Why aren't men attracted to high maintenance girls? (Page 3)

Question

I've noticed lately that they think the high maintenance girl is hot but prefer to be in a relationship with the low maintenance laid back woman. Why?

Joelski440 · Answer

Men deal with enough stress & trouble providing for them selves, let alone having to deal with a high maintenance girl the requires ridiculous up keep, gifts & large expensive shiny things.

Pink2000 · Answer

I’ve always been high maintenance but I prefer to take care of myself.

DodgersGM · Answer

I LOVEEEEE low maintenance, low drama women. Modern life is crazy AF. Why would I want to add more crazy to all that craziness?

ryancg · Answer

High maintenance girls want everything, nothing is ever enough. And they never give an equal amount in return. They're just so needy and I just don't have the time, money, or energy to deal with a girl like that.

MisterSir · Answer

i'd prefer a partner that's realistic, not a partner that thinks her shit doesn't stink

thomastt · Answer

It depends but most high maintenance girls I met were: - uninteresting - selfish - money-driven - plain dumb Who want's that? There are exceptions though

Coldwater · Answer

I mean it’s all preferential. The best types of girls are the ones who can take care of herself and others and remain humble.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Should have had an option for A & B, as I think the votes wouldn't be divided between those 2 options.

bente2 · Answer

I don’t think being down to earth has anything to do with being high maintenance.. i’m down to earth, but i’m still pretty high maintenance.

wankiam · Answer

we have a lot of our own shit to sort so its good when a girl can sort hers too. that way we can have much more fun when together

MrA1996 · Answer

Who says men are not attracted
They do but they know that how much they can afford
There may be cases that girl of rich family fall in love with boy of middle class family or poor family
But they have to make very hard attempts to make it happen

Guanfei · Answer

Because those girls cost A LOT, and in general, excepted a certain physical sexiness, they're shallow, and vain.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys like the look of high maintenance but not actually hanging out

Crankor · Answer

Why exactly would a guy want a high maintenance girl? Guess there is different meaning of such but to me it means they think they are more important than they are and want everything done for them. No interest whatsoever in that

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are afraid they can't ever please them

claw09 · Answer

Because "high-maintenance" is just a weird way of saying "5-year old child" or "gold digger." And we don't like to to care of children that aren't ours.

Bigdaddyslim01 · Answer

Hi.. High maintenance girls are usually full of shit Bye

VV3ZZY · Answer

It depends how they act when they dont get that "maintainance."

Lucidi · Answer

It's probably so much work that it isn't even worth it.

Kuraj · Answer

"High maintenance" to me implies a female who sees relationships as one-way arrangements in which the males are supposed to cater to her while she offers them nothing in return.

animus1988 · Answer

bitch better be a victorias secret angel if she's gonna refer to herself as "high maintence"

JinnRose · Answer

High maintenance = bratty = spoiled = selfish = horrible human

Anonymous · Answer

They complain too much and are whiney so I bet that gets annoying

johnboymuscles · Answer

I want face in their arse but how can i do that when they have their own head so far up their?

InTimoreDei · Answer

They're annoying, whiny, bratty, have expensive tastes and they use men a lot of the time.

Nice222 · Answer

High maintenance girls have just never been my type. To me they never seem to have fun and cannot be spontaneous.

windluv3r · Answer

I think it's best to get to know the girl before discriminating.

Kiels01 · Answer

Yeah can't stand them, whiney, bitchy, self obsessed, materialistic - these traits are not things i would look for in a girlfriend

Jessington · Answer

I don't want spoilt kids. Or be with someone who thinks they deserve everything. People like that care about themselves too much.

MyNewAccount109 · Answer

The only difference between a high maintenance woman and an dog off the street would be tjat the dog would actually be worth the time and effort.

mac_daddy416 · Answer

Gold digger is another word used in the ghetto world. Ya'all making is sound so just with policatically correct b. s

Gludiusmax · Answer

High maintenance mean whiney and bitchy to get their way. At least that what I think. That would be a reason not to like them but I'm sure there are men out there that like them.

Dxk007 · Answer

High maintenance girls seem out of the league and, seem difficult to impress. They believe, they probably wouldn't be able to make her happy and, they'll get lectured over things.

soccerchick4eva · Answer

High maintenance.. high standards that dont even make sense? haha

Anonymous · Answer

I am sure you can get any man you like , Im a lesbian and I think you are gorgeous but hey you like man and I respect that.

oldguyincanada · Answer

Hotness is not forever. High maintenance might be forever.

TheBigTitan · Answer

They tend to be lazy spoiled cunts feeling like they're the boss and therefore they don't have to do shit.

RohitLakra · Answer

I've got no money yet to treat her like a queen. I'll sure go to a high maintenance girl, but I need 4 years time😊

ernest1 · Answer

Adonknow, but I think the general notion of "they ain't always satisfied" always wanting to be on top no matter what it takes as if it was them birthright

Duke1985 · Answer

As long as she pays for her own bullshit, she can have all the maintenence issues she wants.

madgoat · Answer

The perception is that they are takers. Most people want give and take.

The_Upside · Answer

Expessive and seem self centred I love simple girls

soleil2666 · Answer

Too pricey, in energy and hence money. And most likely insecure, else they'd be just a pretty easy going girl next door, the best type.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Too much drama, too much complaining, too much of a princess syndrome, takes forever to get ready, never on time, yadda, yadda, yadda.

Himig_Ng_Pag-ibig · Answer

They choose to be not wise with money. It's choice, humans are expensive to run. They make it unnecessary to be even more expensive.

pleassurezone · Answer

Cuzz I as a guy likes a woman that is not prissy that can get dirty and don't mind it.

Irishmaistru · Answer

It's because being high maintenance doesn't reflect the lifestyle choices of the vast majority of people who grew up without the benefits of a middle to upper class life style

Myquietsoul · Answer

Don't have time for the attitude or entitled mindset

Pluto4prez · Answer

Because men don't like spending time with someone who makes them feel like they're doing all the work in a relationship.

sidvt · Answer

Because guys have their own problems to solve and they know those girls are beyond range n they can maintain them unless he is same range

Anonymous · Answer

If I was a male, I wouldn't be either, most of them pppsssh!

Rangers · Answer

That's like saying "why don't people drive cars that don't work"

britpop · Answer

I don't know maybe someone should tell high maintenance girls that haha

WhiteKnight2 · Answer

I don't think High Maitance nessesarly means their gold diggers.

Presidentt · Answer

Am I the only one who read this question and translated it to: Gold Digger?

lala_ray · Answer

Annoying... you have to compermise in everything I don't like that

OfDeath · Answer

It's a combo of A and B They also tend to get themselves into a lot of debt.

dizmuhjam · Answer

Cause she's dating me and not my Money.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because they expect those high maintance girls won’t take care of herself and expects the guy to do that.

YoungOlSkool · Answer

High maintenance chicks Usually give low Relationship Performance due to the assholes who keep up the high maintenance but don't require anything.

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