I’m a girl and I’m 17 and no guy has ever liked me or asked me out. I know it’s probably cause I’m ugly and antisocial but I still don’t understand how no one has ever liked me. I feel so shitty and left out. It feels like everyone else has relationships and sex and people liking them but me. I know I’m only 17 but it feels like everyone else my age and younger than me gets to experience these things. Even my best friend that’s 15 has guys liking her now. Am I really that ugly or could there be other reasons too
Why has no one ever liked me?
What Guys Said 9
What are you comparing yourself to that makes you call yourself ugly? I'm pretty sure people have had crushes on you and never said anything. After high school a girl told me she liked me since junior year and I didn't understand why because I was sure I was a hot pile of crap at the time (which I actually was tbh). So trust me, there's someone that does, you probably just need to try and socialize more.1
You could just be oblivious to the things about yourself. It's normal for people to overlook themselves and focus more on the ones around them.0
Its you being anti social, i was anti social and i still had girls that liked me but it was only the girls that were friends that i talked too0
Clearly you haven't found the right person for you. They will indeed come around when you least expect it.0
Don't give up i didn't get my first girlfriend or sex until i was 18 sex isn't everything just let it happen naturally and dont stress about it0
I wouldn't worry about it, girl. I'm sure you're attractive. It's all relative0
Trying to look at your self and think: "Which part of me am I currently unsatisified with". Make a list and see what you can work on. Antisocial? Try getting into things that interests you. That way you can interact with people you share interest in. Apperance? Well I can't guaratee you a career as a model but work on your posture in general, your clothes, your hygenes your diet (DON'T STARVE YOURSELF I MEAN EAT HEALTHY). Work on your problems slowly at a pace you are comfortable with.
Finally, don't worry about not meeting someone yet. Some people takes a bit to meet someone they like.0
Maybee you just think your ugly but really not0
Honestly I didn't get into my first relationship until I was 20 but I'm not ugly or antisocial I'm just oblivious to social cues like when someone's trying to flirt or something like that. Put yourself out there and if you see someone you like tell them and if you just want to have sex, not that I recommend that, just ask someone you'd want to have sex with0
What Girls Said 2
You're being too hard on yourself. Who says you're ugly? What do you mean by antisocial?
None of us look like photoshopped models, and lots of us are shy about getting into conversations. Just wait your time and the right guy will suddenly appear one day.
You don't have to be like your friends and having relationships and sex. When I was your age I'd had neither of those.1
You're only 17, give it some time. I didn't get asked out until I was 18.0
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