Shy guys, when you like a girl, are you ever too nervous to spend time alone with her, even if it’s just to hang out? (Page 2)

Question

As a shy girl, I do this a lot but I like to hint about wanting to hang out.

Are you the same? 
Any girls like this too?

msg812 · Answer

What is the meaning of being shy, if they are not nervous for this?

roadrunner38 · Answer

I would love to hang out. Personally I just get to nervous to admit to a girl I like her.

crazynlazynhot · Answer

I'll always wait for the guy to approach. I'll show him I wanna hang out but he will have to make the efforts.

Minahh · Answer

I'm really shy and normally I don't start a conversation but when he starts I'm either fine with that or I'm not feeling very comfortable

joker_daddy · Answer

Im usually to shy but if anything ill hint to hanging out or something but normally im to shy and afraid of rejection to say anything to her like that

sameer77 · Answer

Guys can be both ways some are really forward but for me I resist, am shy to open up, I feel 85%guys are that way, but if girls open up, then most guys go with the flow

newmeinsocal · Answer

I enjoy going to read books at my local Barnes and noble. I don't invite anyone cause it dies sounds boring, . And I don't think anyone would enjoy. So I go alone a lot

ashnakag666 · Answer

Just being in her presence makes me extremely nervous

anametouse · Answer

Hints are a no go shy guys don't know how to act on them

simoncross · Answer

shy guys are bitches they are scared of a weak gender  that is easily beaten lol

Cole_Conrad · Answer

No I like to spend time alone with girls that way it's only me and her and I don't have to worry about other people judging

BossBossCross · Answer

Everyone is out of my league so I just go to the gym hoping one day maybe someone won’t think im ugly

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Oh yes, its like sitting in an exam. My heart rate is 200bpm and I can't make proper sentences or have any clear thoughts

Keimpe · Answer

It happened a few days ago, i met this cute girl, i had all the perfect words in my head, but it did not come out right. She turned me down.

mmawarrior · Answer

Yeah. Cause you like her so you dont want to do anything stupid or silly and embarrass yourself or chances of being with her

jamesdreedII · Answer

Shy guys feel more comfortable if u ask them in private and sometimes iy takes a little prying to get them to open up but watch out when u open the flood gates take it easy and enjoy the glow

aryan072 · Answer

Usually men shy and on the other hand it's our ego and fear of being rejected. That's the reason many won't take a step to cease the opportunity. We always think of IF and BUTs

bdsmwarrior05 · Answer

I learned in life that perusing the women is all part of it and to be confident in yourself I find women are more attracted to that than a guy being to shy

DerekBeck · Answer

Yes, I've had above average social anxiety for the last few years and have only dated 1 since. We brokeup because when we spent time alone, it was too awkward since I couldn't get words out.

iGatz · Answer

When I'm nervous about chilling with a girl I so nervous that I hide all my actual personality and intentions, which makes getting something like a signal across to the girl near impossible

TylerKuykendall · Answer

It varies from guy to guy. I love spending time alone with a girl I like, and I'm pretty shy.

grega239 · Answer

nope. i accept the fact that i have 0 chances and just drink my beer

ashkitten · Answer

Depends but only give hints if I'm feeling the vibes

MM442 · Answer

I'm alittle shy, I definitely would spend time alone with her and have before.

flybird21 · Answer

No I ain't shy 2 be alone with a girl I like to have some friends I love to chat with beautiful woman

TonyWilliams · Answer

Yes, at first. But as we become deeper friends I feel okay around her

LuWe22 · Answer

I'm nervous before every date for sure but once I'm in his company I relax

HanFar · Answer

Shy guys usually isn't very shy when alone with a girl.

Hasuun · Answer

Eh, nah. Used to be like that, but I grew tired of it. Shoot your shot, essentially.

warrior0345 · Answer

I just avoid the girl at all costs

the_sinner · Answer

Yeah generally I'm nervous because I'm not used to hanging out with girls that much.

pizzaman123 · Answer

Well let's see if u two are alone with no pressure from anyone y'all might be ok.

Light_98 · Answer

Yes kinda I will still spend time alone with her but I will have this feeling in my stomach

manavdhall · Answer

Some times guys become nervous when he go to first date

caseyfjones · Answer

We are all awkward until you "accidentally" keep brushing against our hand.

Prashant89 · Answer

At start maybe. But not after talking a little.. the shyness eventually goes

knowitall66 · Answer

I am shy but I listen very good for hints and if I hear right words I go for more

Ahmadoz · Answer

Yeah, sometimes I feel unsecured

KennyBrus · Answer

Yeah, for the most part

underappreciatedd14 · Answer

i do this, but it’s not very affective at all.

Remco__ · Answer

I can't even ask to hang out

secrethearts · Answer

Ur description is 100% true

Bluedream13 · Answer

Ye it can, specially when i was younger

lovelyrose12 · Answer

Only if I like him

AoiKaito · Answer

Yes...

somewheresomeway · Answer

Shy guys don’t get laid.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Yes, Of course i am the same.

TheRealQuestion · Answer

Yup, thats me.

laughinglad999 · Answer

l am a little bit shy until l get to know the girl

janardan22 · Answer

I was too nervous, never used to hang out.

Zimthewrath · Answer

No I like being blunt.

guralife · Answer

Hey Girls u live u life

Nil55das · Answer

I m scared too

maxpagal1M · Answer

great

zhanetheguy · Answer

Yes but I'm blunt and ask straight up

Phoenixza1984 · Answer

I find it difficult just to talk to her

godamn · Answer

I like girls like you cuz my ex was like that.

Slim57 · Answer

Never. I'm very unshy when it's just me and her.

abhi613w · Answer

No we spent more time

Mulubwa · Answer

Most of the time yeah

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