Being "high maintenece" is not a reality! Everyone has a different tolerance level towards another. You may be high maintenence to this person, but low maintenence to another. So I don't believe someone can be high maintenence. If someone thinks you are high maintenence, it means that they simply have low tolerance. Simple as that :)
High maintenance women are uaually more materialistic -so they tend to look rather stunning...
But in terms of dating that type of girl. Nah, I want somebody who is independent and doesn't expect me to allocate all my valuable time and money into her. I have my own s*** to take care of. So should she.
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I think everyone will have a different definition of “high maintenance girl”. Some say are spoiled brats, immature, brainless, superficial, gold digger, expensive and so on...
To me a high maintenance girl is the one that have a good taste for fashion, that has made a career to afford buying what she pleases, those that are meticulous, classy and lady like. There is women who become superficial is true, but there is also women who are open to a relationship with a guy that’s worth the trouble and money becomes secondary.
Why would anyone want a spoiled lazy woman who cannot think for her own and need other people's money in order to process her thoughts correctly? We dont want superficial robots. We want the real thing.. Id rather enjoy a weekend in my kitchen/bed/living room with a girl that actually got something to say, and not nod to whatever i say as if i were to be her walking wallet.
Good question. High maintenance women often have a lot of requirements and needs themselves while reciprocating very little. Over time it becomes an unfair exchange and a lot of guys who have dated these girls know this so they avoid them.
Basically a guy wants to be appreciated just as much as he appreciates his girlfriend and high maintenance women usually fail in that department haha
Imagine if steam cars were still the norm. Would you want to go out, in the cold of winter, have to crawl under your car, turn on the gas, ignite the pilot light, wait around for 20 or 30 minutes for the water to boil, then when it's finally able to drive, you have to make sure the water pressure is stable so you don't stop in the middle of traffic? No. Why? Because it's a pain in the ass. Now imagine you had a choice between steam cars, or gas cars where you just put the key in and go; which would you choose? Gas. Why? Because why the hell would you want to deal with all of steam's bullshit, when gas is so much easier, convenient, and reliable?
Lol at the women here who think it’s because they’re intimidating. It’s just their attempt of making themselves feel better because they exhibit all these negative traits they see here.
I hate high maintenance because they’re no fun to be around, usually prudish, don’t give anything in return of you meeting their demands, and expect everything handed to them.
High maintenance comes with a fair bit of attention, drama and a more outward profile in your relationship. Plus it'll possibly take a hit on your bank account as a man is usually the provider in a relationship. I'm not about high maintenance. I rather have a woman where we equally do our part. I don't see that happening with a high maintenance girl.
Often, I see guys saying that even wearing nail polish is high maintenance. So it all depends what a guy sees as high maintenance. I think everything over and above what a guy is comfortable with and what is less important to him, he calls "high maintenance".
This is why when I’m interested in someone I always vet them by asking questions that relate to this topic. If I pick up on the fact she’s high-maintenance, my priority then shifts from relationship material to straight out hook up one time and get out fast material.
I come from a family who escaped poverty, famine, and genocide. Both my father and my mother worked their hands to the bone and built themselves up from nothing, in a foreign land and with nothing but the clothes on their back.
You, and your stupid, false inflated sense of self importance and royalty, and shove it up your ass.
(I'm not necessarily talking to you QA, that's just a message for high maintenance girls in general).
Lol because she should be able to provide for herself. I'm on a mission in life and my mission isn't to take care of a girls needs as if she's a child. If a woman is strong enough to be with me and be by my side, then I'll be by her side. We both build each other up. I'll be dammed if I'm ever going to sacrifice my life mission or deviate away from it to spoil some girl. Huge turn off.
Bottom line is that they cost too much for no return. They often feel entitled, have oversized egos and measure you how big a sucker you are for putting up with them. I can afford them but give me a girl who appreciates what I give her and do for her because she does and not because she feels entitled to it.
I don't like nail polish and the only makeup I don't mind is eyeliner and maybe eye shadow as it adds emphasis to their eyes. Girls that tend to wear more nail polish and makeup and have that urban sense of fashion tend to come across as shallow and judgmental, look like they don't have much to talk about, materialistic, and bitchy. That's not to say all girls that wear that kind of stuff are actually like that. It's just the vibe they give off.
First of all most men don't different iate and can't really choose.
If you are a weird fat dude, you will get what you can get and pay absurd bills just for a kiss on the cheek.
Now we're talking about hangable dudes, dudes that can break up with women and bouce back.
Sexual revolution for men bae, or better said relationship revolution. The deal is sour. Men don't need relationships, emphasis on the need. That's a deal that ain't worth it after female empowerment. It's all duty and no fun because a woman doesn't have to submit to cultural expectations. So men said, well if she can reject social norms I want that too. So bangable men have rejected chivalry en masse.
And for good reason, now if you wanna hand out you need to be chill and able to hang. Strong empowered women don't get glass slippers
I think everyone has their own definition of “high-maintenance”. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel like the BEST version of yourself despite what others think. Maybe some guys are intimidated by women who don’t conform. Maybe some guys don’t want a girl that’s independent and could care less if he’s there.
To me, high-maintenance also has to do with mental self-care and respect. Many guys will aim for girls with low self esteem. Maybe that answers it in itself
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Too annoying, too much attention, too much money, too much time, and too superficial. Also way too drama filled. Relationships should require work but be easy going. Being in a relationship with a high maintenance girl feels one sided. She wants the world but gives nothing in return. She's selfish. Why would anyone want to be with someone who only cares about themself.
At any rate, I had a girl FRINED who was high maintenance in college. She was OK to hang out with in small spurts but felt sorry for her b/f. The funny thing is, that when we visited her grandma, the grandma said that I was one of the few people that could put her (the high maintenance girl friend) in her place.
When it comes to maintaining yourselves. Less is more, more time, more fun, more inviting, more tolerable, more money and all around more bettah brah. Men are tired. Stop stressing us out with your trivial high maintenance bull shit, call us when your ready or call it off. We got shit to do and it isn't going away, but you can, be polite hold the door for the low maintenance lady on your way out. She knows how to K. I. S. S.
High maintenance girls are not ideal for long term relationship cuz all the expenses are usually bourn by boys and at the end what boys desire and they get is the same thing at cheaper cost from low maintenance girls... even if you start bearing all the expenses then you will be more commanding and boys doesn't like that and again they will prefer low maintenance girls.
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Being "high maintenece" is not a reality! Everyone has a different tolerance level towards another. You may be high maintenence to this person, but low maintenence to another. So I don't believe someone can be high maintenence. If someone thinks you are high maintenence, it means that they simply have low tolerance. Simple as that :)
High maintenance women are uaually more materialistic -so they tend to look rather stunning...
But in terms of dating that type of girl. Nah, I want somebody who is independent and doesn't expect me to allocate all my valuable time and money into her. I have my own s*** to take care of. So should she.
I think everyone will have a different definition of “high maintenance girl”. Some say are spoiled brats, immature, brainless, superficial, gold digger, expensive and so on...
To me a high maintenance girl is the one that have a good taste for fashion, that has made a career to afford buying what she pleases, those that are meticulous, classy and lady like. There is women who become superficial is true, but there is also women who are open to a relationship with a guy that’s worth the trouble and money becomes secondary.
Why would anyone want a spoiled lazy woman who cannot think for her own and need other people's money in order to process her thoughts correctly?
We dont want superficial robots.
We want the real thing..
Id rather enjoy a weekend in my kitchen/bed/living room with a girl that actually got something to say, and not nod to whatever i say as if i were to be her walking wallet.
Good question. High maintenance women often have a lot of requirements and needs themselves while reciprocating very little. Over time it becomes an unfair exchange and a lot of guys who have dated these girls know this so they avoid them.
Basically a guy wants to be appreciated just as much as he appreciates his girlfriend and high maintenance women usually fail in that department haha
Imagine if steam cars were still the norm.
Would you want to go out, in the cold of winter, have to crawl under your car, turn on the gas, ignite the pilot light, wait around for 20 or 30 minutes for the water to boil, then when it's finally able to drive, you have to make sure the water pressure is stable so you don't stop in the middle of traffic?
No.
Why? Because it's a pain in the ass.
Now imagine you had a choice between steam cars, or gas cars where you just put the key in and go; which would you choose?
Gas.
Why? Because why the hell would you want to deal with all of steam's bullshit, when gas is so much easier, convenient, and reliable?
High maintenance girls in a nutshell.
Lol at the women here who think it’s because they’re intimidating. It’s just their attempt of making themselves feel better because they exhibit all these negative traits they see here.
I hate high maintenance because they’re no fun to be around, usually prudish, don’t give anything in return of you meeting their demands, and expect everything handed to them.
High maintenance comes with a fair bit of attention, drama and a more outward profile in your relationship. Plus it'll possibly take a hit on your bank account as a man is usually the provider in a relationship. I'm not about high maintenance. I rather have a woman where we equally do our part. I don't see that happening with a high maintenance girl.
Often, I see guys saying that even wearing nail polish is high maintenance. So it all depends what a guy sees as high maintenance. I think everything over and above what a guy is comfortable with and what is less important to him, he calls "high maintenance".
This is why when I’m interested in someone I always vet them by asking questions that relate to this topic. If I pick up on the fact she’s high-maintenance, my priority then shifts from relationship material to straight out hook up one time and get out fast material.
I come from a family who escaped poverty, famine, and genocide. Both my father and my mother worked their hands to the bone and built themselves up from nothing, in a foreign land and with nothing but the clothes on their back.
You, and your stupid, false inflated sense of self importance and royalty, and shove it up your ass.
(I'm not necessarily talking to you QA, that's just a message for high maintenance girls in general).
Yeah I was gonna say 😂 like what did I do to u
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Take you, and your stupid, false inflated sense of self importance and royalty, and shove it up your ass*
Lol because she should be able to provide for herself. I'm on a mission in life and my mission isn't to take care of a girls needs as if she's a child. If a woman is strong enough to be with me and be by my side, then I'll be by her side. We both build each other up. I'll be dammed if I'm ever going to sacrifice my life mission or deviate away from it to spoil some girl. Huge turn off.
Bottom line is that they cost too much for no return. They often feel entitled, have oversized egos and measure you how big a sucker you are for putting up with them. I can afford them but give me a girl who appreciates what I give her and do for her because she does and not because she feels entitled to it.
I don't like nail polish and the only makeup I don't mind is eyeliner and maybe eye shadow as it adds emphasis to their eyes. Girls that tend to wear more nail polish and makeup and have that urban sense of fashion tend to come across as shallow and judgmental, look like they don't have much to talk about, materialistic, and bitchy. That's not to say all girls that wear that kind of stuff are actually like that. It's just the vibe they give off.
There should be an option for A, B & D in your poll lol
First of all most men don't different iate and can't really choose.
If you are a weird fat dude, you will get what you can get and pay absurd bills just for a kiss on the cheek.
Now we're talking about hangable dudes, dudes that can break up with women and bouce back.
Sexual revolution for men bae, or better said relationship revolution. The deal is sour. Men don't need relationships, emphasis on the need. That's a deal that ain't worth it after female empowerment. It's all duty and no fun because a woman doesn't have to submit to cultural expectations. So men said, well if she can reject social norms I want that too. So bangable men have rejected chivalry en masse.
And for good reason, now if you wanna hand out you need to be chill and able to hang. Strong empowered women don't get glass slippers
I think everyone has their own definition of “high-maintenance”. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel like the BEST version of yourself despite what others think. Maybe some guys are intimidated by women who don’t conform. Maybe some guys don’t want a girl that’s independent and could care less if he’s there.
To me, high-maintenance also has to do with mental self-care and respect. Many guys will aim for girls with low self esteem. Maybe that answers it in itself
Too annoying, too much attention, too much money, too much time, and too superficial. Also way too drama filled. Relationships should require work but be easy going. Being in a relationship with a high maintenance girl feels one sided. She wants the world but gives nothing in return. She's selfish. Why would anyone want to be with someone who only cares about themself.
Couldn't A, B, and D be combined?
At any rate, I had a girl FRINED who was high maintenance in college. She was OK to hang out with in small spurts but felt sorry for her b/f. The funny thing is, that when we visited her grandma, the grandma said that I was one of the few people that could put her (the high maintenance girl friend) in her place.
When it comes to maintaining yourselves. Less is more, more time, more fun, more inviting, more tolerable, more money and all around more bettah brah.
Men are tired.
Stop stressing us out with your trivial high maintenance bull shit, call us when your ready or call it off.
We got shit to do and it isn't going away, but you can, be polite hold the door for the low maintenance lady on your way out. She knows how to K. I. S. S.
High maintenance girls are not ideal for long term relationship cuz all the expenses are usually bourn by boys and at the end what boys desire and they get is the same thing at cheaper cost from low maintenance girls... even if you start bearing all the expenses then you will be more commanding and boys doesn't like that and again they will prefer low maintenance girls.