My crush has NO social media?

[Anonymous]

Like no instagram, no facebook, no twitter. Nothing. He only has whatsapp.
He talks to me in private but not in public and avoids me entirely when he's around people who know him.

Is this a sign of a private guy?

[WhoDatGuy]

Whilst I hate social media this guy sounds taken. Ask to go your his house or meet his family. Bet he shits himself!

[Asker]

How does he sound taken? If he's taken then why is he talking to me when he sees me alone?

[WhoDatGuy]

The fact he only talks to you alone. That ain't shyness, that's compartmentalising girls. Damn that's the biggest word I know!

[Davidx1]

Yes, he likes to live his life more privately

[billy5432135]

I don't have any kind of social media either. It seems weird that he avoids you in real life though.

[Asker]

He talks to me in private

[billy5432135]

It sounds like he is just extremely shy.

[Anonymous]

It is a sign of a guy who doesn't want you to participate in his life and want's to hide you from someone or maybe even from a group of people.

[najekim]

Very private not wanting to leave a digital footprint.

[JackD1984]

Yes... The fact that he chooses things that enhance his privacy is a sign he's a private guy.

[anmari2001]

Its a sign of he might be using you

[Asker]

How is he using me?

[anmari2001]

I don't know but why he would hide you from his frinds

[Eirletherail]

These are signs of insecurity. Be careful.

[Asker]

How insecure

[Eirletherail]

Hard to say with so little information. He doesn't talk to you in public and never around people he knows is a potentially very bad sign. Do you know what his friends are like?

[Asker]

Why is it a bad sign?

Well he doesn't really have close friendships. He talks to loads of people. All are left wing highly political people who are extremely involved in politics and human rights and he along with his friends are literally the ones making up the students union and political societies

[Eirletherail]

Because it means he's either hiding you or hiding his feelings. You deserve better than someone that is ashamed of you or his feelings for you.

[Asker]

Is it because he feels I am common? Unlike his friends and him? Like how forward and in limelight they all were/are? Or he's just a private person who feels we share feelings for one another so he doesn't want to talk as we aren't friends

[Dinnye001]

Bullshit. Keeping your private life private is NOT insecurity.

Not having social media is NOT insecurity.

The only shifty thing here is the avodiance part.

[Eirletherail]

It's the avoidance part that makes me think insecurity. If I didn't word explain that well enough I'm sorry.

[Eirletherail]

His choices don't define you. Whatever he thinks has nothing to do with the amazing person you are.

[Asker]

Insecurity about what? He's a good looking guy. He knows I like him back. So he has nothing to fear. Or is he just insecure and unsure about himself and his abilities?

[Eirletherail]

I don't know the guy so I can't say for certain. My advice is not to shun him or avoid him like the plague. I simply advise caution.

[Dinnye001]

I have no social media either. So what?

[Anonymous]

It's the sign of a guy who has a girlfriend.

[Asker]

Lol how?

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't want any ties to you outside of the whatsapp because that way no one he knows, will know you are involved and you won't see anything he is involved with.

[Asker]

Did you even read the question? Social media has nothing to do with my experience with him.

I said he doesn't talk to me in publoc and when we are together, he talks.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you even read the response? You asked why he doesn't have social media and I explained why. He doesn't have it because doing so would allow people to see what he is up too.
Therefore he only talks to you in private and having whatapp allows him to have conversationed in private as well, whether it's with you or not.

[Tuned]

Maybe shy too