My boyfriend cursed at me and tried to make it seem like I heard it wrong. Does he not respect me? He said he meant it as a joke? WTH?

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My boyfriend of 1 and a half years just cursed at me saying something like “what did you expect b**ch” and when I asked him to repeat it he changed that curse word to “babe” and I said I heard him curse at me. He tried to change the topic and said that I heard it wrong but then made a playful face which shows that he is lying and I confronted him about it then he accepted that he cursed but he meant it as a joke... to make me laugh! He tries to get out of the situation every time he does something that gets me mad and it pisses me off more. He said he expected me laugh for him calling me the b word as if I am one of the guys. I don’t know what to do.
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I normally do not care when he curses because it is mostly when he is in the game or just hanging around with his friends I am not like a mean girlfriend who controls his every move I even hate it but getting cursed like that made me really sad as if I am not his girlfriend but as someone insignificant like one of the boys
My boyfriend cursed at me and tried to make it seem like I heard it wrong. Does he not respect me? He said he meant it as a joke? WTH?
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