Do men need male only spaces?

Question

In my opinion I think male only spaces are very important for us guys. They help us to unwind and relax in an environment where we can just be ourselves and not have to self police every action we do or word we say

alleng12345 · Accepted Answer

Interesting, but I disagree.

Now how the fuck can I disagree? Simple. I don't police myself unless I am at work or accompanying someone to church.

If we are in a social environment I am me, I do not put on a facade. However, I do allow space and I am considerate of others. If I say something and someone says 'omg that is offensive!' Then I DO adjust accordingly because I don't feel the need to press my views on them.

My girlfriend got the real me from day 1 but I make it clear I am over the top because this is me and I don't believe in facades when it comes to. my personal life.

This is me, if you don't like 'me' then I don't want an intimate relationship with you.

There is a difference in farting on a first date as compared to put up a facade for a girl because I 'think' it give me a better chance.

Now if I am just trying to impress her and be someone I am NOT? What's the word for that? Oh yeah, FAKE... I am not fake.

I get what you are asking and some people may need that free safe place, I do not though.

Ask my family and friends, they will all say I am 'special'... hahahaha

winterfox10 · Accepted Answer

I think that boys need male only spaces to become men. That was a small part of why I was somewhat opposed to the idea of including girls in the BSA. Boy Scouts was an organization that focused on teaching boys how to be men, and I know that I learned a great during my time with my local troop. Women don't know how to be men, they just don't. I think they have a gut feeling of what it looks like to be a man, but they couldn't teach anyone on how to do those things. Why? Because they are women, there's no way they would know how to be men.

GraveDoll · Accepted Answer

*rolls eyes*

my father and his friends do when the go boating camping and hiking

My dad has raised three girls including having a lovely wife and he still has all his hair and he always had space to go and vent. My mother never stops him from that nor did we... or other women

My boyfriend has his HOUSE I have MY house... what space you want another planet? another plane? Area51?

seriously just make time for yourself. you be a lot happier and no one can do that for you but you. Does Not need to be a law. Like...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

100% with feminist running around like crazy people and being assholes to men, they definatelly need time to retreat and relax from their shit and also be them selfs in a group without society looking down on them and labelling them without fully understanding them.

ChronicThinker · Answer

I'm fine with that. If you want all-dude spaces, go for it. I support you fellas.

FightersOrLovers · Answer

What about women? Yes men are primarily the bread winners and there families depend on them but those men also depend on that woman to be a good wife , mother , homemaker, be beautiful, stay clean, be nice/kind a lot of the time to also work if situation depends on both incomes and with our estrogen and heightened emotional awareness, we get overwhelmed and stressed /worried more so I feel than "most" men do. Alls I'm saying is both sexes have there woes and needs that need to be met to stay sain (equally. )

TheFlak38 · Answer

every time men create a new men only space women start to infiltrate it to police men's behaviour and then whore themselves for attention and money. It never stops. Comic events with cosplays were once a males only space and now they are full of whores doing their attention competition by sexualising characters from movies, comics and animations.

jgokgotit · Answer

Women get this so why not men? I would say so. However, somebody will cry discrimination. The "Boy" Scouts lost a court ruling and had to start admitting women yet the "Girl" Scouts can still admit only females. Even something recreational like you suggest would be subject to this bullshit.

wankiam · Answer

does it need to be gender based... i mean i prefer the company of people i get on with so i understand part of it but if a girl appeared in my lock up while im with a couple of male mates fucking around with an old volkswagen i have no issues at all if she wants to join us as long as she knows her way around a boxer engine or can weld

CharlieUnicorn · Answer

I think it's good, but it's even better if there's an inclusion of gay and bi men into it as well.
I don't know exactly why that is, but trust me, it just helps.

Maybe because it wipes away a bit of needless posturing and increases the range even further regarding what can be said and done. There's just less pretense.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

A few years back I was staying at a very high-end resort. This place had a "men's only" cigar lounge, with a library, bar, and plenty of places to comfortably sit and read. The walls were mahogany panelled, the furniture was leather, there was a roaring fireplace, old drawings of fishing lures, ship pictures, hunting scenes, and other pictures from a more civilized time adorned the walls.

This was a heaven on earth. Yes, men need more of this.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Well, no, I don't we need male spaces more than women need female spaces (which they don't, and I don't how certain they are that I was bred, conditioned and trained just to rape then). However, seeing as how I'm a devout believer of gender equality, I say yes, if we've reached the sad and pathetic reality in which women are entitled to female-only spaces - then it's only fair men are afforded the same.

SarahsSummer · Answer

I know my guy needs his guy time and his alone time and he will often go shoot pool at a local dive bar or play darts at his friends man cave to unwind.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

yes males do need their own work shop , space or their own in home den or their own - men only space - ! females deserve their own space too like females / women only in this room or place - ! thanks

Katebfun · Answer

No I believe everybody needs their own space. I'm an artist I need to have my own room to introspect to create to work to meditate to get away. We all need our own little space that is our own not just men.

vishnuvijayan · Answer

Very much, personally speaking certain instances in life can only be shared with certain people in our life, parents, best friends, girlfriend... and then there are times everyone needs to be alone once in a while. Being alone in a serene environment is quite good for introspection.

pajamasam · Answer

I think they do, the same way women need spaces with just women.  Not for segregation reasons but solely as a way to let go of social rules for a few minutes to just open up.

jei11 · Answer

Only thing is that I can never be myself anyway, unless I'm alone. A space just for men would be nice though, so we can recharge and get back out there.

Anoniemus · Answer

I asked this and a bunch of men said it sounded gay (but I said retreats). I understand why some men feel they need them as long as they aren’t toxic.

arabgoddess · Answer

Yes men do need space! That's why they have men caves and men sheds

NickiB1 · Answer

of course how else can they compare penis size without judgement

Oram52 · Answer

Isn't that normal all guys having different ways to unwind. I don't think there is any issue regarding this. I don't why there should be any issue regarding this.

IAMNathanael · Answer

I think so. I think camping would be an especially good way to detach yourself from the rest of the world.

worldscolide · Answer

I fully agree men need their spaces, just as women need theirs.. What's sad is, every single space men have had have been invaded by women, taken over, and destroyed.. It's sad...

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ · Answer

They're called gay bars... ps: Every space is a safe space if you're not a little bitch. Just stay home dude.

Smegskull · Answer

The problem is we're too good at it. We make a male space, make it really fun, spend more time there than with women, they get jealous and demand to join the fun, take all the fun out because fun isn't safe, we make a new male space.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely we men do inorder to get peace and quiet and peaceful relaxation in order to get away from feminists running around like escaped mental patients from a mental hospital and someone needs to collect their escaped mental parents again no wonder society doesn't listen to them if we did we'd be in a hell of a ride down hill from here

RenAsan · Answer

I think that both men and women need a space that is to themselves only.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Not a specific one, or one that's 'dedicated' to it. When I want to have time only for myself, I'll always find a convenient 'place'.

naturallywonderful · Answer

What’s stopping you from meeting up with a group of bros and hanging out at one of your apartments?

JackSmy · Answer

Yeah, they do, but why do women always seem to see that as 'sexist' and need to invade those places?

R_Cakes91 · Answer

Of course! Guys need male bonding time same as everyone else.

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes... poker night, bowling night, game night, fishing etc... guy time

Disguise · Answer

Absolutely. Sometimes tagging a women will snatch our freedom and cause them to be burden.

Anonymous · Answer

Hope not, I wouldn't like men to act differently around me. That would be weird.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Other men tend to instinctively hate me so that wouldn't be a good idea.

Massageman · Answer

Just as women like their hideaways with their friends - - - - - - -

Unit1 · Answer

We already have. Our bedroom. It's there, where we watch porn every night.🖐 💕

esotericstory · Answer

Yeah, there is not a single place besides a bachelors home where a man can be safe from women's animosity.

1828ToastyTimothy · Answer

To suggest otherwise would be entitlement.

Anonymous · Answer

In today's fake female victim bullshit, yes. Men need places where we can be ourselves without the fear of some clam taking it out of context and trying to destroy our entire. existance.

SeanshterMonster · Answer

No. Men don't have that emotional support that women give. Or at least some women give.

Hyper2 · Answer

We already have it. It's called 'hanging with the boys ' , which is important.

honestGUY45 · Answer

A place where I can be myself and not have to self police my actions or every word I say…. My house.

koolkal · Answer

YES WE DO. I'm almost never get that at home with my wife and daughter there.

grega239 · Answer

Yea. Airsoft is nice. Combat simulation and barely any woman around

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes, a place where men can be men without women sticking their noses in it. Women have their safe spaces so should we

Wolkmi · Answer

Yes, it would be nice have gentlemen's clubs like those of the xix and xx centuries

Anonymous · Answer

Not sure how much of a need it is for everyone, but if you need it you should go get it.

dman2796 · Answer

Guys need male spaces just like women need girls night outs.

Anonymous · Answer

Regarding someplace public , I believe for single men perhaps.

MzAsh · Answer

Sure. Have your safe space.

WomboCombo · Answer

Yeah I agree, it should be an option.

GOOSEBOY78 · Answer

yes its called a garage or a pub.

kell13 · Answer

y'all boys can cum over to my place.

Agape93 · Answer

Do what you want.

yourpsychosuburban · Answer

Yeah

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