him when i have feelings for him is very flattering for him so she says that he wants that attention back?
She has a point. But more than likely he does want more than just your original attention. Like I said just avoid him or confront him with a superior. He doesn't count as a friend after consistent behaviour like this so don't give him room to keep acting up or he won't learn and will act as such around anyonr
He does actully have a degree from a pretty big deal university. So he isn't a total shit head
Maybe thats why he is fixated on me because i see what he is doing and dont fall in that trap of his that every other girl walks straight into?(i mean i was crushing on him and flirting with him but thats all)
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Just stop spending time with him, sounds like he is desperate and if you don't like him, then there's no point you should keep spending too much time with him.
So he acts like this because he wants to have sex with me?
He's a fuck boy.
Oh my god this killed me. Creep is a legend 😂 I hope that dude is happy because he's missing out on a good girl. Funny shit really. I'd just look at him and laugh.
Am i the good girl in this?
Yes :)
Aww thanks :)
But try laughing at him when he acts all cool, confident and funny at the office And when i am alone with him outside the office he turns on this act.. haha
My phone won't expand your comment but yes just laugh at him and knock down that ego a little.
But try laughing at him when he acts all cool, confident and funny at the office And when i am alone with him outside the office he turns on this act.. haha
For real just laugh at him lol. I swear you will be back in control. Then when he tries talking to you just walk away.
That brings his ego to pieces?
No but it will give him a taste of what he's doing to you. Plus he may wake up and quit being a jerk.
His actions sound creepy, but there must have been something that attracted you to him in the first place.
I would just distance myself from him if I were you. Male it evidently clear you aren't interested.
If that doesn't work, talk to him about it I guess
You need to give him the cold shoulder for awhile and give him time to get fixated on someone else.
I gave h the cold shoulder starting from September and two weeks ago i was like maybe talk to him again since we need to work together for 8 hours and in those pas 2,5 months i Saw him flirting with every new girl who looks a bit like me (blonde Hair blue eyes fair skin)
Stop giving him attention when he florts with another chick.
I dont give him any form of attention when he flirts with another its Just whenever he flirts with another he makes such a show the whole office is watching thats when i spot him with this new blonde and im like "okay" *shruggs*
Intentionally turn away, If he is doing things for the benefit of the audience, refuse to be a part of his audience.
He's just a mega flirt.. And sounds somewhat like a douche.. I always reserve the creep word cause it's deeper than most people care to look at..
That is def flirting but I think he is taking it too far and being a creep sometimes
And he still has that long distantce girlfriend...
I would just drop him like work with him and that's it. Cause what if he does that with other girls if you two ended up together
I dont like him anymore i Just wanna decode him because he is confusing
I get that. I hate when people are all over the page. Like one day your all they can think about and the next you don't even cross their mind
Poor timing, and poor social skills. It happens. He's trying to find a girl who likes hi, he's just really bad at it. ;)
But he already had a girlfriend so why is he acting like this?
Are you sure he still does?
Not 100% but he never said to me he had a girlfriend he accidently told another coworker who told me and then he came clean that he had a girlfriend but he en er talks about her nor does anyone bring it up
Maybe he thinks you are out of his league, or he is just playing with you, anways he is not worth it.
I wanna decode him so how to tell the difference?
First of all, anything you do has effect on the situation, and based in that effect you can get the your answer.
So you can just tell him that you are going on a date, and see how he would react, things like this will reveal his thoughts on you.
When he asked me how my lovelife was i said i had a date recently and he was like ah was IT Nice and i was like no this was his attitude;
"Omg you need air i need that aswell"
Wich this Creeper was like so he was a bit desperate and i said yeah i like someone with a backbone and he was looking like yeah noted
First, since he asked you first, he is interested but you know some guys likes to just play games, and for what it seems he is both.
So you take things to another level, and see where he stands, does he want to play or ask you out!
And you can always use the friends card to know what is he like.
Address this directly and if behaviour doesn't change ignore/avoid him or bring it up with a superior.
Either i call him out on this behavior or i Just ignore him. Both have zero effect. But why in Hell's name would he act like this? If he wanted me he could have had me this summer when i was crushing on him and didn't know he had a girlfriend and then if heplayed it right i would have Fell in his trap. When i found out he has a girlfriend i found him a ugly piece of shit but now he acts like this?
I don't know people change situations change it could just be him being weird or acting on some random urge or acting based on a current situation or event
My friend said that my attention to a guy and the way i look at him when i have feelings for him is very flattering for him so she says that he wants that attention back?
I think he wants to get in my pants now
She has a point. But more than likely he does want more than just your original attention. Like I said just avoid him or confront him with a superior. He doesn't count as a friend after consistent behaviour like this so don't give him room to keep acting up or he won't learn and will act as such around anyonr
He is a dude you should be concerning your self with taking up your mental and emotional time.
I think creep, but you have to decide for yourself, to know it.
He seems like an asshole kinda or just desperate , I wouldn't let him do things on me
Sounds like a creep. What kind of guy kisses another girl in front of you? I'm sure he had a 3some on his mind. You should rum!
Sorry, run not rum.
But he is my coworker so im gonna see him regardless!
Creep. Had a girlfriend, plays odd. You saw him at work flirting with new girl who looks like you. At the club, looks like you girl.
Is he obssed?
Maybe.
Why else would he act like this?
That's how some guys are, l. g.
I think he has all the properties of a great husband and father. Go for him. Stick to him.
Im gonna breed with him
Have you gave him. such signals before that u r interested in him or want to. get laid?
I ws crushing on him like a little puppy this summer
Then you don't blame him Hun
Sounds like a flirt and a creep.. I just hope he doesn't actually cheat on her.
Well hekissed one girl in front of me who says he doesn't sleep around?
weird.. id keep my distance
He's playing with you and want to get in your pants, since he thinks you still want him, apparently, and he tried to make you jealous.
Weiredest most ineffective method ever...
It works on some girls. And he doesn't look like the brightest guy anyway.
He does actully have a degree from a pretty big deal university. So he isn't a total shit head
Maybe thats why he is fixated on me because i see what he is doing and dont fall in that trap of his that every other girl walks straight into?(i mean i was crushing on him and flirting with him but thats all)
Maybe. Maybe he sees you as a challenge of some sort, the guy he couldn't get and he can't accept it.