I don't really like that stuff because it makes me feel like I'm less of an equal person. I'm a girl but I want to be treated the same as a guy (im not a feminist tho). I dont like when I feel like guys feel pity for me because I've got boobs lol
It is very attractive. But I believe this is just manners. Women should hold doors open as well and such. The only way it is offensive is if you expect something out of being chivalrous.
I mean holding doors for people is just being polite, wouldn't really call it chivalry. I have had a girl smile at me for holding a door and it turned out we were going to the same place and she sat and smiled at me for a bit after.
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Females claim they still want it but will falsely accuse a male of "unwanted advancements" if he does anything and they don't like him, so they want it both ways and want to be able to use it against us when it suits them but still expect it without deserving it.
For sure! The last guy I dated was a gentleman and walked me to my car after the first date and texted me later that night to make sure I had gotten home safely. :)
Really depends on the girl. If you're living on the west coast or in any leftist place, I'd say forget it, they'll just assume ur a beta bitch and hop on tyrone's black bratwurst
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Yes. I choose my boyfriend because he was one of the few guys still being chivalrous
I'm sorry to hear that man. That's one of the reasons why I asked the question. I have been scowled at before when holding the door open but I've also been smiled at. You just never know. In the end it feels good knowing that you made someone's day easier even if they didn't appreciate it
Living in the South, manners are very important. We say "yes ma'am, no ma'am" and we hold doors. I do the same for men, especially elderly. It is only younger women that get pissy about a man holding a door for her.
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Bundle up all the things they like into "chivalry" and they'll call it attractive.
Bundle up all the things they don't like and position that as a violation of "equality".
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Terminate the thought process there. Don't consider men's desires.
Now "equality" and "chivalry" are entirely compatible.
I don't really like that stuff because it makes me feel like I'm less of an equal person. I'm a girl but I want to be treated the same as a guy (im not a feminist tho). I dont like when I feel like guys feel pity for me because I've got boobs lol
It is very attractive. But I believe this is just manners. Women should hold doors open as well and such. The only way it is offensive is if you expect something out of being chivalrous.
I dont like when guys think I can't do something because I'ma girl. like "let me open this heavy door for you"
I mean holding doors for people is just being polite, wouldn't really call it chivalry. I have had a girl smile at me for holding a door and it turned out we were going to the same place and she sat and smiled at me for a bit after.
Females claim they still want it but will falsely accuse a male of "unwanted advancements" if he does anything and they don't like him, so they want it both ways and want to be able to use it against us when it suits them but still expect it without deserving it.
The kind of girl you really want will appreciate it. The ones that don't hate men anyway.
See? Pink replies FTW.
Yes my guy did and it made me respect the man he is
Chivalry makes men look like they are charming.
That's reassuring. I never know how people will respond to it but I do it anyway. Thank you for the feedback 🙂
Omg. Yes please 💜☪️☮️
Good to know 🙂
Lol 🤭☮️☪️
It's soooo attractive. It shows empathy and well I think it's great
For sure! The last guy I dated was a gentleman and walked me to my car after the first date and texted me later that night to make sure I had gotten home safely. :)
Don't care because most women do not deserve it in my experience.
Politness is good. Chivalry is sexist. Know the difference.
It will always be attractive what ever form it takes , it's a natural instinct and women evolved to respond to it.
Yes they do. Honestly I always felt like a boss ass man everytime I do it whatever I want to score with her or not.
Really depends on the girl. If you're living on the west coast or in any leftist place, I'd say forget it, they'll just assume ur a beta bitch and hop on tyrone's black bratwurst
Yes. I choose my boyfriend because he was one of the few guys still being chivalrous
Chivalry is wasted on today's women. Chivalry was for a man's cherished and beloved wife not for today's equal partner.
Several days ago I held a door for a younger woman pushing a baby stroller and she scowled at me like I was trying to eat her child.
I'm sorry to hear that man. That's one of the reasons why I asked the question. I have been scowled at before when holding the door open but I've also been smiled at. You just never know. In the end it feels good knowing that you made someone's day easier even if they didn't appreciate it
Living in the South, manners are very important. We say "yes ma'am, no ma'am" and we hold doors. I do the same for men, especially elderly. It is only younger women that get pissy about a man holding a door for her.
I also live in the south so I know what you mean. Lots of people usually just ignore me but at least I helped
@KrakenAttackin I have nothing against trolling, it's healthy, Problem is some people will actually believe you.
Most women who answered say it's attractive... so much for that equal treatment we've been hearing about...
And FYI... chivalry is medieval battlefield etiquette and has little to do with women