Because you can't have "guy friends" - at least, not with guys who are straight and who are single (unless they're getting tons of pussy already). I realize that YOU can be platonic friends with guys, but a single straight guy who isn't getting laid constantly CANNOT be platonic friends with an attractive girl (with only rare exceptions).
This guy was obviously attracted to you - sexually for certain, and perhaps also romantically - and it's painful for him to see you with another guy. But this gets back to the point: you CANNOT be platonic friends with single guys. All of your "guy friends" want to bang you, and that changes how they treat you and how they feel about you, and means their "friendship" with you is at least partially a lie. It's not your fault that guys feel this way or are this way, but you need to know better, especially at your age (assuming your listed age is correct).
If you always assume that all of your guy friends are just waiting for any opportunity to get you into bed, then all of the rest of their behavior will suddenly make much more sense...
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I don't understand how you don't see why. He probably was interested in you or had deep feelings and since he found out you have a boyfriend he distanced himself to collect his feelings and either drown them out or put them in a box. I do this all the time if a girl is taken and we weren't friends prior to them getting a boyfriend I would just distance myself and not talk to them but if I've known them a while before they got a boyfriend I'd put some distance but come back after I collect myself and control myself.
maybe your guy friend is hurt because he may think you will spend more time with your boyfriend then you will with him ! understandable ! however , maybe you can take time for your guy friend for something fun like a snack and chat in a restaurant and leave the romance and big dates for you and your boyfriend ! thanks
You shouldn't be asking this question you have a boyfriend why do you even want to talk to him? If you do... you clearly should be dating him dont play mind games he did the respectable thing by respecting your relationship there needs to be more men and women like that!
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He never wanted to be just friends.
Possibly a few reasons, but I think he thought intimately of you, not platonic, so when he found out you had a boyfriend he decided that you’re off limits or not an option for him intimately. I believe this is biology, where a man will back off from a woman once he realizes that the woman is taken by another man and go find another woman to devote his time and energy towards that isn’t taken.
ugggg... because women think they have guy "friends". And as I keep telling all of you for years, ya don't. You have guys that are friendly to you. But every one would have sex with you if they were single and you offered. Doesn't matter if "I wouldn't want to do that" or "I don't think of him that way". We think that way.
Could be all the answers below ;) How long did you know your friend? then boyfriend. what do you talk about to both? Why didn't you take guy friend on? . Please : if all you do is talk about new boyfriend and not other stuff guys don't what to hear that! I'm not saying you do but like KrakenAttackin (below ) said you'll need to work it out. Talk to guy friend if you need to and find out. Back to you.
It's obviously one of these things
1. Either he likes you.
2. you like highly exgagurated about your boyfriend by talking too much of unintentionally compared both of them which might have irritated him.
3. if you are with me and always talk about the 3rd person I will have no interest in the conversation.Because the majority of guy "friends" that girls have really want to date her. That is why a lot of guys don't want their girlfriends having male friends because they already know that most guys that are friends with girls want them for more than friends. Ever wonder why the more attractive girls can get guy friends easier and the fat or unattractive ones have much fewer opportunities if any to have guy friends.
Duh. Double duh. Because he wasn't ever REALLY your friend. He just pretended to be as a way to get with you. He wanted you. Then when he found out there was no chance, he showed his true colors. You're at least 25, right? Why do you need to even ask this?
I hate people who keeps talking about their bfs or gfs to me. i had a personal trainer like that, really i dont want to know that you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Or that they bought u a gift. Hell i dont want to hear about your mother even. Just get this job done. maybe that is why he stopped talking to u
Guy friend clearly wanted to be your boyfriend and even went so far as to point out that he doesn't want to talk about his missed chances. I'm sure every conversation you had with guy friend about your boyfriend hurt and he decided to get away from you since you might sound happy with your current boyfriend.
Because he wanted to be your boyfriend. Even if you talked to him about the boyfriend before, he probably thought he was next in line. When you skipped over him to someone else, you probably hurt his feelings.
He has feelings for you and now wants to separate from you. He no longer wants to be your friend. Sorry to say. Friends don't stop talking to you. Your not emotionally neglecting him so there is no other logical reason why.
For his own benefit. He likes you and was trying to get closer to you. As soon as he found out you were taken there was no reason to continue as he was.
No guy is going to go after a taken woman.Maybe because he is in loooooooooove and jealoussssssssss
Either he's interested in you or he doesn't want to be a burden in your relationship and make you or your partner uncomfortable
It sounds like he is dealing the some jealousy issues. It's very possible he likes you more than just as a friend. I've had similar issues with my female friends that I had feelings for and it took me a while to accept that our friendship what's more important then my fantasies of being in a relationship with her. things are better now, but I do struggle sometimes when she starts dating someone new.
He likely got feelings for you and it hurts him and annoys him to see that you are still talking about him now that its official. The fact that its official on its own is going to be a deterrent.
Based on your question... if he doesn't want to hear about you too its because he's jealous of what he can't have.
That's you FYI, I'm talking about you.He has feelings for you but waited to see if he had any chance. When you kept on telling him about your boyfriend, he knew it was over for him and decided he should move on.
Because he respects you and isn’t a complete idiot to overstep your relationship with your boyfriend
Obviously he was interested in you for more than just friendship. And now your friendship is just going to hurt him until he gets over you.
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