If those are your legs and your scars then no. Obviously I'd rather you didn't have them, or feel the need to create them, but I wouldn't see them as a dealbreaker at all.
No, i am not turned off. I actually enjoy them... What I see when I look at scars are strength and resilience, regardless of the nature of the scars. As long as the person doesn't still do it, I am totally cool with them having scars.
I know I’m not a guy But I just wanted to say you have really nice legs And you shouldn’t be ashamed about your scars, if shows how strong you were to conquer your inner self, so strong that you were able to stop and hang on to life
Every scar tells a story. Everyone has scars, whether they're visible to the human eye or not. Don't listen to the haters that put you down. Even they have scars. Wear yours proudly. They're the proof of all you've survived through ❤
I would not encourage anyone to be proud of a past suicidalness or mentall illness so bad that they scarred themselves. What you are saying would be right if the origin of the scars was something to be proud of.
I'm not saying that people should be proud of the depression, abuse, and hurt they've faced. I don't encourage anyone to cut or to harm themselves in any way. Quite the opposite.
What I meant was that we've all been through and are facing our own battles. Those battles leave us scarred and bruised, but we can look at those scars, both physical and mental, and see all we've been through and what we've survived.
It's proof of poor handling of emotions and self-destructive behavior. She could have survived her depression without cutting herself, too. You could argue that the scars tie her to her past. That she handled her situation WORSE than she could have. You women have to stop blandishing EVERYTHING. She fucked up and can't change it. Period. Let those scars be an unpleasant reminder, not something to be worn proudly. If you can't see it as something negative, there's no reason to grow.
I don’t personally see it as a turn off but in fact I admire that you went through hell and back and you didn’t let that stop you and you got stronger than ever because some people don’t get out of that and they end up ending their life’s sadly and I was one of them I wanted to chug a bottle of pills and just go but I’m here so I didn’t but i admire the work, effort and strength that person has to become a better person and to love themselves
Nope there was a girl with a knife cut scar around her eyes that I really liked. a lot. I think scars give a stronger characters, I don't like being with a girl that doesn't stand out.
And anyways if you hadn't told me I'd think those are stretch marks or something. Seriously these are nothing.
Eh I'd be more concerned and hoped youd gotten help. I wouldn't be turned off by the scars I'd be be less inclined to date that person if theirs a lot of baggage. I was always helping people out and I'm just tired of helping people I need to worry about me more so that's my own personal thing
this is not a turn off my whole upper body is in strech marks , chest back shoulders , from belt upwards its too long story but my girlfriend says it does not matter to her at all , she even said it looks exciting/sexy because u never know what happend and it looks good on me even O_o and i did not say her either why i got them so i guess it depends on the person
Not a turn off, but it's tough not to see that as an indication of an angsty and tumultuous past. It could make a guy admire that you're strong and of what you've gone through and survived.
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I am not turned off by these scars but that's because I have a sister who used to cut. Not everyone has a sister who cuts and not everyone understands. She has two young boys and a loving husband now and she's in a much better place, very much like you! Stay strong!!!
most guys aren't turned off by scars unless it's an indicator of a deeper issue. yes, cutting is one of them. recommend you get help for cutting and get your own affairs in order before looking for a long-term guy.
it seems some are missing the point of you becoming stronger now and wiser in your choices in how you deal with problems. that i would think shows a tough character, mainly just the proof that you are a survivor and still willing to deal with the struggle of depression. that's not at all easy.
No. It's not a turn off. If you're a weird person like me, I will name them as battle scars and still be dating you (if I'm dating you). It's not a turn off unless that person is really. . . well.. squeamish
dated some1 whos legs looked like that. i wouldn't say its a turn off. but it did feel like i was expected to carry her emotional weight along with my own
No. They are not a turn off. It's a sign that you had some serious issues and eventually got stronger and over came them. In fact, that's actually really attractive. On a side note, you have beautiful legs. Don't be ashamed of them
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Not in and of themselves. The reason behind the scars and who you are today would be the determining factor.
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If those are your legs and your scars then no. Obviously I'd rather you didn't have them, or feel the need to create them, but I wouldn't see them as a dealbreaker at all.
No, i am not turned off. I actually enjoy them...
What I see when I look at scars are strength and resilience, regardless of the nature of the scars. As long as the person doesn't still do it, I am totally cool with them having scars.
I know I’m not a guy
But I just wanted to say
you have really nice legs
And you shouldn’t be ashamed about your scars, if shows how strong you were to conquer your inner self, so strong that you were able to stop and hang on to life
Every scar tells a story. Everyone has scars, whether they're visible to the human eye or not.
Don't listen to the haters that put you down. Even they have scars.
Wear yours proudly. They're the proof of all you've survived through ❤
I would not encourage anyone to be proud of a past suicidalness or mentall illness so bad that they scarred themselves. What you are saying would be right if the origin of the scars was something to be proud of.
I'm not saying that people should be proud of the depression, abuse, and hurt they've faced.
I don't encourage anyone to cut or to harm themselves in any way. Quite the opposite.
What I meant was that we've all been through and are facing our own battles. Those battles leave us scarred and bruised, but we can look at those scars, both physical and mental, and see all we've been through and what we've survived.
It's proof of poor handling of emotions and self-destructive behavior.
She could have survived her depression without cutting herself, too.
You could argue that the scars tie her to her past.
That she handled her situation WORSE than she could have.
You women have to stop blandishing EVERYTHING.
She fucked up and can't change it. Period.
Let those scars be an unpleasant reminder, not something to be worn proudly.
If you can't see it as something negative, there's no reason to grow.
I could waste my time arguing with you, but you're just not worth it.
I don’t personally see it as a turn off but in fact I admire that you went through hell and back and you didn’t let that stop you and you got stronger than ever because some people don’t get out of that and they end up ending their life’s sadly and I was one of them I wanted to chug a bottle of pills and just go but I’m here so I didn’t but i admire the work, effort and strength that person has to become a better person and to love themselves
Nope there was a girl with a knife cut scar around her eyes that I really liked. a lot. I think scars give a stronger characters, I don't like being with a girl that doesn't stand out.
And anyways if you hadn't told me I'd think those are stretch marks or something. Seriously these are nothing.
Eh I'd be more concerned and hoped youd gotten help. I wouldn't be turned off by the scars I'd be be less inclined to date that person if theirs a lot of baggage. I was always helping people out and I'm just tired of helping people I need to worry about me more so that's my own personal thing
this is not a turn off
my whole upper body is in strech marks , chest back shoulders , from belt upwards its too long story but my girlfriend says it does not matter to her at all , she even said it looks exciting/sexy because u never know what happend and it looks good on me even O_o
and i did not say her either why i got them so i guess it depends on the person
Not at all, we've all got scars, wheter self inflicted or not. Anyone who deems that as a deal breaker isn't worth dating anyway.
Not a turn off, but it's tough not to see that as an indication of an angsty and tumultuous past. It could make a guy admire that you're strong and of what you've gone through and survived.
I am not turned off by these scars but that's because I have a sister who used to cut. Not everyone has a sister who cuts and not everyone understands. She has two young boys and a loving husband now and she's in a much better place, very much like you! Stay strong!!!
most guys aren't turned off by scars unless it's an indicator of a deeper issue. yes, cutting is one of them. recommend you get help for cutting and get your own affairs in order before looking for a long-term guy.
The scars aren't a big deal, it's the stories behind them that define the person they are today.
it seems some are missing the point of you becoming stronger now and wiser in your choices in how you deal with problems. that i would think shows a tough character, mainly just the proof that you are a survivor and still willing to deal with the struggle of depression. that's not at all easy.
No. It's not a turn off. If you're a weird person like me, I will name them as battle scars and still be dating you (if I'm dating you). It's not a turn off unless that person is really. . . well.. squeamish
dated some1 whos legs looked like that. i wouldn't say its a turn off. but it did feel like i was expected to carry her emotional weight along with my own
The actual scars don't look too bad. The mental scars are the hardest to deal with.
Very true.
Scars would not bother me so much. Your problem would bother me. I wouldn't want to be the one who set that off again.
Honestly scars dont bother me. I got plenty from getting hurt myself. A man who cares and loves you will love you for all of you scars and all.
That's true, but most guys on this page who are saying they are turned off say it's the mentall illness that cahsed the scars, not the scars.
No. They are not a turn off. It's a sign that you had some serious issues and eventually got stronger and over came them. In fact, that's actually really attractive.
On a side note, you have beautiful legs. Don't be ashamed of them
Not in and of themselves. The reason behind the scars and who you are today would be the determining factor.