+1 yI think guys are pretty much just indifferent to makeup with or without unless it’s the first thing they notice about the girl’s face (In that case, it would be wayyy too much).
To us, because we are so familiar with our faces, makeup causes us to undergo a huge transformation.
For example, I have a very slightly asymmetrical jaw, and I never noticed it until I was 13 and got braces and my orthodontist brought it up. Now, ever since I was “enlightened” to this imperfection, I notice it in EVERY single picture I see of myself. I’ve told other people about it, and they swear that they can’t see anything. But it still bothers me.
Same thing with makeup. We keep covering up the same flaws that no one besides ourselves really notices, and are afraid to leave the house without mascara because we feel it makes us look “so much better.” Seriously, I have known girls who refused to go running in the dead of night in their neighborhood without eyeliner! Another friend of mine bought like more than $50 worth of special waterproof makeup to wear to the beach because she hates how she looks without it. Guys (with a few exceptions) don’t wear makeup or feel the need to wear it because they have grown accustomed to the way they look without it. Makeup really can be an addiction! The more you wear it, the more you are dependent on it. The truth is, aside from concealing pimples etc. and maybe adding a little dazzle, makeup doesn’t make a girl look BETTER, just DIFFERENT.
I don’t wear makeup all the time. When I do, it’s just enough to make me look like I do at my best without it. I’ll hide that occasional pimple, add a little color to my cheeks, and wear clear lip balm. If that’s not enough, then I’ll add a tiny bit of feathery mascara (not black for me; brown) That way I avoid the whole “omgsh she looks like a different person without her makeup!” dilemma.
I think this is honestly what most guys prefer, and I can’t think of a better way to explain the “why” of it. I hope this was helpful!31 Reply- +1 y
The same thing happened to me! My dentist said "You know.. this tooth at the front sticks in a bit.. do you want to get that fixed?" and I said "Well, I've never really noticed it." and now - I have braces to correct it! And I hate them. =/ I wish people wouldn't highlight imperfections.
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Well to me I guess depends on her.. I mean if she has flaws like an odd nose for example she might wanna add little eye shadow here and there mascara to make the attention on her eyes..but if she has a pretty face then she shouldnt hide it by make up.. specialy if the gurl has no idea how to do her make up ..some gurls do need a SERIOUS FOUNDATION layer on thier skin otherwise you can't look at them.. it all depends on HER and how she looks like with and without make up.
Honestly I guess gurls should ALWAYS do both I mean.. don't bore your guy with NO MAKE UP everday, even if he likes it...sometimes you can put a little make up on and still look cute.. id say go with BOTH10 Reply
+1 yI wear enough make-up to make myself feel confident. Never overdo it. My boyfriend was dancing with a girl at our school prom the other day, and after he'd finished we went up to the bar and I pointed out that he had a foundation mark on his shoulder and he went "Arrrgh! Why does she need to wear so much foundation!" I replied "Aren't you lucky my foundation doesn't rub on you! =P" to which he said "I know, but you clearly don't need as much as her - you're lovely without all that.."
^^ No guy wants a horrible mark on his clothes! Keep it plain and natural - and the real beauty will shine through.22 Reply- +1 y
Awwwww that's cute. your boyfriend seems really sweet =)
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He is a very kind-hearted soul. =)
+1 yMy short answer: With OUT, or with but very MINIMAL
It depends how YOU want to come across as.
Generally, girls who often wear makeup are the high maintenance, princess-like, sex appealing type. The Pros for this is sex appeal. You get quick attention. You MIGHT** appear to look like a person who is more feminine, who takes care of herself more.
The Cons is that you might be seen as high maintenance, have too much expectation, superficial, promiscuous, "cheap/trashy."
As for the girls who DO NOT wear make up. The Pros: you may be seen as down to earth, sincere, conservative, low maintenance. The cons: the guy might think you are a tomboy or not feminine enough, you may not be highlighting all of your beauty enough, so you'll appear less attractive than you should be.
But the bottom line is that it depends for every individual girl. Some look great with make up on and not so great without it. Some look great without make up and terrible with make up on. However, I generally think a girl should use minimal make up. MOST do look good with just a little on. The specifics: for shadow eye shadow, most girls enhance their eyes with this. I've seen some girls using unnatural colors, green, blue, etc, instead of the natural which is brown or a darker tone. Unnatural colors for eye shadow often make the girl look trash or unattractive. I suggest using eye shadow to a minimum and with natural color only. As for lipstick, stick to the natural/lighter colors. Don't use the black/dark colors unless you want to come across as a person who hates life. As for your eye brow, just keep it at a medium thickness and not draw it to thin.
I hope my this helps.100 Reply
+1 yAttraction can take place either way. I've been attracted to women that aren't wearing any makeup at all, just as often as those who do. The most important thing to remember is to not hide under the makeup. Highlight your own beauty and you won't be misrepresenting yourself. Middle of the road, is the best way to go if you enjoy wearing makeup.
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+1 yI think guys are pretty much just indifferent to makeup with or without unless it’s the first thing they notice about the girl’s face (In that case, it would be wayyy too much).
To us, because we are so familiar with our faces, makeup causes us to undergo a huge transformation.
For example, I have a very slightly asymmetrical jaw, and I never noticed it until I was 13 and got braces and my orthodontist brought it up. Now, ever since I was “enlightened” to this imperfection, I notice it in EVERY single picture I see of myself. I’ve told other people about it, and they swear that they can’t see anything. But it still bothers me.
Same thing with makeup. We keep covering up the same flaws that no one besides ourselves really notices, and are afraid to leave the house without mascara because we feel it makes us look “so much better.” Seriously, I have known girls who refused to go running in the dead of night in their neighborhood without eyeliner! Another friend of mine bought like more than $50 worth of special waterproof makeup to wear to the beach because she hates how she looks without it. Guys (with a few exceptions) don’t wear makeup or feel the need to wear it because they have grown accustomed to the way they look without it. Makeup really can be an addiction! The more you wear it, the more you are dependent on it. The truth is, aside from concealing pimples etc. and maybe adding a little dazzle, makeup doesn’t make a girl look BETTER, just DIFFERENT.
I don’t wear makeup all the time. When I do, it’s just enough to make me look like I do at my best without it. I’ll hide that occasional pimple, add a little color to my cheeks, and wear clear lip balm. If that’s not enough, then I’ll add a tiny bit of feathery mascara (not black for me; brown) That way I avoid the whole “omgsh she looks like a different person without her makeup!” dilemma.
I think this is honestly what most guys prefer, and I can’t think of a better way to explain the “why” of it. I hope this was helpful!
00 ReplyDepends. I like things natural (meaning not phony)... but personally a little make-up is just as nice as no make-up.
But what really catches my attention is personality. Not looks. I might go "Hey she's kinda cute!" to myself at 1st... but after talking to her after a few minutes, it's what's coming out of her mouth & what's between her ears that keeps me interested.
But like I said... it's when she comes off as being more natural is when I find her to be more attractive.40 Reply
+1 yWith as little make up as possible and look good.
The goal should be as close to a natural hot girl-next-door look (makeup wise) as possible.
Not everyone likes this, but it is the most popular among most guys (playboy strives to have their models look this way).32 Reply- +1 y
Do you know how much time, product, airbrushing energy (and maybe even surgery) goes into making those women look 'natural'? The truth is many men have no idea what goes into achieving that 'natural' look in magazines/tv. It's NOT natural. I've seen both good and bad pics of myself with make-up and without. I can look 'natural' with a full-face of makeup and you'd think all I am wearing is lipstick/eyeliner. I've also seen a pic of myself with no make-up that looked like I had blush/lipstick.
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Rainy day,Good comment.But I never said don't wear makeup(you could even wear a lot,if it is necessary for the look YOU choose.ex: playboy models,as far as I'm concerned.)Yeah you are right.But some of those girls really do have natural beauty and don't need a lot of makeup(some of them have such strong genetics they don't have to workout either).I'm not telling girls they have to be models to look good,just accentuate your own personal beauty "With as little make up as possible AND look good"
I hate make up if it's used everyday out of habit and insecurity. It's okay occasionally, but I think the natural look is the best. It makes me feel better about myself and everyone around me always compliments me and tells me that they think it's great that I don't need or want to wear it.
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+1 yIn my opinion, I think it's okay for girls to wear makeup, and they can look really good with it, as long as they don't over-do it. Make-up should be used to accent your natural features... not help you play dress up and completely change the way you look. I only wear a little bit of make-up, and by accenting my favorite features, it helps me feel better about myself. But most of the time, I don't wear make-up. It's too much work.
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+1 ySome do .. some dont..
From what I've seen, only older and well advised women know what looks good with makeup, the dress etc. The rest believe their girlfriends or some some girlie mag is an authority on the subject but they really have no idea...
Girls, if you wanna look good, ask a guy !00 Reply
+1 yI don't wear any make-up. I used to want to but when I was younger my dad told me that I couldn't haha. I was kind of upset then, but I am glad now. I mean I will wear make-up for a big dance, like prom, or something. I think girls look fake when they wear too much and after awhile it starts to make the girl age/look older, which is not in a good way!
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+1 yEspecially since this is what I read from guys anyways, minimal make-up is best. Girls with a lot of it may look like they get hit on and "liked" a lot but the reality is that guys don't like all that. That's why I make my foundation look like it's not even there but still cover my undereye circles, red skin, and blemishes, put on just a little blush, usually only wear earth tone eyeshadows and either very little eyeliner and mascara or none at all, and sheer lipcolor.
00 ReplySrry I'm not a guy, but girl, if you have natural beauty, use it!! If you have acne, blemishes, or scars or something else on your face that is bothering you, put on a little make up just to cover it up a bit.
40 ReplyI hate make up, they make my skin dry. Go for what's comfortable girl! Guys won't even notice the make up that you spent two hours on. I think they care about your inside better than your make up.
50 ReplyIt really depends on the girl but the general rule of thumb is that what makes the girl comfortable on her skin and acting confidant is what gets a guy going.
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+1 yWith makeup. every girl needs to wear makeup at least SOME makeup. if you have natural beauty you should still enhance it.
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+1 yHonestly, I see so many girls where I live put on soooo much makeup its even disgusting to look at them. They got concealer on, a bronzer, then blush. OMG I wanna punch those girls. I mean I wear makeup but not as much as Tyra Banks wears. That's really unattractive, and those girls think theyre gorgeous. echh
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Hahaha you crack me up. tyra with out make up? not a pretty picture......
Personally, I think girls are more beautiful without makeup.as long as they are not pale skinned. I'm sorry but girls who are really white. Please sunbath or something. I'm not saying y'all need to be tanned. But don't be as white as snow.
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I used to think that I would only be considered attractive if I had a tan - so sometimes either I would fake it or lay outside as much as I can. But those didn't really work because I'm naturally very pale so even a lot of tanning didn't do much. Now I've realized that I already look fine even with having pale skin and a lot of people agree. Moving to Minnesota helped where most other white people are pale but beauty comes in all different colors. Tanning beds and too much sun is dangerous.
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Haha sorry but if you ever come up to the northeast, especially new england, that is all you will find! Actually pretty much anyone who experiences actual winters will be mad pale, since we only get the chance to tan in the late spring and summer. also how about this ultimatum? would you prefer white and pale or red and burnt?
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Some people don't look good with tanned skin because it might look odd on them. I have nice ivory skin with few flaws, thank god for good genetics from my parents, and a lot of people think I look odd when my skin is darker then a few shades. Also, pale skin really compliments light colored eyes especially when paired with light to dark brown hair.
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Ik this is an old question but this is the first time I've been on in over a year. I want to apoligize if I offended anybody with my answer. It kind of ironic but I'm now dating somebody with a lighter skin tone. Sometimes she bends over to pick something up and I see the small of her back. It's white, pale, and it's also very sexy to me. Basically, I'm sorry if I said pale skinned girls were ugly, if I did I was wrong :)
+1 yWhen you look in the mirror, nothing should look powdery/creamy, everything should be smooth against your skin. Eyeliner should be right on your lash line, which is really hard. No clumpy mascara or too-bright colors.
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+1 yIt really depends on the girl, as in how pale her skin is etc., I wouldn't find her attractive if she was looking like death warmed up. Having said that, I can't stand, as a man, seeing girls caked in make-up, making them represent a cross between an oompa-loompa and a can of Fanta. If a girl carries off no make-up at all, that's incredibly sexy because she's natural. I like natural.
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+1 ydeff. without. my girl likes 2 wear makeup a lot but I fussed a little bit (kindly and politely) and she wore less and I can deal w a little bit but not enough to cover her ENTIRE face. I like her natural beauty to shine more then the makeup does, ya kno?
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+1 ylots of my guy friends prefer natural. one guy friend of mine even thought that if a girl put on a lot of makeup, it just means that she's not confident about her real looks and that she must be pretty ugly without make up.
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+1 yAll women look at least a little better with makeup on. Any one who disagrees is a liar because that makes no sense. There is no woman on earth that looks worse with makeup...
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+1 yThere is no doubt, girls look much better WITHOUT makeup. Natural girls are much more attractive then girls who cover themselves in makeup and douse themselves with perfume.
10 ReplyWoahhh NO WAY. No make up what so ever, my girlfriend wears make up I told her the second week I saw her, take it all off or don't see me ever... she wears a little here and there and I tell her your ruining it for yourself.
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What, really? That seems a bit harsh as it most likely makes her feel more confident? If my boyfriend said that to me I'd tell him to accept me for who I am or leave...
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Really? I don't know I like girls who are comfortable with their self image... yeah we all go through puberty even late in our life... pimples occur. And damn this was said by me 1 year ago! ...
Shes not my girlfriend anymore though! And I saw her once after with a lot of make up on and she remembered saying you have to admit I look good... and I honestly thought to myself, thank god I'm not dating this ugly girl. She was lookin pretty bad.
361 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. The less make up that the girl needs to look beautiful the more attractive she is to me. Usually I don't like when they have make up on, but in special cases, yes of course.
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+1 yWithout make-up all the way. Look the natural look of the female human beauty.
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Sorry. wanted to say "Love the natural look of the female human beauty."
Use makeup to enhance your beauty don't put a lot of it on to look like a clown like if you have pretty eyes use liner
20 ReplyI'm a girl but I'm gonna answer this anyways. I think that it doesn't matter wether we wear makeup or not as long as we look good.
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But too much make-up makes anyone look bad.
No make up I don't know why but its kind of a turn on it shows me that she's comfortable enough to show me what she looks like without it.
20 ReplyYea DO NOT over use make up it makes guys scream in terror.
20 ReplyA little make up when you got out, but I prefer none at all when at home. Nothing better then seeing your girl first thing in the morning
00 ReplyWell I like girls when there natural and them self's so I like them with no make up!
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+1 yI agree with the "as little as possible". Don't over do it, that just looks fake, and is usually a turn off.
I know a lot of girls that are very, very pretty, and don't wear any makeup.20 Reply
+1 yYou shouldn't wear a lot of make up maybe some eyeliner and mascara and the should be it.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yDoesn't really matter for me, whatever makes her happy. BUT, over-usage of makeup is just bad. I prefer no makeup, but that's just me.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThat is so not the truth. We notice but we don't say anything about it. Don't cake it on but a little looks great.
10 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I prefer natural, but a little makeup is okay.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWithout make-up. Natural beauty is sooo much better.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNot too much. Don't pile on the foundation and blusher.
some eyeliner and mascara helps make your eyes bigger too so make-up does help at times =)00 Replynatural
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with LITTLE make up on10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 ythey say the prefer without but I don't know...
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWithout makeup is always better... natural beauty.
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+1 yA little, no more!
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