Definitely not probably because i get anxiety and have trouble approaching most people i do not know. Usually if she is not really smiling then i would steer clear or if she is frustrated with something, But even then if she was smiling i would not approach.
Well I am a sort of egotist if I feel that girl is a little arrogant about her looks I might rather step on her than approach her... thee thing is body language plays a vital role and I don't see if I just approach for a conversation why would I be rejected from talking to her and yeah having a wicked sense of humour helps you talk to any girlif I get good vibes then why would I approach her but the thing is I suck at pickup lines.
Why would I be afraid? The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Rejection happens everyday, to everyone, A LOT. It's not the fucking end of the world, your life, will, and does go on.
Not in the slightest, worst thing that can happen is she says, no. Then you remember there is plenty more fish in the sea and the earth is full of water lol
Not exactly comfortable , depends on the eye of the beholder as most say, but if thought she was attractive I'd give it a shot regardless of rejection idm. A lot of makeup , revealing clothes , a lip filler makes a girl to me unapproachable
Why does a lot of make up, revealing clothes and a lip filler make her look unapproachable? Do you find it unattractive, does she look stuck up? Is she just not someone you’d be into? I’m curious
I do find it unattractive, it just exudes insecurity and no offense but can be seen slut-like, to have a relationship with someone like that would be like being with a doll with constant glares from other men that I'm with her for her assests
You’re right it does show a form of insecurity. Girls don’t always like putting on makeup but we do it bc we think we look prettier with it on. But usually they’re only like that until you make them feel beautiful and comfortable enough to not wear it anymore, unless of course you’re going out somewhere
Lol oh no you guys! Well all these opinions has made me want to try approaching a guy. When I do it I’ll make a post about it and let you know whether it was a success or fail. But I don’t want the fear of rejection stopping me and it shouldn’t stop you either 😊
I wouldn't say comfortable, its a lot like a job interview in that respect not going to lose my cool over it but I'd rather the interview was over so I can get on to thw actual job.
Fear of rejection. I tend to assume they're taken, which would just be rude to approach like that. Age - I don't like doing age gap and in terms of going younger, I'd say I'm open to a 2 year difference, but I haven't always thought that way. Plus, when I was in college for years, there was often big age gaps, like 2-4 years, which I wasn't open to at the time and that's only when there were women around, almost all my classes were full of guys. Oh yeah, beliefs played a part too and whilst I don't identify as a religion believer, I've always been sceptical and unsure on religion, sometimes following an interpretation that's much, much different than the traditional understanding of it.
Well, eye contact maybe a smile. Talkative and friendly. In a smaller group or alone makes it easier to approach, not having headset on. Even then you're still very attractive, so it's more of a 50/50 if I even attempt, let alone if I even know what I'm gonna say. Half the time I'd rather not worry about it.
I have been approached in the past so maybe I'm spoiled, and if she really wanted me she'd just approach me.
Okay I see. I don’t mean for double standards but as a girl, I don’t think I could approach a guy. But now all this talk about it I really want to try it out next time I’m out
@Intellectual_aF these fake ass girls think all they need to do is pile on a thick layer of make up and sit there looking pretty and guys should just line up to talk to her rofl
make some effort, give him a clear sign and maybe he will... geez
Don't get me wrong 😂😂 yea, you're right but not all are like that. As in some men or should i say... Most men are pricks 🙄💯 kinda works both ways Don't you think?
i dont know if they do expect guys to approach her if she is sitting looking pretty, i think girls actually rather guys not approach at all, because most of the time when a guy does approach the girl is a bitch and makes it clear she wants to be left alone, which will not be doing her favours if she wants guys to approach her cos all others will be scared to after knowing what a bitch she is, so i dont think girls actually wanna get approached
@Intellectual_aF or they do wanna get approached and jus stupid and dont realise rejecting every guy who isn't perfect will severly lower the amount of times she will get hit on lol
I used to be uncomfortable approching beautiful girls. Now I see that comfortable guys get the girls even if they are not handsome. So guys feel free to approch any girl.
To me, a girl looks unapproachable if I think she's too good for me. I have somewhat low self esteem, so the only thing holding me back is the fact that I never feel like i'm good enough.
Fucking terrified. I've got a general inability to interact with other people in way that isn't painfully awkward anyway, but added to that the fact I've got the face of a potato and a body like a plastic bag full of mayonnaise means that I'm not the most confident man around
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Um yeah definitely, it's all about the guys insecurities and thinking the girl is better looking than him without thinking about how SHE perceives HIM, I do it to myself all the time knowing I'm going to regret not asking but then I end up not asking (for number and/or date)
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Definitely not probably because i get anxiety and have trouble approaching most people i do not know.
Usually if she is not really smiling then i would steer clear or if she is frustrated with something, But even then if she was smiling i would not approach.
Well I am a sort of egotist if I feel that girl is a little arrogant about her looks I might rather step on her than approach her... thee thing is body language plays a vital role and I don't see if I just approach for a conversation why would I be rejected from talking to her and yeah having a wicked sense of humour helps you talk to any girlif I get good vibes then why would I approach her but the thing is I suck at pickup lines.
Why would I be afraid? The worst that can happen is she'll say no. Rejection happens everyday, to everyone, A LOT. It's not the fucking end of the world, your life, will, and does go on.
Not in the slightest, worst thing that can happen is she says, no. Then you remember there is plenty more fish in the sea and the earth is full of water lol
Not exactly comfortable , depends on the eye of the beholder as most say, but if thought she was attractive I'd give it a shot regardless of rejection idm. A lot of makeup , revealing clothes , a lip filler makes a girl to me unapproachable
Why does a lot of make up, revealing clothes and a lip filler make her look unapproachable? Do you find it unattractive, does she look stuck up? Is she just not someone you’d be into? I’m curious
I do find it unattractive, it just exudes insecurity and no offense but can be seen slut-like, to have a relationship with someone like that would be like being with a doll with constant glares from other men that I'm with her for her assests
You’re right it does show a form of insecurity. Girls don’t always like putting on makeup but we do it bc we think we look prettier with it on. But usually they’re only like that until you make them feel beautiful and comfortable enough to not wear it anymore, unless of course you’re going out somewhere
Ah I see , nice to know.
Hell yes. It’s like you walk up all confidenent like then when you get close, you quickly turn around and walk the other way.
Exactly😂😂 it's like you punked out
@Intellectual_aF true..
They are scary.
Lol oh no you guys! Well all these opinions has made me want to try approaching a guy. When I do it I’ll make a post about it and let you know whether it was a success or fail. But I don’t want the fear of rejection stopping me and it shouldn’t stop you either 😊
I wouldn't say comfortable, its a lot like a job interview in that respect not going to lose my cool over it but I'd rather the interview was over so I can get on to thw actual job.
Well in school ik some girls were kinda like out of me league
They seemed like stuck up
Like their $hit don't stink 🙄
Yeah.
I'm not the kind if guy to just approach someone like that.
Plus there are other potential factors that could stop me, which I'll add later.
What are they? 🤔
Fear of rejection. I tend to assume they're taken, which would just be rude to approach like that. Age - I don't like doing age gap and in terms of going younger, I'd say I'm open to a 2 year difference, but I haven't always thought that way. Plus, when I was in college for years, there was often big age gaps, like 2-4 years, which I wasn't open to at the time and that's only when there were women around, almost all my classes were full of guys. Oh yeah, beliefs played a part too and whilst I don't identify as a religion believer, I've always been sceptical and unsure on religion, sometimes following an interpretation that's much, much different than the traditional understanding of it.
Why should I be that?
It's just a person just like anyone else.
well I would never approach you and waste my time knowing I would most likely get rejected unless there is some clear signs
What clear signs do you look for?
Well, eye contact maybe a smile. Talkative and friendly. In a smaller group or alone makes it easier to approach, not having headset on. Even then you're still very attractive, so it's more of a 50/50 if I even attempt, let alone if I even know what I'm gonna say. Half the time I'd rather not worry about it.
I have been approached in the past so maybe I'm spoiled, and if she really wanted me she'd just approach me.
Okay I see. I don’t mean for double standards but as a girl, I don’t think I could approach a guy. But now all this talk about it I really want to try it out next time I’m out
ya honestly I probably get approached a majority of the time, it's more common than you think
I generally don't approach anyone unless its clear she's noticing me... I mean why would I approach a girl that doesn't even look my way lol
Exactly😂😂
@Intellectual_aF these fake ass girls think all they need to do is pile on a thick layer of make up and sit there looking pretty and guys should just line up to talk to her rofl
make some effort, give him a clear sign and maybe he will... geez
Don't get me wrong 😂😂 yea, you're right but not all are like that.
As in some men or should i say... Most men are pricks 🙄💯 kinda works both ways
Don't you think?
i dont know if they do expect guys to approach her if she is sitting looking pretty,
i think girls actually rather guys not approach at all,
because most of the time when a guy does approach the girl is a bitch and makes it clear she wants to be left alone, which will not be doing her favours if she wants guys to approach her cos all others will be scared to after knowing what a bitch she is,
so i dont think girls actually wanna get approached
Make sense tbh
@Intellectual_aF or they do wanna get approached and jus stupid and dont realise rejecting every guy who isn't perfect will severly lower the amount of times she will get hit on lol
Honeslty? That's there lost 😂
I used to be uncomfortable approching beautiful girls. Now I see that comfortable guys get the girls even if they are not handsome. So guys feel free to approch any girl.
Nope we're all just people. I don't take rejection personally, not everyone can be interested
No. I have no fear of rejection. You never get a hit if you don't swing.
To me, a girl looks unapproachable if I think she's too good for me. I have somewhat low self esteem, so the only thing holding me back is the fact that I never feel like i'm good enough.
Sounds like we both need to work on our self esteem!
As a guy I have to admit, approaching gets easier the more you attempt it. I find age has given me more confidence.
Fucking terrified. I've got a general inability to interact with other people in way that isn't painfully awkward anyway, but added to that the fact I've got the face of a potato and a body like a plastic bag full of mayonnaise means that I'm not the most confident man around
Um yeah definitely, it's all about the guys insecurities and thinking the girl is better looking than him without thinking about how SHE perceives HIM, I do it to myself all the time knowing I'm going to regret not asking but then I end up not asking (for number and/or date)