Guys, are you attracted to more dependent or independent women? (Page 3)

[valualty]

I dont think there is a woman on who's just one of those nowadays.

[Louisifer1988]

Independent we are a dual income house and she is way smarter and makes more then me while I kill myself at work lol she's the best

[priyansh8]

I guess it doesn't matter whether she is dependent or independent.. what matters is the relationship by the way both of them...

[GigEmAgs254]

In the middle. I feel smothered by someone who constantly demands my attention but a closed off or arrogant woman is a no go.

[kaydenmaxfield]

a little dependent but dependent enough to take care of herself

[MikeandIke]

I'd say independent but if she needs me I'll be there no matter what.

[infinitelove023]

that's cute:)

[Gramkabir]

Independent financially or career wise but dependable emotionally...

[TazWax]

Most women aren't gonna be independent in the corporate world and then turn in be dependent in the emotionally right out of the gate. It's gonna take some time.

[Gramkabir]

@TazWax Why most women arn't independent in corporate world? I don't understand...

[TazWax]

You should read the whole sentence. I finish by saying "and then be dependent in the emotionally right out of the gate," meaning that most women who are in the corporate world have to be tough because all day the are proving that they can compete with the boys. Tough people don't wear their hearts on their sleeves. Most of the time if you find a woman like that it's gonna take a while for her to even open up about her emotions let alone be dependent with them.

[Sabretooth]

Independent-but not to the point of being self-destructive

[ForrestD]

Capable, yet understanding that gender roles arn't inherently a bad thing

[stailor]

There's something about a girl who can handle her business that I find most attractive.

[NotTheOne317]

Me personally independent. Just for the fact that they are a challenge one might call impossible

[James78205]

Dependant is hot af. But some independence is necessary

[beeljo]

Doesn't really matter, as long as she checks all the other boxes such as loving and faithful.

[nathanspaghetti]

Im gay so i love a woman as my best friend who can just be the bad bitch she is

[Butchiew56]

To me it really doesn't matter as long as she is real.

[Premm619]

Independent girl as I know the value of being independent

[Kandy-Kane]

I'm looking for a sugar daddy

[Slim57]

I'm sweet like sugar if that counts

[Kandy-Kane]

@Slim57 absolutely 😘

[your_ego]

"dude she's 16" be more responsible with what u say around kids kandy. shame on u

[Kandy-Kane]

@your_ego lmao uh huh

[Miss_missy77]

mho!

[elegantprincess]

I don't need one, men spoil me either way

[JenniferAllen]

I am waiting for answers with curiosity :)

[Hapinus]

Well think you have pleanty if answers to look at lol

[Anonymous]

I like a woman who cooks and cleans.

[Blackbrowny]

I love my boyfriend who cooks... we share the cleaning :D

[Hapinus]

Lmao

[Blackbrowny]

hey trust me on this... guys might not like to cook but they are really really good at it... they just dont want us to feel bad about our attempts :D (seriously... all guys i know can cook better than me :D, ok iam horrible myself... but they are all actually at least decent :D )

[skateranon123]

That depends how hot the girl is

[Hapinus]

Shallow af

[Zion333]

True

[skateranon123]

Well I'm not saying I only go for hot girls but a good looking girl is gonna be liked regardless on how submissive or independent she is and unattractive girl will not either way.

Girls always forget that men are different to them. We are attracted to the girl mostly by her looks that's just life and the personality traits and behaviour are bonuses. A girl can like an ugly guy because he dresses well and is a good conversationalist but a guy won't like and ugly girl no matter what she does or how good or funny she is.

[averysweam]

@skateranon123 that’s not true I’ve met hot guys that date ugly woman...

[skateranon123]

@averysweam I don't know it's my experience that most girls don't know what us men find attractive.

[BlackSwanSings]

Independent. Men are dependent on women, period. An independent woman better understands that dynamic.

[deric_97]

Independant women are so damn hot.

[qwertykeyboardirldub]

Attraction doesn't work that way for men

[Hapinus]

Seems like it does
But I’m not asking about the attraction. I’m asking more which would you rather be in a relationship with. They both have pros and cons

[Cammy137]

Definitely independent

[Anonymous]

I want a woman who is not afraid to be herself

[Hapinus]

Perfect answer

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks

[bellybuttonlint]

Independent, easy. No contest!

[sixfootsix65]

Independent hands down

[christie_blithe]

Independent but still depends on me.

[Hapinus]

Hmmm... both then?

[christie_blithe]

Yah.

[Afrochick]

Dependent.

Its biological for men.

[howlyz]

I like affectionate women and feminine

[Siggy88]

In this day in age I would say yes.

[Hapinus]

To which?

[Siggy88]

To them liking it.

[Siggy88]

Sorry, to more independent women

[Hapinus]

Thank you lol

[DracoMeteor]

This is a pretty serious question

[Hapinus]

Im a pretty serious gal

[DracoMeteor]

Are you a real girl?

[Hapinus]

Pinocchio

[DracoMeteor]

I am a dependent guy

[Anonymous]

A nice balance of somewhere in the middle.

[apple24]

I am definitely a housewife... LOL

[Kablooy]

I'm attracted to the woman i love.

[Sarcastro]

Dependent. I want to feel needed

[Demised]

A mix in between. I like her to be both.

[Tohhhru]

Whichever one that doesn't care I'm broke ,😂

[CubsterShura]

Real 😂

[Tohhhru]

@CubsterShura us poor guys still want love to ok 😂

[CubsterShura]

Lol ok 😂

[COCOCHANEL]

i like some dependence

[Josh13]

Independent definitely

[rad___lad]

Dependant for most men

[DaMack999]

Both. Depends on his personality.

[TheDreamRunner]

I don't care as long as she is loyal and loving.

[Jerkuleez]

Dependent but indepent woman know how to have fun

[dave2847]

For me I need some where in than middle.

[PrettyRegular]

I can't say. Something good with both types.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Dependent as long as she's not too needy hehe

[BronzedAdonis]

somewhere in the middle

[NightOwl8801]

Independent for the most part

[Anonymous]

ofc economicly independed woman would be best

[Hapinus]

Okay that makes sense
What about emotionally dependent/independent

[Opinion Owner]

this is also good because i wouldn't want somebody make a decision depending other persons, person should have own state of mind and decision

[mebbemebbenot]

hot ones?

[Hapinus]

Let’s say they are both hot..

[mebbemebbenot]

who cares

[mebbemebbenot]

u think I think about this? like some designer retard?

[Hapinus]

Well the other 219 guys who answered this post seem to have an opinion

[mebbemebbenot]

what does that tell u

[Hapinus]

That most guys arnt shallow and they care about ones personality instead of just the way the girl looks...

[mebbemebbenot]

ok see this? I didn't even read that.

[ashu290688]

Independent women anytime..

[Maruate]

Dependent, I wanna feel needed

[pavankalyan9542]

I'm attracted to more independent woman.

[Slim57]

Dependant, tried independent. Didn't like it.

[azzntittiz]

Maybe it's because you can't spell.

[Slim57]

Maybe it's cause I dumped her cheating ass, and my phone did that

[azzntittiz]

Maybe learn how to fuck and don't blame cheating on independence.

[TripleAce]

Ohp lol
She woke up on the wrong side of the bed again...😛

[Slim57]

Maybe learn not to assume shit you have NO idea of and no-one said cheating was because of independence, it's obviously because they're a shifty human being.

[Slim57]

Shitty*

[Kandy-Kane]

@azzntittiz omfg rude AF

[Kandy-Kane]

@TripleAce fucking bitch is the problem

[TripleAce]

@Kandy-Kane 😳 oh my... never heard you talk like that before ha hahha
Interesting

[Slim57]

@Kandy-kane someone's obviously not getting fucking

[Kandy-Kane]

@TripleAce lmao when people are rude watch it lol

[azzntittiz]

@Kandy-Kane I know you're not talking to me and I have no problem getting laid, tell your friend to learn how to fuck, maybe he;ll listen to you, I'm out.

[Slim57]

So you're saying it's okay to cheat because people can't fuck?

[azzntittiz]

Life is too short for lame sex and terrible food.

[Slim57]

So why not just break up and go get it then?

[azzntittiz]

That's what I do, I actually think cheating is for cowards and people who feel trapped but still don't want their captor. This is why I don't trap myself or allow myself to be trapped.

[Slim57]

Well good for you

[azzntittiz]

Yea, sorry you got cheated on but you can't blame independence on that, you're young and shit happens. You can't just decide to date needy women because of that, this will cause new problems. Those women cheat even more, ask any man who's dated so called needy, innocent and submissive.

[Slim57]

I never once did blame it on that, I just think it's necessary for some dependence in a relationship instead of one being completely independent

[azzntittiz]

In all relationships both partners are dependent upon each other in one way or another, this is why it's a partnership. But many men want a woman that offers nothing, then when he's burdened and feeling unfulfilled he blames it on all women and not his poor choice. I'm just saying, do not choose a dependent girl because that last girl was a whore, she did what she wanted just because she could, not because of her independence.

Independence should make a woman more confident and more honest, they also wouldn't date people they don't want because they don't need your money, so it's strange she cheated.

The biggest cheaters I know are so called subs and dependents, sometimes their children aren't even their husbands' because when he goes out a lot she has time to be led by her low self esteem into infidelity, just my observation.

[ThePundertaker]

Hawt women

[Hapinus]

So like not me

[ThePundertaker]

😑😑😑😑

[RoeyD]

Both

[RoeyD]

It depends on the person

[RoeyD]

I think a mix of both can be nice somewhat

[WienerIsYummy]

I like guys

[Hapinus]

Independent or dependent guys?

[theLion92]

Independent of course!

[Zion333]

Independent, definitely

[Zion333]

Those who wish her to be dependent probably haven't had Dad to pick her up at home every time you go out