"they think the high maintenance girl is hot" Not really. There's nothing about high maintenance that makes a girl inherently more attractive. Maybe it's a indirect consequence of being more physically fit or something like that because of higher standards (or because being physically fit makes her feel entitled), but it's not *being high maint' itself* that has anything positive about it.
So yeah, they're too expensive -- unjustifiably so -- and that's annoying. It's unattractive when they lack a sense of humility, even more so when they lack even a sense of fairness. It's just a fancy kind of asshole. Down to earth is obviously just better. Why would men be attracted to high maint'?
because high maintenance girls say one thing and do another thing, and care only about popularity, and it look stupid, noone like that type of girls, only who like high maintenance girls will only use them and then leave them, there is not diffrent beetween normal and high maintenance girls, thats thing in u brain when u think ur more important then another girl only cuz you have 100 likes more or 1000 followers more , thats stupid.
I think ideal is somewhere in between the two extremes there. Lazy, not caring or indecisive girls are as bad as outright annoying, needy girls who can’t pay for their own lifestyle.
To me it seems that if a girl is high maintenance, then she comes off more self conceited, which of course you want equal attention, attraction, and affection shared between the two instead of the girl focusing on herself.
I think "high maintenance" is a product of wealth and beauty. So, it follows that men will think they are hot. But, "high maintenance" women tend to be very selfish, demanding, and entitled, and thats just not good for a relationship.
High maintenance girls are like... expensive sport cars that demand their own maintenance team and factory. Fabulous to drive around but will give you stomach aches when you total the bills.
That's why a lot of people just rent those cars for a day or two unless they are ultra rich. Like escorts or sugar babies.
High maintenance girls are too much of a headache. And that's because "high maintenance" isn't just about looks, it's probably more about behavior than anything else.
You answered your question in your question.. Would you rather deal with someone high maintence, who must look 115% everytime they go out, so the waste money on excess makeup, spend hours in the bathroom getting ready, has so many clothes they need more than a closet/dresser for them? High maintence girls are just.. high maintence. It's frustrating, especially when most of them tend to be petty rich girls, who are using daddy's wallet.
Down to earth girls. I consider myself one of these... at least not high maintence. Idc about makeup. I brush my hair. Wear clothes that fit. I pay for everything myself, I can support myself. I've been through some things, the world hasn't been sheltered to me. So I'm able to relate better to people. I'm not going to spend hours in the bathroom every morning.
I'm not high maintenance at all. i have a girlfriend who is extremely high maintenance dresses like those trophy wives but when we go out men aren't interested in her. which surprised me bc they were more so into me. im more of a tomboy/boho type. i didn't think guys were interested in me over the high maintenance Kim k type
I think it's because when you'rr high maintenance, regardless if you're a guy or a girl, people tend (and you can't blame them) to get intimidated. And feel like you're out of their league.
I wonder what I am! Cause I definitely would want my guy to have an abundance of time for me but I don't need to be showered with money or expensive stuff (except a truck load of Snickers lol).
If you’re paying for her “high maintenance needs” then I totally get it but if she’s a good person and pays for herself than I don’t think that there’s an issue, but what do I know? I’ve only had my nails done professionally once
I'd take a down to earth girl who is willing to love me til the end of our lives over high maintenance girls 9 out of 10 times. Simply because love shouldn't be hard. Plus no one wants a girl who is "gold digging."
There's certainly no general statement to make about liking or disliking... if she's a sweetheart it's okay for her to be high maintenance :D But being high maintenance is not an attractive feature I think. So I voted D.
HMG are selfish and do not return any favors and it gets old REAL quick. And just cuz you have a pretty face doesn't mean your soul isn't ugly AF. A women who returns love makes her man trust her and builds her up. A relationship is like a bridge you support each other and never fall down.
Omg they r annoying AF I have high maintaince friends and holly fuck holly fuck they r nooo fun" I can't too dirty too far too far my nails " always too smthg just get down and dirty and live abit
They are was too self absorbed, even if she was Paris Hilton and can support herself. There are better things to spend time at than catering to a whining brat.
@scarlet he has somewhat of a point. are their guys out there who like u for u? possibly but the whole reason I posted this question is bc my girlfriend is high maintenance. she's beautiful but guys act like they want something serious with her. once they get sex they ditch her.
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"they think the high maintenance girl is hot"
Not really. There's nothing about high maintenance that makes a girl inherently more attractive. Maybe it's a indirect consequence of being more physically fit or something like that because of higher standards (or because being physically fit makes her feel entitled), but it's not *being high maint' itself* that has anything positive about it.
So yeah, they're too expensive -- unjustifiably so -- and that's annoying. It's unattractive when they lack a sense of humility, even more so when they lack even a sense of fairness. It's just a fancy kind of asshole. Down to earth is obviously just better. Why would men be attracted to high maint'?
because high maintenance girls say one thing and do another thing, and care only about popularity, and it look stupid, noone like that type of girls, only who like high maintenance girls will only use them and then leave them, there is not diffrent beetween normal and high maintenance girls, thats thing in u brain when u think ur more important then another girl only cuz you have 100 likes more or 1000 followers more , thats stupid.
I think ideal is somewhere in between the two extremes there. Lazy, not caring or indecisive girls are as bad as outright annoying, needy girls who can’t pay for their own lifestyle.
To me it seems that if a girl is high maintenance, then she comes off more self conceited, which of course you want equal attention, attraction, and affection shared between the two instead of the girl focusing on herself.
I think "high maintenance" is a product of wealth and beauty. So, it follows that men will think they are hot. But, "high maintenance" women tend to be very selfish, demanding, and entitled, and thats just not good for a relationship.
High maintenance girls are like... expensive sport cars that demand their own maintenance team and factory. Fabulous to drive around but will give you stomach aches when you total the bills.
That's why a lot of people just rent those cars for a day or two unless they are ultra rich. Like escorts or sugar babies.
High maintenance girls are too much of a headache. And that's because "high maintenance" isn't just about looks, it's probably more about behavior than anything else.
You answered your question in your question.. Would you rather deal with someone high maintence, who must look 115% everytime they go out, so the waste money on excess makeup, spend hours in the bathroom getting ready, has so many clothes they need more than a closet/dresser for them? High maintence girls are just.. high maintence. It's frustrating, especially when most of them tend to be petty rich girls, who are using daddy's wallet.
Down to earth girls. I consider myself one of these... at least not high maintence. Idc about makeup. I brush my hair. Wear clothes that fit. I pay for everything myself, I can support myself. I've been through some things, the world hasn't been sheltered to me. So I'm able to relate better to people. I'm not going to spend hours in the bathroom every morning.
Which sounds better to you?
I'm not high maintenance at all. i have a girlfriend who is extremely high maintenance dresses like those trophy wives but when we go out men aren't interested in her. which surprised me bc they were more so into me. im more of a tomboy/boho type. i didn't think guys were interested in me over the high maintenance Kim k type
Yet like I said, you answered your question already. Low maintence is easier than high maintence.
I answered my own question. ok your point is? I'm not supposed to post it? lol bye
I think it's because when you'rr high maintenance, regardless if you're a guy or a girl, people tend (and you can't blame them) to get intimidated. And feel like you're out of their league.
It's B. What man in his right mind desires to be with a woman that thinks her $*** doesn't stink?
High maintenance woman tend to be arrogant and selfish which is a turn off.
A pretty face and body will only get you so far til someone gets tired of your BS.
I wonder what I am! Cause I definitely would want my guy to have an abundance of time for me but I don't need to be showered with money or expensive stuff (except a truck load of Snickers lol).
If you’re paying for her “high maintenance needs” then I totally get it but if she’s a good person and pays for herself than I don’t think that there’s an issue, but what do I know? I’ve only had my nails done professionally once
I'd take a down to earth girl who is willing to love me til the end of our lives over high maintenance girls 9 out of 10 times. Simply because love shouldn't be hard. Plus no one wants a girl who is "gold digging."
There's certainly no general statement to make about liking or disliking... if she's a sweetheart it's okay for her to be high maintenance :D
But being high maintenance is not an attractive feature I think.
So I voted D.
Most men like the LOOK of a high maintenance woman!
But dealing with a woman that takes FOREVER to go out for the most basic of things, can be a chore.
HMG are selfish and do not return any favors and it gets old REAL quick. And just cuz you have a pretty face doesn't mean your soul isn't ugly AF. A women who returns love makes her man trust her and builds her up. A relationship is like a bridge you support each other and never fall down.
Omg they r annoying AF I have high maintaince friends and holly fuck holly fuck they r nooo fun" I can't too dirty too far too far my nails " always too smthg just get down and dirty and live abit
Yepp. They just care about themselves and nothing else.
If they think its hot they are attracted.
But people have lines and standards. If high maintenance has her high standards. So do her men.
If she dosent meet his standards, he will not bother with her
They are was too self absorbed, even if she was Paris Hilton and can support herself. There are better things to spend time at than catering to a whining brat.
I dont know either, i am pretty high maintnence but also hot and guys always want me
They want your ass. Nothing else.
No they dont
Yes they do. They just don't say it.
They want more from me than my body
Ah, my sweet summer child. I wish I was still as naive as you are. It's cute.
😂😂 I know
Im not naive, guys like you only just want sex from hot girls and when they turn you down you call them high maintnence
Being mad for learning the truth isn't cute, little one.
@scarlet he has somewhat of a point. are their guys out there who like u for u? possibly but the whole reason I posted this question is bc my girlfriend is high maintenance. she's beautiful but guys act like they want something serious with her. once they get sex they ditch her.