Why do guys avoid their crush?

[Anonymous]

My crush likes me and I feel like he’s avoiding me because I follow him on Instagram and he won’t follow back

[Anonymous]

Shy, scared that you don't like him. feeling like he's not good enough for you yet. Scared of doing something wrong, or making a wrong impression on you.

There are a lot of stupid things in a guys mind when he wants a girl.

If you want him, just give it a push. Smile at him when you see him, or dm him, or just approach him irl if you got more balls than he does

[Asker]

How should I start off the conversation with him?

[Opinion Owner]

Just say hi, or comment on something around you two. If someone likes you it really doesn't matter what you say.
Just don't forget to smile. Make sure he feels like you like him.

[Asker]

Gotcha thanks

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck

[andyP01]

Well, it's not that difficult, really, men are a bit stupid with those details that you do, so it's likely that he does not realize that, and in case he knows it well, we sometimes avoid the obviousness of what We feel for a girl to not seem so easy... a subtle but direct advice

[Asker]

Thank you (:

[andyP01]

Thanks you beautiful lady :3

[Wattdog]

If they truly have a crush on you and they started avoiding you it could be that 1 he s upset at something or 2 he s just really scared of approaching you , here's a story about my recent ex girlfriend , she was working at my place she wa s anew starter she was the first girl I ever approached and she was the only girl to ever get me as soon as she met me , their was this one time we had flirtful banter around work , I found out she was engaged I asked her she said yeah , the test of the day I ignored her I didn t speak to her she approached me back and said "Josh, what s up with you because I feel like since you found out I was engaged you been ignoring me , and was pissed off at me " we had a conversation she got my number we spoke on the phone as mates again she broken up with her ex , he broke up woth her I was on the phone at the time she was kicked out the house and I offered her to stay at my place she stayed at my place we got close We ended up being together and everything was amazing , she made me feel happier , what I'm basically trying to say is if this guy truly liked you , and he s annoyed at you for something silly or he s scared , I was both, approach him and see what the problem is if he speaks to you , then see were it goes he may just be scared or a little upset , because he dosnt want to ruin your life or truly likes you :)

[JustGrand]

He probably has no confidence or no history of being successful at approaching his previous crushes. It can be a thing of not wanting to get rejected again. I had a crush on a girl for two years in high school and never really had more than a couple brief conversation with her the whole time. I knew that she knew just because one of my friends told her... I later realized she wasn't interested and was actually avoiding me. I was wondering why I could never find an opportunity to feel comfortable enough to approach her too.

[bklynbadboy1]

Because he's not following you back on Instagram doesn't mean what it could be he just doesn't want to follow you. But I have avoided people I had a crush on me for and that's because I don't like feeling out of control most of the time I'm in control of what I feel. So when I'm not in control of what I feel like it.

[-Asca-]

I do that because sometimes I see how it's really obvious when someone has a crush and I'm afraid it's obvious for me too, so as a... counterpole to all the staring I guess I just ignore her sometimes so she doesn't know. Does he know that you know? In that case I guess he doesn't want to be that creepy needy annoying guy you don't like anyway.

[tysthename]

If I had a crush truly I would do the complete opposite of ignoring them when it came down to social media

[posersober]

Its vice versa, my crush is sick and tired to see my in-love-eyes when i stare at her for long

[IsmailHaniya]

He wants you to give more attention.

[valualty]

Because things work in mysterious ways

[Revolver_]

Just do

[Anonymous]

Because we're scared