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Well if a woman doesn't need me, I won't be with her for long.
I am attracted to a women that is cooperative, collaborative, but can be independent when necessary.
Both.. They want to know you have your own life aside from them yet they want to know they're needed.
I don't mind, if they don't have friends then it's cool because it would just be me and her :):):) but if I love her I would just want her to be happy so if she has annoying friends then that's ok
I think most people like a mix but if I had to choose one or the other I'd choose independent
Depends. Both have merits. Both, in extreme, are unpleasant.
Dependend if it comes to causual sex, independent for serious relationships
A little of both in a woman would be preferable.. one that likes to be taking care of and when bored will bring in 10grand at a time haha
Independent, they usually have more confidence, I dont have to worry about not having personal time because she'll probably want some too.
Doesn' really matter just load them up in the truck and I'll pick them up as long as she can cook
a bit independent when needed for practicality and its nice if she can cook and clean but otherwise DDLG all the way
I'm attracted to:
- People that are nice and caring towards me.
- Are self driven, and have critical thinking.
I say it needs to be a bit of a mix. Not so dependent that she can't go anywhere without you. But not so independent to the point we feel unwanted. Somewhere in between.
I would like one that is both because it’s great to know that they won’t always be begging me to do things but they also know that I’m there if they need anything
INDEPENDENT definitely. And prolly a few years older than me. That's gonna perfect. And i know one like that and we are good friends but nothing more 😔
Independent for sure. I think girls should have pride of financial independence from men. I don't have problem if they are emotionally dependent on men.
Independent women that keep that feminine vibe, are always the best. :)
Dependent. Independent women make men feel like they aren't that important
guys are more attracted to women who loves her man and listens to her. Both love each other immensly so it does nt matter whether the women is dependant or indepandant. As a man i think Man should take care of women.
Im more attracted to independent wiman whonlike doing thier own thing
Of I dated a dependent women we’d probably both be dead 😂
Lmao
Better not date me
😂😂
Most of the " men " want a " women " who can rule them but in nice way.. But guys like to be with dependent girl who can rely on them whenever she is in need.. But men appriciates the women who knows when to be dependent and when to be independent
Independent. Guys really hate having to be the one holding someone up
I'm attracted to a girl with a great personality and knows what real love is all about.
It's very attractive to see an independent woman but sometimes guys need to be useful to the girl so depends
I like my women to have a good head on their shoulders and if they need to lean on me I'm happy to lend a shoulder
I appreciate why some woman want to be independent but I love a dependent women because I have the chance to do more for her if that makes sense
what? I bet you’re the same kind of guy who also complains about women wanting to marry you for your money...
@maiave all I said is that if I love my girl I wanna do more for her, I'd like her to depend on me... so I don't know what you mean
Independent for sure... but i don't mind. I am just happy to know string characters that still aren't admiring themselves too much...
Independent. More likely to be smart, melee decent money, and be picky with men.
I need a girl to be picky, otherwise I feel they might cheat.
A womann who CAN make it on her own if it's REALLY needed, but USUALLY needs someone to depend on, and who PREFERS to rely on me.
There is trouble to be had on both ends of the spectrum. Ideally for me, my woman should have the will and soul to express herself in her own life, but still show the bond that should be there
Independent (Always)
Not only because they can work and bring some money home, but if some crisis goes in the family she can properly understand and can act according to it.
Both. I like a girl that goes out and does her thing, but knows that I will have her back when things go south.
Most of the time this excludes woman who try to act like men.
If u give a chance for a guy to do something for u...(case of being dependent) he would love to do that... which makes bonding more stronger. If she is independent it would be LIKED but not LOVED.
Independent but they seem like a rare breed. I keep hearing about them but I never meet any of them.
I prefer independent women. I don't need to raise a child.
Independent women for me. I'm kinda submissive myself
Independence is great, but being dependent is fine if she tries and I have what it takes to help.
Well no one is 100% independent and everyone is a bit dependant. So a nice balance of both 👍
Somewhere in the middle. Too depedant comes off as clingy but too independent has a higher chance of cheating.
Mix of both not so independent she just uses me for sex but not so dependent she can’t fix something simple that breaks
Independent for me. Dependant woman make me feel more important and I like to feel equal to my significant other.
A mix depending on the circumstances. I'm attracted to girls that are able to do things themselves, but when you're in a relationship you (and your partner) are expected support the other person.
Either way, it doesn't matter. Just be who you are and do what you do.
Bit of both! Its nice to have someone who can support themselves but its also nice to feel needed!
Both. I want to feel needed bit i like her to do her own thing too
I’m also into girls, and I find it really attractive when they are independent.
yes.. everyone looks attractive when they r independant.
its enjoying the perks of ur life
Independent cuz I'm too lazy to care for a dependent girl
as the great little boosie said "I N D E P E N D A N T."
Only into independent women, not some dependent bimbo
I like an independent woman that knows what she wants doesn't take shit from no one and doesn't have to depend on no man
Normally to rich woman no matter who is she, if she is independant and poor no one would ever take her seriousely
How come you say this?
@Miss_missy77 from my personal experience
When guys speak is totally different than what they believe
I certainly agree to some extent. As I have experienced this myself... but there are guys out there who dont fall in this category. I wouldn't believe myself unless I experienced. I have a history of attracting the type of men you're referring to and I think my strong personality had a lot to do with it. I think men are intrigued by independence, but if its coupled with a strong personality, it could be overwhelming them. I think that's why some men like a bit of dependence in the mix, it doesn't hurt their Male egos nearly as much. I'm not saying all men are like this... I can already feel the negative Male responses coming my way lol. Most men who are attracted to me just want to be taken care of, and that's how I felt about all men until I met my ex and realized there are different men out there who want a strong, independent woman regardless of status who dont expect the woman to take care of him.
Dependant actually...
An independent girl could live with or without you...
But you form a better bond with someone who needs/wants you
Honestly, it doesn't make a huge difference. There are other qualities in a woman that matter a whole lot more to me.
I prefer them to be dependent because girls that are dependent have lower self-esteem
It depends on their personality.. id chose independent woman with good personality
Independent women. I'm not here to baby sit an adult 24/7.
I'd have to say independent... Dependent can get too clingy.
Both of them because both have different qualities.
Dependent because they can spend more time with you and be closer as a couple