Shy guys, when you like a girl, are you ever too nervous to spend time alone with her, even if it’s just to hang out? (Page 2)

[beechman2129]

I tend to be a reserved person, so I don't talk that much. When I flirt, I look at her and smile. Show that I got my eye on her. I'll say hi and try to talk to her.

[ThatGuy142]

Honestly, Im so shy that I kinda feel nervous and sick in my stomach. I have a girl i want to take to dinner (again) but it took me 5 weeks to ask the first time. So its all based on getting over the jitters (which i haven't fully😅)

[Bolbon]

Mmm if i really like her yes, several stupid reactions i got

[SaintJonesy]

Not as much if I like her. I'm nervous, but never TOO nervous to go hang out with her. But I've known a lot of women who said this was the case, although really I think they just weren't attracted to me.

[reapermancer37]

Usually in the beginning, just because you don't want to mess something up or have them lose interest because of something you did. Differs from person to person how comfortable they are in the situation

[Mayday40]

This is where approach anxiety comes into play and for myself I'm not very sure based upon the timing or if she's interested at all.

[LoneWolf23]

I'm too nervous to even talk to talk to her, I usually look away from her and don't talk when she around.

[LoneWolf23]

She is out of my league, I'm not good looking enough plus, I'm a goofy nerdy loner so why would she want me?

[LoneWolf23]

*she's

[LongFacedFish]

Yeah I'm gonna be honest, I used to get real nervous about meeting up with a girl or even asking, after some time with the person I usually feel better about it.

[goodvik]

Actually it's the opposite, shy guys feel happy sharing their feeling alone but gets nervous when people are watching them like in a public place or classroom etc.

[horizonline]

No, hanging out isn't the hard part, it's just the fear of rejection from that person. So once I know I have a chance or they like me back I am not nervous anymore

[Milliemillie]

I once had a crush on a very shy guy. He often have hints about wanting to hang out, but once he actually told me he couldn't make it. And when we saw each other he was pretty awkward and stuttered. I thought he didn't like me, byt maybe he was just too shy?

[4pple]

I like being straightforward, but in person my shyness takes over and i get extremely anxious. I try to slowly nudge myself closer over time and act calm and relaxed while slowly hinting at it

[loyalblunthonest]

Im more of a one on one person so I can be “shy” but only when i like someone and there are a bunch of people always around. You can't really be “yourself” with someone when there's a crowd. I like this girl at work but she probably doesn't know because we rarely get to talk or its interupted by some self revolving douchebag

[William-Davidson-Jr]

I'm a little shy but I still say what I need to say

[jedkawil]

If she is too pretty yeah but if she's more normal and it's casual then it's alright.

[Oddy10]

Not nervous to spend time alone with her. But nervous of a thought of what will i talk about. If a girl is talkative, its easy. :P

[choosy]

I remember in highschool I had been hanging out with a girl I liked But I only got nervous when I asked her out

[schmidty_02]

No we will hangout but be too afraid to pop the question and end up geting friend zoned cause they just think out flirting is being a nice guy

[kenworth]

Although i am somewhat shy. When in person. If i talk with a girl and we start talking about hanging out. Then I'm ok with doing that

[drakosprite]

Im a nervous wreck so if you're my friend and don't make it incredibly clear we're friends and are keen on inviting me somewhere I will live devoid of any human interaction while agonizing over wanting to change it.