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Because you can't have "guy friends" - at least, not with guys who are straight and who are single (unless they're getting tons of pussy already). I realize that YOU can be platonic friends with guys, but a single straight guy who isn't getting laid constantly CANNOT be platonic friends with an attractive girl (with only rare exceptions).
This guy was obviously attracted to you - sexually for certain, and perhaps also romantically - and it's painful for him to see you with another guy. But this gets back to the point: you CANNOT be platonic friends with single guys. All of your "guy friends" want to bang you, and that changes how they treat you and how they feel about you, and means their "friendship" with you is at least partially a lie. It's not your fault that guys feel this way or are this way, but you need to know better, especially at your age (assuming your listed age is correct).
If you always assume that all of your guy friends are just waiting for any opportunity to get you into bed, then all of the rest of their behavior will suddenly make much more sense...
This so much. I don't get the down votes. Considering they are women, they wouldn't understand I guess. There are some guys that are able to maintain friendships with women they are attracted to, but I don't know how many will go out of their way to hang out with female friends they are attracted to, without some tension or some end goal of a relationship or sex
and I'm talking about consistently hanging out. If the man is heterosexual and he is sexually attracted to the woman, who is also single, he is going to fantasize at some point and make a move, unless he is really shy
@MrNameless The downvotes are because the truth is kind of harsh, and people don't want to hear it. I realize that delusions can be comforting, but that just makes facing the inevitable situation like this that much harder - because the truth eventually can't be avoided.
Yeah I was thinking that too. Girls shouldn't have this feeling of paranoia towards guys, but they should understand that when it gets to that point, it's best to have boundries and not say or do anything that could make them look like they are giving the guy a chance/leading them on, and they should respect the space if men don't want to be friends with them anymore
I don't understand how you don't see why. He probably was interested in you or had deep feelings and since he found out you have a boyfriend he distanced himself to collect his feelings and either drown them out or put them in a box. I do this all the time if a girl is taken and we weren't friends prior to them getting a boyfriend I would just distance myself and not talk to them but if I've known them a while before they got a boyfriend I'd put some distance but come back after I collect myself and control myself.
maybe your guy friend is hurt because he may think you will spend more time with your boyfriend then you will with him ! understandable ! however , maybe you can take time for your guy friend for something fun like a snack and chat in a restaurant and leave the romance and big dates for you and your boyfriend ! thanks
You shouldn't be asking this question you have a boyfriend why do you even want to talk to him? If you do... you clearly should be dating him dont play mind games he did the respectable thing by respecting your relationship there needs to be more men and women like that!
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He never wanted to be just friends.
Possibly a few reasons, but I think he thought intimately of you, not platonic, so when he found out you had a boyfriend he decided that you’re off limits or not an option for him intimately. I believe this is biology, where a man will back off from a woman once he realizes that the woman is taken by another man and go find another woman to devote his time and energy towards that isn’t taken.
ugggg... because women think they have guy "friends". And as I keep telling all of you for years, ya don't. You have guys that are friendly to you. But every one would have sex with you if they were single and you offered. Doesn't matter if "I wouldn't want to do that" or "I don't think of him that way". We think that way.
Could be all the answers below ;) How long did you know your friend? then boyfriend. what do you talk about to both? Why didn't you take guy friend on? . Please : if all you do is talk about new boyfriend and not other stuff guys don't what to hear that! I'm not saying you do but like KrakenAttackin (below ) said you'll need to work it out. Talk to guy friend if you need to and find out. Back to you.
It's obviously one of these things
1. Either he likes you.
2. you like highly exgagurated about your boyfriend by talking too much of unintentionally compared both of them which might have irritated him.
3. if you are with me and always talk about the 3rd person I will have no interest in the conversation.
Duh. Double duh. Because he wasn't ever REALLY your friend. He just pretended to be as a way to get with you. He wanted you. Then when he found out there was no chance, he showed his true colors. You're at least 25, right? Why do you need to even ask this?
Because the majority of guy "friends" that girls have really want to date her. That is why a lot of guys don't want their girlfriends having male friends because they already know that most guys that are friends with girls want them for more than friends. Ever wonder why the more attractive girls can get guy friends easier and the fat or unattractive ones have much fewer opportunities if any to have guy friends.
I hate people who keeps talking about their bfs or gfs to me. i had a personal trainer like that, really i dont want to know that you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Or that they bought u a gift. Hell i dont want to hear about your mother even. Just get this job done. maybe that is why he stopped talking to u
Guy friend clearly wanted to be your boyfriend and even went so far as to point out that he doesn't want to talk about his missed chances. I'm sure every conversation you had with guy friend about your boyfriend hurt and he decided to get away from you since you might sound happy with your current boyfriend.
Because he wanted to be your boyfriend. Even if you talked to him about the boyfriend before, he probably thought he was next in line. When you skipped over him to someone else, you probably hurt his feelings.
He has feelings for you and now wants to separate from you. He no longer wants to be your friend. Sorry to say. Friends don't stop talking to you. Your not emotionally neglecting him so there is no other logical reason why.
For his own benefit. He likes you and was trying to get closer to you. As soon as he found out you were taken there was no reason to continue as he was.
No guy is going to go after a taken woman.
Maybe because he is in loooooooooove and jealoussssssssss
Either he's interested in you or he doesn't want to be a burden in your relationship and make you or your partner uncomfortable
⬆️What she said ⬆️
It's not enough to tell someone bad things about yourself. if someone has a partner and you know it, you're supposed to make the step and stay away from them, respecting their relationship.
Another thing is that if a girl has a boyfriend and likes someone else and is ready to step out of her relationship for someone else, that's already a big red flag
Even when I first met her, she was with me all the time. For the first two months we were just friends, I never had day that we couldn't be with each other till morning to the next morning. We were texting all times. Even in midnight. I dint think she had serious relationship. And by the way, I remember saying her that she would do the same to me one day.
@Ntwo0 you know all you had to do is tell @potatoiswhoiam that you didn't like her that way right? It's completely immature to just be rude to someone that likes you because you were too chicken to be simply direct and tell her that you don't like her. This is the issue with relationships in general, people who are too scared to directly communicate their feelings then when things don't work out, instead of accepting their bad actions they start blaming the people who couldn't pick up on the indirect communication.
@dornthedude no one is even talking about what you just say. You're talking about a different situation, it seems. We are discussing a person who finds out the person they like, likes someone else. What's most natural and right in that case is to stay away from that person and respect their relationship with whoever they're with at that time. There is nothing bout "not liking her that way"
@potatoiswhoiam then what were you and @Ntwo0 talking about? It seems you were talking about something personally
@dornuthedude it was something personal and related to the topic of this question.
@Ntwo0 well, then I just added on to your personal situation then.
It sounds like he is dealing the some jealousy issues. It's very possible he likes you more than just as a friend. I've had similar issues with my female friends that I had feelings for and it took me a while to accept that our friendship what's more important then my fantasies of being in a relationship with her. things are better now, but I do struggle sometimes when she starts dating someone new.
I think every man has experienced this at least once
He likely got feelings for you and it hurts him and annoys him to see that you are still talking about him now that its official. The fact that its official on its own is going to be a deterrent.
Based on your question... if he doesn't want to hear about you too its because he's jealous of what he can't have.
That's you FYI, I'm talking about you.
He has feelings for you but waited to see if he had any chance. When you kept on telling him about your boyfriend, he knew it was over for him and decided he should move on.
Because he respects you and isn’t a complete idiot to overstep your relationship with your boyfriend
Obviously he was interested in you for more than just friendship. And now your friendship is just going to hurt him until he gets over you.
Because maybe he secretly likes you and feels jealous when you mention your boyfriend or talk about your relationship. He seems to have a crush on you
He wants more, you friendzoned him and he dosnt want to be stuck in that position knowing he wants more and can't have it. very simple hope I could help
He liked you in a romantic way unaware you where in a relationship already and finding out dashed his hopes
Are you stupid or just so conceited you don't care?
If you liked a guy "friend" and found out he had a girlfriend would you want to talk with him anymore or as often? Jeez. If you're this dumb he probably figured you're easy
He obviously has feelings for you and finds it to be a conflict of interest as well as his requests for you to stop talking about the boyfriend were not honored and may have felt disrespected.
Probably had a crush on you and is distancing himself to get over the hurt of not being able to be with you
It's because even though it isn't sexual or anything, he might be taking a respectful step back, or he does like you and can't stand it, or he doesn't like your boyfriend and he is not wanting to be a part of it. Who knows
because "he didn't want to hear it and it bother him".
This is obvious. He doesn't have a shot with you now, so there is no reason to be your "friend".
Smart guys know the following. If your not her boyfriend... then you're her girlfriend.
He likes you and is jealous. He is tryna cope with his emotions and try to quit falling for you
He was hoping to get promoted out of the friend zone
Because he has some feelings for you. And hoped he can be your boyfriend. But when he knew that you already have a boyfriend, he back off.
He's an ass and he was only interested in you sexually not in actually being your friend
It dosnt make him an ass and it dosnt mean it was only lust he could have been interested in pursuing her romantically but to shy or lacking the confidence to out right say it and knowing he has feelings and can't act on them isn't fair to him or her bec as use he will always have the romantic desire in the back of his head
Cuz he was hoping to have a shot at you and then realized he doesn’t have a chance now
Out of respect for you and your relationship. Doesn't want to interfere. And protecting his own feelings
He wanted to be with you, or you lead him on somehow and he feels like shit, and doesn't want to talk with you.
He was interested and he knew it wasn't fair to your boyfriend if he stuck around
Just take a second and think about the answer. I'll wait. He likes you.
He either has a crush on you or he doesn’t want to interfere with your relationship by even being a friend.
Probably because he was interested in you but since you have a boyfriend he figures he doesn’t have a chance
Because he probably want to fuck you but now that he knows his Chance's are bill because you have a big he's thinking he ain't gonna waste his time trying to fuck you if it can't happen
Well, either he likes you for more than a friend, or a common thing is how people seem to completely ignore our friends when we start seeing someone new, Or maybe your friend doesn't like or approve of your bf?
Maybe he's the guy who got friendzoned and didn't even know about it
He most likely wanted to start with a friendship and work up to a relationship. At the same time he could be a little intimidated.
He was not a friend, he wanted to be more than that.
Apparently he has developed an interest towards you.
Clearly your friend didn't see you as just a friend.
Because he’s sick of you talking about your boyfriend.
why do girls need guy "friends", especially if they have a boyfriend
Usually it is one of two reasons. She wants the guy friends as a back up plan if things don't work out with the guy she really wants, or the girl is just plain dumb.
It's so obvious. He likes you! he's jealous of him. That's why it bothers him.
I don't think it so much jealousy with guys in a similar position. They respect boundries and their feelings are hurt as they are taking it in
He obviously likes you but fears you knowing so he made a hint
Yeah easy.
Guys DO NOT make time in their lives for females (outside of family) that they are not sexually interested in. No straight guy wants to "be your friend" because of your personality.
Hmmm no, not all guys are complete desperate horn dogs. Guys can be friends with the opposite sex. But it seems like this guy friend wanted to be more than friends
@dornuthedude Lying will not win you pussy points bud.
At no point in your life did you ever text a fat ugly girl out of the blue just to see how her day was, and you know it!
You have NEVER made time in your schedule to hang out with a fat ugly girl alone "just because".
Females you reach out to are females you could see yourself having sex with, or else you wouldn't bother.
It's because of guys like you lying to them (and yourself), that women believe their guy friends aren't laying in wait for their opportunity. It's a total lie and you know it as well as I do.
It bothered him cause he was jealous and now he stopped talking to you cause your boyfriend got what he wanted but couldn't get. He wanted you.
He probably thinks that it will effect your friendship, or he could possibly like you. I don't know. Or did your boyfriend tell him to stop coming around you maybe?
Get your boyfriend to beat his ass
Probably he tried to get a relation with you but went away this would be hard for him.
These happens a lot but guys shouldn’t leave a connection that way... not a gantlet guy
Because he thought he had a chance to either bed or date You!
Are you seriously asking, or are you simply desperate for attention?
He wants to respect your relationship and maybe he liked you more then friends.
Because he knows his chances of beating your flaps just went to zero
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