Why do men complain about women having standards? (Page 2)

[Dav1ss]

Because of greed they always want more then they cab have so when they can't get it they try to in every way

[Anonymous]

Too many guys are desperate simps who need to quit chasing women and start chasing money or a house. So many many desperate white knights out there who care way too much about women who don’t even want them

[Kavya190]

Those are only the weak minded men. I believe everyone should be standards, self respect so we can weed out the low quality people.

[Belgie]

The ones who complain, know they can't meet those standards.

[Rocket99]

Because they don't like them? Your beauty should not affect your standards. "Out of their league", you speak as if the question of beauty were totally objective and categorical

[Clarity01]

They aren't willing to improve their personality, so they blame it all on their appearance

[GreatnessBack]

pffff... people's standards are a joke. You don't know how many people just screw the first person who says "Hi."
LOL

[Anonymous]

Talking about people being out of someone's league is really an outdated idea.

[Malik00]

Honestly I could ask the same about women when men have standards. And on a side note there is a difference between having standards and desiring a fantasy.

[CT_CD]

Because a lot of women are overly picky. Even mediocre looking women have a long list of standards

[Smaishen]

Like you said not all men
I wouldn't really date an ugly ( like REALLY ugly )
But hey... I don't complain I'm just cool with her for not "falling for me"
and I don't want her to feel bad I would just disappear

[smartman12]

Because most attractive women's standards today are unrealistic. Also, there are a lot of attractive men out there dating average women because they know these woman will stay faithful to them.

[clonesclone]

Meanwhile females run political campaigns whining if men don't like 400lb women...

[Rangers]

That's because girls refuse to date someone who isn't better than them

[PrinceOfAljazeera]

because 90% of you women are thots nowdays compared to back in 90s 70s 80s.

[ranger56]

Absolutely true

[Thatsamazing]

Dude females have been sluts for decades now. That isn't new. What are you talking about

[YHL6965]

Because these men are bitter and think highly of themselves.

[crazy8000]

Why do female's behave like men are toxic waste when men has standards 🙄

[Smegskull]

Because women's standards don't follow a bell curve (because women don't have male libido forcing them to compromise)

[Anonymous]

Have you ever seen how women piss and moan when men have standards?

[Slim57]

Because women's standards are ridiculous. They would rather cheat themselves out of a decent guy to date some sorry ass jailbird who has no job or car for the sole reason he's 6"2

[Aphrodite801]

A lot of men are unattractive with low standards that’s why

[incelposting]

This is why

[Dali-chan]

Lol. I agree, but these kind of women are only delusional. I was talking about guys who bash pretty girls for refusing to love them for themselves while they were attracted to these girls for their look

[incelposting]

Females always talk about how much they love personality, then only date abusive chads

[Thatsamazing]

@incelposting You're not wrong.

[Bensbrie]

Except your wrong. There are a lot of people in relationships in America, are you saying all of them are abusive men? If so, you are saying worse things about men than women. Besides, most women dont like being abused, thank you very much and pretending like they do is not very cool dude. besides, you dont know most women, so assuming this is a bit ridiculous.

[incelposting]

Females like being abused by chad, otherwise why would they let it happen?
Most relationships in America are hypergamous betabux relationships.

[Bensbrie]

Abuse is never okay whether it's a man or a woman being abused.. how could you say something like that. Did you know that most the time abuse doesn't being at the beginning of the relationship. Abusers almost groom their victims. At first the abusers seem normal, treat their partner good, over time they try to isolate them, they begin to verbally abuse them sometimes and make them feel insecure or like they need them and couldn't find anyone else to love them. There are times where abuse leads to death of a Male or female victim, if you dont know what abuse is really like dont joke about it or talk about things you dont have a full understanding of in such a way. You are probably really smart and you probably have good characteristics too, but dont joke about abuse, that's not nice..

[incelposting]

Ok but you're not accounting for personality detectors.

[Bensbrie]

And you dont know about every relationship either, just like I dont. If you dont know how every relationship operates, please dont apply your opinion to most relationships. My husband is a good man. That aside, People sure like making up words like triggered and betabux. It's just crazy how so many words are just being made up.

[Bensbrie]

I'm a psychology student. I've had to learn about different topics, sure I dont know everything. There are numerous factors behind abuse and there are multiple forms of abuse. Many times there is more than one form of abuse present. Sometimes victims feel trapped, they were lured in by someone who promised love and seemed to good to be true, and end the end they show their true colors, but it's often after they have drawn the victim in.

[incelposting]

I get told that females can automatically detect that I say bad things on the internet and think bad things.
How then do they end up in relationships like this if they're all gifted with such powers of intuition?

[Bensbrie]

You have got to be joking, you know that those two things are completely unrelated. And not every female is on this site and not every female knows you what you are saying on the internet. I came across your comments by chance, and nothing more. And you do know men can get abused too right? Are you saying they are weak. If you are, that's not very nice. You are better than that, so please dont do such things.

[Thatsamazing]

@Bensbrie Uh... what? His comment has literally nothing to do with abuse. What are you talking about. It's about unattractive, fat females thinking they deserve attractive, fit, tall handsome guys making good money.

[Bensbrie]

@Thatsamazing he literally said the terms abusive and abuse in our conversation, if you look at what he and I were talking about you will see, alright?

[Thatsamazing]

@Bensbrie Yes... because you brought it up first. And his initial comment has literally nothing to do with that.

[Bensbrie]

@Thatsamazing actually he said this, "Females always talk about how much they love personality, then only date abusive chads" and I responded to it. Besides, it's my conversation with him, I dont see how my business with him troubles you in any way, so what's up? You seem real concerned about my conversation with another person.

[Bensbrie]

@Thatsamazing technically he said something first, so, what's the deal?

[incelposting]

You didn't answer my qurstion about personality detectors.
Apparently I'm incel not because I'm short and ugly, but instead because females are so prescient they can detect my motives and ideas just from a glance (or a photo on a dating app) but seem totally unable to notice when a man will murder them, especially if he's physically attractive.

[Thatsamazing]

@Bensbrie... No, no one is concerned. Your attempt at an ad hominem is typical, yet regrettable. You can do better.

[Bensbrie]

Sir what you dont understand is that you have misinterpreted many things about women, about attraction, and other things as well. You act like all women can detect your motives, not everyone can, not even all men. Some people can tell some things about you by the way you talk about things and such as well. Not only that, but im not a fan of dating apps. But, lots of people get first impressions about people from what they see and then comes verbal factors when it pertains to first impressions and determining what they think about a person. If a dating app uses pictures as its main element for people to attract a partner that seems pretty superficial to me. Another thing is that lots of people can't determine if someone is going to murder them because many murderers dont openly manifest their motives, but that's unrelated to this. If you have a good personality there is someone who would find you attractive, but the truth is people can't always detect what a person's personality is at first. Visual factors play a role in people determining things all over the world, especially in South Korea. Try being a woman over there, it's difficult at times because looks are quite important. But another point is that if you talk about women in a certain way, and dont seem approachable or friendly to someone (facial expressions, gestures, posture, and the way you carry yourself are all factors as well) they may not wish to approach you, whether their first impressions are right or wrong. At times people determine personality characterisitcs from visual factors, and at times they are right and at times they are wrong. It is a fact that if someone is aesthetically pleasing and charming that people are going to assume they have certain "good" personality characteristics. If a person has a face people deem less than attractive it is more likely for them to attach negative personality characteristics, but this is not always the case.

[Bensbrie]

@Thatsamazing do you understand what I said? When I say concerned about my conversation with another person, that means you are involving yourself when I said nothing in reference to you and so on. And what are you even talking about? What do you even mean, "your attempt at a ad hominem".

[incelposting]

Ok so from a glance, before even talking to me, females can register my thoughts opinions and internet history, but they'll still go on to be killed by a very attractive murderer.

[Bensbrie]

You are blowing things out of proportion sir. Was someone mean to you or something? I never said they can accurately determine your thoughts and everything, that's why it's called a first impression. Sometimes they are reliable and sometimes they are not, it all has to do with an individuals perception.

[Bensbrie]

Look up Ted Bundy. Sometimes charm and good looks are very deceiving. It is what it is.

[incelposting]

Ok, so females can detect my thoughts and opinions, but not Chad Bundys murdering

[Bensbrie]

Never mind, you dont seem to be grasping what I'm saying hon. Have a marvelous day sweetie.

[Shamalien]

I very often see avg dude with way below avg chicks. The skinny guy obese woman thing is common.

[auggy93]

Only the men that don't meet your standards would complain about you having standards, might even say they are to high

[JamesBlackDragon]

For the same reason women do I don't know I don't complain about it

[Anonymous]

You discriminate people for characteristics they don't choose, not only as an individual, but part of a large majority of females who think more similar to you than you believe.

[iGoTZTHaTDRiP4SaLe]

Cuz they've ridiculous I have one standard that I'm not judged by standards

[Minecraft69]

Because some guys are desperate thirsty losers who can't become good enough for anyone.

[esotericstory]

because we also have to pay for the dates lol.

[Swat_]

This comment section is going to be spicy af.

[pizzalovershouse]

some people like certain types of girls

[MadWorld111]

I'm done with females. This is just ridiculous.

[Fuentes]

Everyone has standards

[Pulimuli]

Because some people can't handle reality very well

[Poormanscomedian]

I didn't think any did

[HereIbe]

Standards interfere with giving away free pussy!

[shawnnsa]

I'm in total agreement with you