Guys, Do you guys out there like chubby/curvy girls?

[Dawnrises21]

This is me...

This is a chubby girl I consider beautiful.

What do you guys think?

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+1 y

Thank y’all for the compliments! I’ve always been told by my mum that I am fat so I kinda put myself in the “chubby” category. But after all of the comments I can see that isn’t true.

[SirRexington]

I'm glad others have pointed it out to you but you aren't chubby. Your body is rather average in terms on female body fat percentage. With that said, that other girl you showed is chubby but I absolutely find her body to be gorgeous.

I'm very sorry that at such a young age you have already developed these opinions of yourself and even more worried that it's coming from a parent. That's not right. She should be supportive not attack you on your weight especially when it isn't necessary.

[Dawnrises21]

Such a kind answer and very insightful. Thank you! 😊

[SirRexington]

You're very welcome and I do hope you learn to appreciate that you as a woman have a lot of leeway in how you look because contrary to popular belief, many men are either lenient in their preferences or actually enjoy a bigger girl. But I also hope your mother understands what her negative behavior is doing to you. Although if she's saying this often then she likely cannot be reasoned with.

[Dawnrises21]

My therapist had set a rule in my house that we don’t talk about it. She breaks that rule without realising. It’s just spite.

[SirRexington]

I'm sorry your mother is not as motherly as she should be. My mom grew up in a very toxic environment and promised not to raise me the way she was. I have my issues but they aren't because of her. So it's a shame your mother could be more like mine.

[Dawnrises21]

My mum made the same promise but sadly broke it.

[PeterAyre]

Yes, of course there are. I am one of them. There will be lots of people who can love you. Loving yourself is the hardest part. You don't want to find a partner that thinks you're the most attractive person in the world, if you plan on changing yourself into something different, something that you yourself feel like you can love.

[JustAStrange]

You are your own self :) I believe the figure or weight does not really matter. Everyone changes their appearance when we age. I used to have a really chubby girlfriend for 6 years and she was the love of my life. I dated models and other much sexy young women but i don't know why that chubby ex of mine was the love of my life. Its her personality i guess. Also, if you want good and professional advice google relationshipadviceforcheaps. com and you can get cheap professional opinions from there. I hope that helps!

[rockhardon]

It wouldn't say chubby, curvy, but definitely want a big fat sexy ass.
my girl, no bullshit, she got to have a fat ass..
I honestly don't give 2 shits about the clevage or boogie show.. fir me.. she's gotta have ass.. all ass baby.. n sit on my face! Lol

Queen and Freddie Mercury said it best fat bottom girls, you make the rockin world go round.. big fat ass, please, the bigger, the fatter the ass, the better, just as long as she got a flat stomach.
no bigdonut hole snow tube gut.. fucking tire roll..
not thatmatters, , I know a lot of guys that are turned on by the big tire rolo.
but if I had to choose, I want a flat stomach and the ass can't be big enough.

[abc3643]

That bottom chubby girl I believe is Plus-Size Model Denise Bidot.

She is currently doing an Olay make-up commercial.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LN9Y9MVosCg

[Dawnrises21]

I know her!!!

[Dawnrises21]

It might be

[abc3643]

It is. I later did a Google Image Search on the picture you provided and it came back that she was Denise Bidot.

F Y I:

thecurvyfashionista.com/.../

[abc3643]

My second girlfriend was a plus-size girl. We were together over 2 years and I feel bad that I ended it. She is still a wonderful woman and I trade emails with her a few times each year. Dating her changed my mind about plus-size girls.

[Dawnrises21]

Thanks. I didn’t even notice.

[seanras]

Physical beauty lies in the proportions. It's not about being skinny or curvy per se. Even inside each of those two categories, there can be attractive or ordinary bodied people. The idea of female beauty is the hour glass figure. I'd say if guys are giving you attention, you have nothing to worry about.

But be safe, you're just 15, so don't let some guy sweet talk you into bed because next thing you know you'll be pregnant with his baby.

[Dawnrises21]

Thank you- I appreciate your thoughts.

[virtue2332]

There is nothing average about these figures. They are above average on the nicer side of things. The facts the initial appearance may get attention good or bad but how someone carries themselves goes a long way. When someone is genuinely fun to be around and trustworthy you notice all the attractive things about their appearance. When they are shady and horrible you start to notice everything unattractive about them.

[Cleverbot99]

Honest answer:

The first one is not chubby, looks ok, the second one is chubby, I consider it to be quite unattractive.
However I could imagine that there are some (chubby?) guys who are okay with the second picture as well.

I'd recommend the second woman to lose weight (also for health reasons).

Final words: The most attractive thing, seriously, still is a good smile and confidence.

[Cortaine]

First, chubby girls are awesome. Second, you're not chubby, you're thin to average. Size wise! No opinion on beauty-wise. Third, while chubby = awesome and you =/= chubby, you are still awesome. Work it girl.

[Dawnrises21]

Thanks a bunch. I got confused haha

[I-am-a-nobody]

When I was younger, I thought a few extra curves (less than the chubby girl pictured) were nice, but I married a regular sized girl and I'm so glad I did. If a girl is 18 she can carry 10 extra pounds pretty well. Unfortunately, if she's 10 lbs over at 18, she'll probably be 30 lbs over at 30. At 40 she may be 50 lbs over, and then it's really starting to sag. My wife has stayed within 5 lbs. of her marriage weight. (Not counting pregnancies, post partum.)

[godfatherfan]

Ok, first of all, the top picture is really skinny, so you can't put that in here. Personally, I consider the bottom picture woman skinny also. I have always loved larger women. So the bottom one is great, but larger is fine also.

[Dawnrises21]

Really? I’m skinny.

[TheUniqueOne96]

It depends how big a person is.

I'm not generally too fussed about body types, but I wouldn't want someone who''s overly big - if they're attractive to me, then that's fine, but health is also important.

[Dawnrises21]

That makes sense

[AmeenKA]

Generally mothers are very quick to criticise, but most of the time it's because they want their child to work harder to improve. So dont take it lightly but also remember it's not as serious as she is probably making it out to be. Also, a girl like you is nowhere near out of league😉 when you got flaps thats when guys don't go d it attractive. But you rock that body girl!

[TheDongMonologues]

Don't like the chubby. I like better if she's working on losing some of that body fat. Then I like way, way better. I don't like the ones who just seem okay to be chubby.

[Dawnrises21]

What if they look chubby but have a healthy body fat %?

[TheDongMonologues]

It is a mind thing for me. If she wants to lose some of the excess fat then we can work together. I see potential and that's beautiful to me beyond the immediate form. But I do not like somebody who is okay with themselves carrying excess body fat. Maybe that's superficial in a way (it probably is) but it's also like I don't want her to die soon.

[Dawnrises21]

Yeah- that’s understandable.

[TheDongMonologues]

I am info fitness but I invite her to join me. We can do slowly, at her pace. If she is very heavy then I can put weighted vests and straps on my body to match our weights. We can become fit together. I am far from a picture-perfect body either. I am 40-years old now. I have a pic if you will forgive my age and my limitations:
i. imgur. com/PkFXD93. png

But I like having a fitness partner. We can inspire and motivate each other, eat healthy things, cook healthy things for each other. I like it this way. It is a common interest. If she is chubby that is okay but I want this common interest.

[TheDongMonologues]

Hmm. I am level 1 so I cannot post pics so easily. Maybe easiest is to remove the spaces from this one:
imgur. com/PkFXD93

[Dawnrises21]

Your body looks good considering your age. And yes- I too prefer fitness when you have somebody to do it with. And your way of doing things sounds really fair and sweet.

[Jombie]

I like chubby girls. I like big girls. I like skinny girls. I like muscular girls. I like average girls too. And that's what you are: just kinda average; not really skinny, not really chubby.

[Dawnrises21]

Thanks! I’m just paranoid.

[Jombie]

It's okay, everyone thinks they look worse than they really do, with the rare exception of people that look god awful but think they're the next brooke shields or john stamos

[Dawnrises21]

Great way of putting it haha

[InternetGuy]

Sure, but everyone should always work to be healthy (Or at least somewhat healthy). You ain't even chubby though.

[Dawnrises21]

Thanks- I’m healthy in every aspect apart from BMI which is over by 1. So I’m just automatically wired to think I’m fat.

[robertKugler]

Depends on the girl. Some wear the weight well... and it don't deminish their sex appeal.. the top pick... that's not fat that healthy athletic perfect.. n I the the one on the bottom is pretty incredible too

[Dawnrises21]

Thanks for the “perfect” hehe.

[Avenoma]

I use to. I thought they would be more thoughtful and mentally deep. Unfortunately, they all have had more severe mental issues in my experience and were just as swallow as Barbie girls.

[Dawnrises21]

I had never thought of that

[Avenoma]

Yea, young plus sized woman just need not rely on pity for dates. It will lead to mental stress and identity struggles. Many many men, myself included, are attracted to curvy women with an attitude. It's that whole, meeting in th middle thing that's tricky.

[Dawnrises21]

That does make a lot of sense really.. They say confidence is one of the most attractive qualities to have.

[Ricebeans]

Yes I do, it's like everything some things you likes and some not, and by the way you are not chubby you have curves. That's normal. And please don't drink from the cup of self sabotage your self esteem. Your fine as far as I can see.

[Dawnrises21]

Thank you

[Twalli]

in my opinion, you look better. I prefer slimmer girls, but I think a reason is that I am pretty small. Topping out at 5'4" and 120 lbs. I don't find thicker girls ugly, I just think it's better with girls that can't crush me if we ever do cowgirl.

[Dawnrises21]

Very intellectually put. However I am 5’6 sooooo hahah

[Twalli]

I am not interested in dating you. And apparently I am above average in my pants, so it all works out in the end.

[Dawnrises21]

I know that haha. And oh okay then.

[Twalli]

Plus you're 15 and I am 29 in 8 days, so way too old for you.

[Dawnrises21]

I’m not interested anyway. No offence.

[Twalli]

It's good you aren't. If I dated a girl about half my age under about 50, it'd be weird. Likewise it'd be weird if you dated someone my age.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Big is beautiful & when it comes to love, love is love & there is a lot more to love as well.

[Dawnrises21]

That’s beautiful.

[humanearth]

Hell yeah I do. Ever meet a big girl that can't cook. They can cook food and in bed. More cushion for the pushing

[Dawnrises21]

Great description.

[BCA6010]

Personally I do not. Some do, but it's a relatively small crowd.

[Dawnrises21]

Fair enough

[darkcloud1945]

YES. I personally like small girls but have dated as you call them curvy girls. I myself am big and had the pleasure of dating small medium and large girls each had their own charms.

[Dawnrises21]

Beautifully put

[Anonymous]

1st one skinny, 2nd a little overweight. I could be attracted to either one, but would prefer a woman who was willing to change not for my sake but her own personal health. I wouldn't consider 2 obese (colloquially), but could see her losing 20lbs. I would make her do it, but would prefer it.

[Opinion Owner]

'would not'

[Hans222]

If she's a really nice person and I like her, sure! It's not the "being chubby" which makes the girl attractive, but I just don't mind if I feel comfortable with her as a person.

[ChasingtheWind]

I like chubby girls. When I make love to a chubby girl, she is softer so that I can put more strength to it and watch her white flesh shake beautifully. Just like they say, all men like to hold big juicy butts at nights. Chubby girls usually have a good temper and are more considerate.

[MysteriesStranger]

Thicc thighs save lives! So by that logic you should be a doctor

[Dawnrises21]

Iconic

[MysteriesStranger]

It be like that

[jogak86017]

Chubby girls are more fun.. more to play with ;)
You look gorgeous, cute butt

[Dawnrises21]

Thanks!!!

[WadeDanielSmith]

I like thin, fit women. I am disappointed with myself at being overweight, and I am disappointed with women who don't take good care of yourself. Being 15 pounds overweight can reduce your life expectancy all the way down to 50 years.

[Dawnrises21]

Is it that much? Woah.

[nawtee_me]

Well you are hott so if you are not busy, I would not mind being seen out with you. Lets do lunch somewhere?

[Dawnrises21]

Hmmm- sorry. Lockdown. But you are so sweet!

[swing1]

there's nothing wrong with a little meat on the bones in fact I find it sexy! However Dawn there is absolutely nothing wrong with your body.

[Dawnrises21]

Thank you

[swing1]

😷👊