Because how dare we have standards of our own? We should all just be here for them to pick & choose. They're entitled to all of us. We don't get a say in who we're actually attracted to!! Silly girl. 😒
A lot of people do it. Women do it a lot too. If a man posts a bunch of standards there will always be a lot of negative female comments. People in general just seem to react negatively, especially if people have standards which they feel they can't fit because they take it personally and it makes them feel unattractive.
Do you suggest all people should just line-up and be officially labelled as "Ugly", "Average" or "Hot" looking? That way they can stick to people in their own category.
People act based on feeling attracted to a person, I don't think it's fair to tell them not too because you think they are ugly.
I think people should be just taught how to look for signs of attraction, that way if you don't see the signs, don't approach.
The "standards" are usually kinda weird things. I think that's why guys get frustrated about it. Like it would be one thing if an absolute babe was with a model of a man with a good career, intelligence, lifestyle. In reality, many times we see girls rejecting guys and then dating some just disappointing dudes. Like you would be mad too if you got turned down and then saw your crush dating some chubby pothead who makes way less money than you.
Some guys are too proud to accept a woman's standards. Same as women with men. It's just one of those things that are out of our control. Also, guys (not handsome) w/ money get girls who like to spend it AKA Sugar daddy. Some women like guys for their sense of humor. If both m/f knew what it was there would be a lot less singles...
Some guys don’t seem to know, that they don’t have to meet those standards. And most women only talk about standards then they date guys who fall far below them.
Men should have standards for example my standards are no high maintenced girl period if she wants to be high all the more power for her 10 to 1 says her coochie still smells like some garbage disposal. Competition against other girls no completions are induced I am not jealous never have been I can leave my wife in a room with a bunch of horny guys leave and there either all gonna be cleaning or eating ssndwhichs loyalness comes with patience and trust that s from being married for 10 years I talk a girl it's automatically cheating regardless of the? And I hate that but it's a standard
It's because men don't have any standards. They will go for anything with pussy. So they don't understand why women can't do the same, they can't comprehand, it annoys them. So obviously since they can't explain it they call it unrealistic, just because THEY don't experience attraction the same way women do.
Well you're correct with "It's because men don't have any standards. They will go for anything with pussy" for about half of all males... the rest is nonsense. Sorry.
I'm sorry are you a male? Are you an expert on male behavior? Because if you're not then you have no idea what you're talking about and just made a super broad accusation to literally every male on Earth
I don't know about other but personality is much more important than looks, I don't care if you're a 20 out of 10, if you're an asshole (like you've proven) I want nothing to do with you
both sexes have hypergamous tendencies. A guy who aims too high complains about too high preferences of girls in same level like girls who aim too high about partner criteria of some boys. Maybe this effect of false self-estimation shifts into the wrong direction because of affirmation given by social media?
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I don't hate woman having standards, I hate when they do alpha fucks beta bucks.
That is when a girl is 18 and at the peak of her physical beauty she'll say things like "he has to be 6'2, have a full head of hair, a chiseled jaw etc". Then when later on, after having had sex with multiple guys, her value has declined and she's looking for a simp to wife her up, suddenly it becomes okay that he's below 6 foot tall and bald.
So if you have standards, be consistent with them at all times, no guy wants to be a beta, loser, backup provider.
Because main stream media/tv/movies. Makes people think that way.
Where you see people on the news who are attractive. They typically have a spouse who is equal or better. Hardly ever do you see a hot woman in the media/tv/movies with some guy beneath her in looks or income.
So psychologically it makes the rest of us start thinking in a similar manner.
A mans standards are easy, personality and looks are it. Women expect so much more of men and often in things we can't change like how "manly" we r. Not saying that high standards dont work both ways i just find that women are far more demanding before i even make the mabye list. Ugly guys will still go for hot girls becuz we wanna feel like we r not ugly so stop complaining and take the compliment when a guy hits on u
ROFLMAO! Well, when it comes to standards, you're apparently obsessed with appearance. Because that's all you talk about in this question. That's actually very shallow, don't you think?
From where I sit, as an old man who is married, and therefore out of the fray, I see women and men doing exactly the same thing to each other. And you have just so aptly demonstrated it with this question.
"we rarely see a good looking guy dating an average looking woman," a girl living in her fantasy world. A man today fucks whoever he can, even the ugliest and that includes the top 5% of men. It is not rare. It is the norm. Society and social media has elevated your vagina to such astronomical heights that your standards have become the most unrealistic in history of mankind.
I'm sorry friend but please dont talk about ladies like that. It sounds disrespectful and gross.. besides, every man and woman has something about them that makes them attractive to someone, everyone is beautiful in their own way. Please just dont talk like this.. women are not just their body parts, just like men aren't.. thank you.
@Bensbrie I will talk however I like. Get it? See what you're doing here you're already calling the shots and get bossy with me. I can only imagine how you behave to your partner if you have any with that attitude. That's how women are today. And yes you are just body parts. All you have to offer is a vagina and nothing else. Meanwhile you have all the thousands of irrational expectations from men and change partners as if they're socks. Now get blocked and gtfo.
The reason men complain is because; although, for the hot guy, she's not girlfriend or wife material, guys date down for sex and almost all young women choose the hottest guys that will fuck them and reject guys within their league that want them for girlfriends and wives. Therefore, since girls reject guys that would marry them to chase after the unobtainable, girls have unrealistic standards.
Lol lets be honest here, guys complain about female standards because you girls always shoot up above your league and make up allows you to do that. On an even playing feild lets be honest most girls are ugly hahaha take off the make up there its like only 20% of you girls that are really 7s and above. To tell you the truth the ugly guy probably was shooting in his league but you may have been to stubborn to know that.
All women have unachievable standards. They all want a good-looking guy, over 6ft tall, with a muscular build, who earn a million dollars a year, etc etc etc.
100% of women will not be happy with any guy who isn't in the top 1%. She will eventually settle for a lesser guy, but she won't be happy and she will cheat on him the first opportunity she gets.
Clearly you offer nothing, worthless dog. No woman wants you because of your repulsiveness. I would offer the same, but even a woman with nothing wouldn't want trash like you. Did you get it? :)
So you're incompetent and lack basic reading comprehension? Not a surprise... lol. I'm a middle class corporate worker. I don't need nor want a guy that's in the top one hundred percent and I don't cheat. I do not want losers like you though who are unfortunately part of the group where a lot of good men exist.
Your existence won't be missed by anyone. Your an example of why abortion is beneficial for some women. Have the last say, waste of a life. :)
When people complain about the standards of others it is because those people fail to meet those standards. People like what they like. If she's obese or hairy or stinky I won't date her. For her I might be too tall or too short or maybe she hates black hair or green eyes or only dates guys who drive exotic cars or whatever. Es la vida.
They are lazy and selfish. Anybody can measure up to high standards - whether intellectual or moral. I've met mentally retarded people I would have considered dating cause I liked the way they treated people and I've rejected ivy league PhD students.
No need to call out every male. Who really cares if they are ivy league a-holes or High School dropouts? by the way, it's mentally or physically challenged...
Because their mode of standards are crappy. Having to be 6 foot and rich and opens the car door and pay on dates and clean shaven or bearded. Well that eliminates over 99% of men. They have unreasonable standards. Only 18% of American men are at-least 6 feet anyways. So that stat alone eliminates 82% of men. Add all the other hocus phantom standards that doesn't mean a hill of beans and you're left with like half a percent of all men.
If you think those are most women's standards, you are sadly mistaken. Lots of women dong require for a man to be tall and rich. But being a gentleman shouldn't have to be asked for, it is necessary. If a man isn't respectful and is vulgar why would a woman want a man who will mistreat her and just wants adult things..
Some women would feel insecure dating a man shorter than them because of cultural standards sometimes or because if she is really tall she would have to physically look down at him. That's not always the case. But for tall women they may feel insecure because they are so tall. Just a suggestion.
Women have the power to not let that make them insecure. They shouldn't care how others view them. I'm 5'4" and women told me that women have probably turned me down for being far under average height for a man even if they don't say that's the reason. Any truth in that?
You say that but are you a woman who is 6 ft tall? You say a woman shouldn't feel insecure about that, but not all women can control that. You have your own life experiences that cause you to understand it from a mans perspective who is slightly short. Nothing wrong with that. But until you walk in a really tall woman's shoes you can't understand how she feels. She may feel like she can't wear heels or she will be too tall, or that she isn't feminine enough, or that men won't be attracted to her because she is taller than him. I'm 5" 5' so 5" 4' isn't a problem. I know women who are married to men shorter than them, one is way shorter than his wife. But not every woman is that secure. And you can't just say that women have the power to not let that bother them. Their are men who let their height bother them, so its not fair to say that tall women should just get over it. For them it might not be that simple. Since lots of people probably have associated shortness with femininity when it pertains to women.
You're right. I should s off it off that easily. Men let it bother them too. I can easy going and don't worry about things I can't control. Right. A 5'5" woman with a 5'4" man may be okay to her but a 6' woman with a 5'4" would feel ashamed.
I've been slapped in the face for telling women to suck it up and she chewed me out after the slap and said I'm insensitive but didn't mean to anger her. Just didn't thing it was a huge deal.
Thanks for understanding. I mean, I'm sure there will be someone who likes you for you. With your height and personality and all. But I understand its probably difficult sometimes for men who are shorter and women who are taller. But thanks for responding, and in such a nice way. I can appreciate that
Depends on the woman, sometimes, but not all the time. Sometimes it will result in tears.. maybe you are more emotionally strong then some women, but women can be a bit more sensitive. So maybe try to be a little more delicate hon.
Um, slapping and kicking is a no go. No form of physical violence is okay. I understand spanking a kid when they are very naughty as a kid, but there is a point where even spankings stop..
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Because how dare we have standards of our own? We should all just be here for them to pick & choose. They're entitled to all of us. We don't get a say in who we're actually attracted to!! Silly girl. 😒
Pretty much hahaha
The exact opposite it totally fine, right?
A lot of people do it. Women do it a lot too. If a man posts a bunch of standards there will always be a lot of negative female comments. People in general just seem to react negatively, especially if people have standards which they feel they can't fit because they take it personally and it makes them feel unattractive.
Do you suggest all people should just line-up and be officially labelled as "Ugly", "Average" or "Hot" looking? That way they can stick to people in their own category.
People act based on feeling attracted to a person, I don't think it's fair to tell them not too because you think they are ugly.
I think people should be just taught how to look for signs of attraction, that way if you don't see the signs, don't approach.
The "standards" are usually kinda weird things. I think that's why guys get frustrated about it. Like it would be one thing if an absolute babe was with a model of a man with a good career, intelligence, lifestyle. In reality, many times we see girls rejecting guys and then dating some just disappointing dudes. Like you would be mad too if you got turned down and then saw your crush dating some chubby pothead who makes way less money than you.
Well, many guys at GaG really think they have to meet those standards.
Just weird.
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Some guys are too proud to accept a woman's standards. Same as women with men. It's just one of those things that are out of our control.
Also, guys (not handsome) w/ money get girls who like to spend it AKA Sugar daddy. Some women like guys for their sense of humor. If both m/f knew what it was there would be a lot less singles...
Some guys don’t seem to know, that they don’t have to meet those standards. And most women only talk about standards then they date guys who fall far below them.
Men should have standards for example my standards are no high maintenced girl period if she wants to be high all the more power for her 10 to 1 says her coochie still smells like some garbage disposal. Competition against other girls no completions are induced I am not jealous never have been I can leave my wife in a room with a bunch of horny guys leave and there either all gonna be cleaning or eating ssndwhichs loyalness comes with patience and trust that s from being married for 10 years I talk a girl it's automatically cheating regardless of the? And I hate that but it's a standard
It's because men don't have any standards. They will go for anything with pussy. So they don't understand why women can't do the same, they can't comprehand, it annoys them. So obviously since they can't explain it they call it unrealistic, just because THEY don't experience attraction the same way women do.
Well you're correct with "It's because men don't have any standards. They will go for anything with pussy" for about half of all males... the rest is nonsense. Sorry.
I'm sorry are you a male? Are you an expert on male behavior? Because if you're not then you have no idea what you're talking about and just made a super broad accusation to literally every male on Earth
I don't know about other but personality is much more important than looks, I don't care if you're a 20 out of 10, if you're an asshole (like you've proven) I want nothing to do with you
both sexes have hypergamous tendencies.
A guy who aims too high complains about too high preferences of girls in same level like girls who aim too high about partner criteria of some boys. Maybe this effect of false self-estimation shifts into the wrong direction because of affirmation given by social media?
I don't hate woman having standards, I hate when they do alpha fucks beta bucks.
That is when a girl is 18 and at the peak of her physical beauty she'll say things like "he has to be 6'2, have a full head of hair, a chiseled jaw etc".
Then when later on, after having had sex with multiple guys, her value has declined and she's looking for a simp to wife her up, suddenly it becomes okay that he's below 6 foot tall and bald.
So if you have standards, be consistent with them at all times, no guy wants to be a beta, loser, backup provider.
Because main stream media/tv/movies. Makes people think that way.
Where you see people on the news who are attractive. They typically have a spouse who is equal or better. Hardly ever do you see a hot woman in the media/tv/movies with some guy beneath her in looks or income.
So psychologically it makes the rest of us start thinking in a similar manner.
A mans standards are easy, personality and looks are it. Women expect so much more of men and often in things we can't change like how "manly" we r. Not saying that high standards dont work both ways i just find that women are far more demanding before i even make the mabye list. Ugly guys will still go for hot girls becuz we wanna feel like we r not ugly so stop complaining and take the compliment when a guy hits on u
ROFLMAO! Well, when it comes to standards, you're apparently obsessed with appearance. Because that's all you talk about in this question. That's actually very shallow, don't you think?
From where I sit, as an old man who is married, and therefore out of the fray, I see women and men doing exactly the same thing to each other. And you have just so aptly demonstrated it with this question.
"we rarely see a good looking guy dating an average looking woman,"
a girl living in her fantasy world. A man today fucks whoever he can, even the ugliest and that includes the top 5% of men. It is not rare. It is the norm. Society and social media has elevated your vagina to such astronomical heights that your standards have become the most unrealistic in history of mankind.
I'm sorry friend but please dont talk about ladies like that. It sounds disrespectful and gross.. besides, every man and woman has something about them that makes them attractive to someone, everyone is beautiful in their own way. Please just dont talk like this.. women are not just their body parts, just like men aren't.. thank you.
@Bensbrie I will talk however I like. Get it? See what you're doing here you're already calling the shots and get bossy with me. I can only imagine how you behave to your partner if you have any with that attitude. That's how women are today. And yes you are just body parts. All you have to offer is a vagina and nothing else. Meanwhile you have all the thousands of irrational expectations from men and change partners as if they're socks. Now get blocked and gtfo.
The reason men complain is because; although, for the hot guy, she's not girlfriend or wife material, guys date down for sex and almost all young women choose the hottest guys that will fuck them and reject guys within their league that want them for girlfriends and wives. Therefore, since girls reject guys that would marry them to chase after the unobtainable, girls have unrealistic standards.
Lol lets be honest here, guys complain about female standards because you girls always shoot up above your league and make up allows you to do that. On an even playing feild lets be honest most girls are ugly hahaha take off the make up there its like only 20% of you girls that are really 7s and above. To tell you the truth the ugly guy probably was shooting in his league but you may have been to stubborn to know that.
LOL I said the exact same thing
All women have unachievable standards. They all want a good-looking guy, over 6ft tall, with a muscular build, who earn a million dollars a year, etc etc etc.
100% of women will not be happy with any guy who isn't in the top 1%. She will eventually settle for a lesser guy, but she won't be happy and she will cheat on him the first opportunity she gets.
Wrong. Don't want a rich man. Middle-class blue collar worker suits me just fine. He'd be more grounded.
@AuroraRoseat and what the fuck do you have to offer, cunt? A vagina?
Clearly you offer nothing, worthless dog. No woman wants you because of your repulsiveness. I would offer the same, but even a woman with nothing wouldn't want trash like you. Did you get it? :)
@AuroraRoseat So you have literally nothing to offer other than a vagina lmao
So you're incompetent and lack basic reading comprehension? Not a surprise... lol. I'm a middle class corporate worker. I don't need nor want a guy that's in the top one hundred percent and I don't cheat. I do not want losers like you though who are unfortunately part of the group where a lot of good men exist.
Your existence won't be missed by anyone. Your an example of why abortion is beneficial for some women. Have the last say, waste of a life. :)
When people complain about the standards of others it is because those people fail to meet those standards. People like what they like. If she's obese or hairy or stinky I won't date her. For her I might be too tall or too short or maybe she hates black hair or green eyes or only dates guys who drive exotic cars or whatever. Es la vida.
They are lazy and selfish. Anybody can measure up to high standards - whether intellectual or moral. I've met mentally retarded people I would have considered dating cause I liked the way they treated people and I've rejected ivy league PhD students.
No need to call out every male. Who really cares if they are ivy league a-holes or High School dropouts? by the way, it's mentally or physically challenged...
Because their mode of standards are crappy. Having to be 6 foot and rich and opens the car door and pay on dates and clean shaven or bearded. Well that eliminates over 99% of men. They have unreasonable standards. Only 18% of American men are at-least 6 feet anyways. So that stat alone eliminates 82% of men. Add all the other hocus phantom standards that doesn't mean a hill of beans and you're left with like half a percent of all men.
If you think those are most women's standards, you are sadly mistaken. Lots of women dong require for a man to be tall and rich. But being a gentleman shouldn't have to be asked for, it is necessary. If a man isn't respectful and is vulgar why would a woman want a man who will mistreat her and just wants adult things..
Never said most but sad that any woman would have that standard. The same for men having weird standards.
Some women would feel insecure dating a man shorter than them because of cultural standards sometimes or because if she is really tall she would have to physically look down at him. That's not always the case. But for tall women they may feel insecure because they are so tall. Just a suggestion.
Women have the power to not let that make them insecure. They shouldn't care how others view them. I'm 5'4" and women told me that women have probably turned me down for being far under average height for a man even if they don't say that's the reason. Any truth in that?
You say that but are you a woman who is 6 ft tall? You say a woman shouldn't feel insecure about that, but not all women can control that. You have your own life experiences that cause you to understand it from a mans perspective who is slightly short. Nothing wrong with that. But until you walk in a really tall woman's shoes you can't understand how she feels. She may feel like she can't wear heels or she will be too tall, or that she isn't feminine enough, or that men won't be attracted to her because she is taller than him. I'm 5" 5' so 5" 4' isn't a problem. I know women who are married to men shorter than them, one is way shorter than his wife. But not every woman is that secure. And you can't just say that women have the power to not let that bother them. Their are men who let their height bother them, so its not fair to say that tall women should just get over it. For them it might not be that simple. Since lots of people probably have associated shortness with femininity when it pertains to women.
You're right. I should s off it off that easily. Men let it bother them too. I can easy going and don't worry about things I can't control. Right. A 5'5" woman with a 5'4" man may be okay to her but a 6' woman with a 5'4" would feel ashamed.
I've been slapped in the face for telling women to suck it up and she chewed me out after the slap and said I'm insensitive but didn't mean to anger her. Just didn't thing it was a huge deal.
Shouldn't scoff at it, meant to say.
Thanks for understanding. I mean, I'm sure there will be someone who likes you for you. With your height and personality and all. But I understand its probably difficult sometimes for men who are shorter and women who are taller. But thanks for responding, and in such a nice way. I can appreciate that
You're welcome. I felt so crappy saying that to the woman. Does saying that to women often lead to slaps?
Depends on the woman, sometimes, but not all the time. Sometimes it will result in tears.. maybe you are more emotionally strong then some women, but women can be a bit more sensitive. So maybe try to be a little more delicate hon.
I will try but the bad part is women work in droves. Say it to 1 woman and another woman gets mad.
My sister found out and said, you said that to a woman and was shocked and she slapped me too saying I was insensitive.
I'm scared to tell my mom. Should I?
Does your mom slap people too? I mean, she is your mom, so if she doesn't have a habit of slapping people, then you should be fine.
No. My mom doesn't slap. She is more of the kicking type.
Wait... what? 😵😰😧😥😦😬
Yes. She kicks in these:
Dont tell me your mom kicks you..
She has before when I cheated on a woman about 6 years ago.
Why do you ask?
That's not normal hon. Like, parents dont kick their kids, like cheating isn't cool, but beating someone isn't either..
I don't cheat around now. I was only 20 then. I've matured over the last 6 years.
That's all good and dandy, but your mom kicked you..
She has kicked my dad for forgetting her birthday on Valentine's Day too.
Yes. My sister explained to her that she should never kick but slap instead. My sister is much wiser even though she is 28.
Um, slapping and kicking is a no go. No form of physical violence is okay. I understand spanking a kid when they are very naughty as a kid, but there is a point where even spankings stop..
True. It is violence. How be never hit any woman before and hit a man only once.
I'm still not okay with the females in your family being so physically violent. Like were in the world are you even from man?
South Carolina
Ah, okay. Has your mom always been like this?
Yes, basically. She is one of those women are better than men type people.
Your mom needs some prayer and help. Like that's not cool.. I'm sorry buddy