It's okay to feel the way you do. I personally don't do cat calls. I do get a thought in my head about how beautiful a woman looks but I don't say or do anything to show disrespect to them. Of course I'm shy around women and second I was taught to respect women.
Women sowed the seeds of their own destruction when they collectively shunted well-behaved men for boisterous, chest-beating, loud-mouthed, neck tattooed scumbags.
You get what you got. Too bad females can't accept responsibility for their choices. Now they're just stuck with men progressively becoming more and more disrespectful toward them.
Breed with only good men now and you will see a difference in 10 years.
It's definitely NOT socially acceptable, but it is unfortunately fairly common. I don't know about your area, but unfortunately with Trump in office in the US, a lot of those who do it feel empowered by someone who was on record being completely inappropriate being president, almost as if it gives them carte blanche to be complete jerks and the world should be ok with it.
It's never been acceptable. It's just done by the same minority of assholes who just couldn't give a shit. They tend to do it a lot and more often then guys who have manners which is why you don't notice it a lot.
Catcalling only happens after clubs or bars. No guy in his right mind would catcall in broad daylight. Alcohol and party spirit have a lot to do with it.
Women make inappropriate comments to men all the time it's just noticed more by women as they are more insecure.
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I bet it would be fun, next time you are with a group of your girlfriends to mess with some guy walking alone, whistle at him, yell “I do you so hard you don’t even know!” And shit like that... if I could magically turn into a girl for 24 hours I’d likely end up on the news, ha
It’s been “okay” a lot longer than that. But the interesting part is when the cat callers are questioned about the women in their own life being spoken to that way they mostly all agree it would upset them.
... yes. As the demographics of both the west coast as well as the east coast change and a certain culture becomes far more populous, the idea of what once was seen as inappropriate behaviour (especially in respect to women) is changing as well.
Catcalling in general annoys me. If you want to express on how you find a girl attractive then compliment her without it being sexual or you whistling in the process.
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It’s becoming LESS socially acceptable. They nastiest comments and groping in my life has always come from men born in the 60s & 70s who all think they’re Burt Reynolds.
Growing up where I did, I've never seen a guy actually be courteous to a woman, so I would say the generalization is fairly true. On another note though I must say that it's not socially acceptable, these "men" just don't care what people think if they have the tiniest chance of getting pussy.
It is common but it shouldn't be. Not all societies agree with it, but most have kind of accepted that it is something that will remain in the society, and it is so sad.
Nah it's not. Some do it just for fun but most are just loosers who want to annoy you. They pertinently know you won't sleep with them. In both cases you should just ignore them, maybe it's not easy but that's the only thing to do in my opinion.
comments can be accept in streets or everywhere.. if you wanna Talk you can go ahead n tell her but dont comments with anyone or alone.. think about your sisters or cousins too if they had to face these comments.. 😕
Men Who does that are fucking assholes, I think they should make a law about this, That whoever catcalls any women would be arrested, or pay a heavy fine, because its a asshole thing to do.
Tbh the man who told you so was right... he just informed you that your underwear is visible... but in general whenever i hear or see a man making inappropriate comments to a woman i cringe
We have been told time and time again that Females do not like being Catcalled which is understandable but We have also been told that most Girls want a Guy to be Confident and approach you Girls so that's why us Guys don't approach you anymore or even bother interacting with you and that's why there are still Guys who Catcall Females but I know that is no excuse by any means.
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It's okay to feel the way you do. I personally don't do cat calls. I do get a thought in my head about how beautiful a woman looks but I don't say or do anything to show disrespect to them. Of course I'm shy around women and second I was taught to respect women.
Women sowed the seeds of their own destruction when they collectively shunted well-behaved men for boisterous, chest-beating, loud-mouthed, neck tattooed scumbags.
You get what you got. Too bad females can't accept responsibility for their choices. Now they're just stuck with men progressively becoming more and more disrespectful toward them.
Breed with only good men now and you will see a difference in 10 years.
Hey, this really inspired me to make a mytake about this! This is the mytake: Why do some men find it socially acceptabe to catcall or any kind of street harassment? ↗ eptabe-to-catcall-or-any-kind-of
I don't think this is socially acceptable. If it was the other way round, women catcalling men, they wouldn't like it!
It's definitely NOT socially acceptable, but it is unfortunately fairly common. I don't know about your area, but unfortunately with Trump in office in the US, a lot of those who do it feel empowered by someone who was on record being completely inappropriate being president, almost as if it gives them carte blanche to be complete jerks and the world should be ok with it.
It's never been acceptable. It's just done by the same minority of assholes who just couldn't give a shit. They tend to do it a lot and more often then guys who have manners which is why you don't notice it a lot.
Which is why you don't notice it not happening a lot*
Catcalling only happens after clubs or bars. No guy in his right mind would catcall in broad daylight. Alcohol and party spirit have a lot to do with it.
Women make inappropriate comments to men all the time it's just noticed more by women as they are more insecure.
I bet it would be fun, next time you are with a group of your girlfriends to mess with some guy walking alone, whistle at him, yell “I do you so hard you don’t even know!” And shit like that... if I could magically turn into a girl for 24 hours I’d likely end up on the news, ha
It’s been “okay” a lot longer than that. But the interesting part is when the cat callers are questioned about the women in their own life being spoken to that way they mostly all agree it would upset them.
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... yes.
As the demographics of both the west coast as well as the east coast change and a certain culture becomes far more populous, the idea of what once was seen as inappropriate behaviour (especially in respect to women) is changing as well.
Catcalling in general annoys me. If you want to express on how you find a girl attractive then compliment her without it being sexual or you whistling in the process.
It’s becoming LESS socially acceptable. They nastiest comments and groping in my life has always come from men born in the 60s & 70s who all think they’re Burt Reynolds.
Growing up where I did, I've never seen a guy actually be courteous to a woman, so I would say the generalization is fairly true. On another note though I must say that it's not socially acceptable, these "men" just don't care what people think if they have the tiniest chance of getting pussy.
It is common but it shouldn't be. Not all societies agree with it, but most have kind of accepted that it is something that will remain in the society, and it is so sad.
It's also important to distinguish between catcalling and complementing
@guydude42 true, and some random guy making inappropriate remarks isn't a compliment :)
Nah it's not.
Some do it just for fun but most are just loosers who want to annoy you. They pertinently know you won't sleep with them. In both cases you should just ignore them, maybe it's not easy but that's the only thing to do in my opinion.
comments can be accept in streets or everywhere.. if you wanna Talk you can go ahead n tell her but dont comments with anyone or alone.. think about your sisters or cousins too if they had to face these comments.. 😕
I feel like it’s always been socially acceptable to catcall and sexually harass women.
I think now it’s starting to become unacceptable. Finally.
It's definitely getting much better for women
@guydude42 it’s taken long enough
You're so right
Men Who does that are fucking assholes, I think they should make a law about this, That whoever catcalls any women would be arrested, or pay a heavy fine, because its a asshole thing to do.
pay a heavy fine?
are you serious?
just a fine
I think we should ban just you from speaking
It’s now illegal in France, apparently.
Servus... who?
Tbh the man who told you so was right... he just informed you that your underwear is visible... but in general whenever i hear or see a man making inappropriate comments to a woman i cringe
He didn’t just inform me, he then went on to say that my panties looked hot and he liked that he could see them.
We have been told time and time again that Females do not like being Catcalled which is understandable but We have also been told that most Girls want a Guy to be Confident and approach you Girls so that's why us Guys don't approach you anymore or even bother interacting with you and that's why there are still Guys who Catcall Females but I know that is no excuse by any means.