I'd say it goes for both genders. I'd say it's something like grooming, nice decent clothes and maybe some key basics of make up. Nothing over the top. Maybe some lipstick and blush something simple like that...
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Women have created the beauty standard that makes looking normal less attractive. Most girls looks like gollum without make up but as men we would love a natural beauty. But these girls are rare and since we have been tricked for so long by the fake beauty, the way women look without makeup is ugly in comparison.
Women don't wear makeup for men; they wear it for other women. It's like fashion (especially haute couture). They compare themselves with other women, where a man may be happy to see his wife in cutoffs and one of his old shirts.
Because there is better things to do with her time. And if she is relax in that area it's a high likelihood that she is in other also. So a sign that she isn't high in maintenance.
Men want a women that looks natural, we mean we don't actually prefer obvious eye shadow and red lipstick. Have nice hair, a nice smile and look natural and you will look your best to us.
I can take a guess that they put little effort into their own appearance. Imagine how silly they would look if they were in public with a girl that's all done up.
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Movies have projected the idea of dating a cool girl and hateing girly girls for years. A lot of men actually want to date a guy in a beutiful girls body. It's similar of why most women choose dark, strong silent type of guys rather than shy , empathetic , emotional guys. Cause those characteristics are seemed weak in our socity irrespective of any gender
It's just a difference of what she is putting her effort in. She can and should put effort into her appearance, but men would prefer that she's putting that effort into being healthy, eating well, etc...
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I think it's just that an average woman that's a 5 can go to a 7-8 if she does makeup correctly. Also some bras and yoga pants are deceiving and their bodies aren't actually that curvy. Men can't do too much to make themselves look better, and when they do (a tupee for example) they're made fun of. So some men are probably bitter towards that.
Its bullshit I dont know a single guy amongst my friends between age 20-29 like this Me and they like the make up nails done tight dress bit tits girls we do Any guy who says its fake and they hate it - fuck you little dick problems
I'm not sure why some do, I guess they just want you to be like them. I personally love it when a girl puts an effort in, especially nails. Love a girl with her nails done, it's very attractive.
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Effort is good. I've never heard any man complain about effort.
But fake eyelashes, colored contacts, fake hair, fake nails, fake tits, fake asses, and piles of makeup... I mean, what are you? A master of disguise?
I don't hate if women dress up or wear make up etc. but I really find them so much more attractive looking natural. it's getting increasingly popular to look really fake these days. with both sexes.
Effort is not the issue. It’s where you focus. Applying too much makeup and having fake nails may be a cover bc you feel inadequate in your personality. “Making an effort” just means caring.
I don't really care if she's a natural beauty or has to put on makeup to look attractive. If you're wanting to put a crap ton of effort to win me over you've won me over already. It's a good thing that a woman is taking the time to dress formally.
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I'd say it goes for both genders. I'd say it's something like grooming, nice decent clothes and maybe some key basics of make up. Nothing over the top. Maybe some lipstick and blush something simple like that...
Women have created the beauty standard that makes looking normal less attractive.
Most girls looks like gollum without make up but as men we would love a natural beauty. But these girls are rare and since we have been tricked for so long by the fake beauty, the way women look without makeup is ugly in comparison.
I’m the opposite. I’d be insulted if a girl appeared lazy/careless around me after I had made some effort in my appearance to keep her interested
Right? Do men just want slobs like what the hell
@AlongCameCindy Not real men 😏
Women don't wear makeup for men; they wear it for other women. It's like fashion (especially haute couture). They compare themselves with other women, where a man may be happy to see his wife in cutoffs and one of his old shirts.
Insecurity for one.
Or, some guys want you to know that you really are beautiful without it all.
For a lot of woman, that last statement is the most difficult to believe.
And that's because most men are full of shit.
Maybe I have seen one woman in my life that looked good without makeup
Because there is better things to do with her time. And if she is relax in that area it's a high likelihood that she is in other also. So a sign that she isn't high in maintenance.
Men want a women that looks natural, we mean we don't actually prefer obvious eye shadow and red lipstick. Have nice hair, a nice smile and look natural and you will look your best to us.
I can take a guess that they put little effort into their own appearance. Imagine how silly they would look if they were in public with a girl that's all done up.
Movies have projected the idea of dating a cool girl and hateing girly girls for years. A lot of men actually want to date a guy in a beutiful girls body. It's similar of why most women choose dark, strong silent type of guys rather than shy , empathetic , emotional guys. Cause those characteristics are seemed weak in our socity irrespective of any gender
It's just a difference of what she is putting her effort in. She can and should put effort into her appearance, but men would prefer that she's putting that effort into being healthy, eating well, etc...
I think it's just that an average woman that's a 5 can go to a 7-8 if she does makeup correctly. Also some bras and yoga pants are deceiving and their bodies aren't actually that curvy. Men can't do too much to make themselves look better, and when they do (a tupee for example) they're made fun of. So some men are probably bitter towards that.
Its bullshit
I dont know a single guy amongst my friends between age 20-29 like this
Me and they like the make up nails done tight dress bit tits girls we do
Any guy who says its fake and they hate it - fuck you little dick problems
It comes down to 1 thing. Some men don't want high maintenance partners and others aren't fussed by it.
I'm not sure why some do, I guess they just want you to be like them. I personally love it when a girl puts an effort in, especially nails. Love a girl with her nails done, it's very attractive.
Effort is good. I've never heard any man complain about effort.
But fake eyelashes, colored contacts, fake hair, fake nails, fake tits, fake asses, and piles of makeup... I mean, what are you? A master of disguise?
I don't hate if women dress up or wear make up etc. but I really find them so much more attractive looking natural. it's getting increasingly popular to look really fake these days. with both sexes.
I appreciate both natural beauty ‘and’ their effort. Which I know they equally appreciate my taking notice of.
Effort is not the issue. It’s where you focus. Applying too much makeup and having fake nails may be a cover bc you feel inadequate in your personality. “Making an effort” just means caring.
I don't really care if she's a natural beauty or has to put on makeup to look attractive. If you're wanting to put a crap ton of effort to win me over you've won me over already. It's a good thing that a woman is taking the time to dress formally.
Sadly modern make up can create something that is false. Gone of the days women just helped their looks...