What does it mean when a guy says "Its fine"?

[Anonymous]

I was a bit suggestive the other night with this guy and I was worried that it made things weird or uncomfortable to I apologized and his response was "It's fine" does that mean he forgives me or that it was ok that I was suggestive?

[VanillaSalt]

Um... ya it’s fine is it’s fine... leave it and it will pass and he’ll act on it later if he wants... haven’t you seen best guy friends fight? Stepped on each other foot went outside beat the shit out of each other and then went back into the bar and shared a drink lmao


He might not have been in the mood at that time or at all or he might have missed your hint.. dear god the hints I missed in high school. girlfriend once said to me “I always carry condoms” from out of left field... ya I missed that one.


Guys are so thick we might miss you asking if we wanna have sex... then with the same thickness the arrow couldn’t penetrate our skin to reach our heart... so ofc your “hurtful actions” just rolled right off

[chris4fun]

It could also mean he feels you did nothing wrong and you apologized for no reason. Just because someone is suggestive doesn't mean you did something wrong. He could have taken it badly to begin with then when you apologized he was thinking about his reaction and thought maybe he over reacted so instead of him saying sorry for his reaction towards your suggestion he just said its fine.

[elly91]

In my opinion It means the opposite really... he's just saying it's fine because he's being aggreable and doesn't want a discussion...

[lilbishlilbish]

i mean what was his response to u being "suggestive" before you apologized?

[ItsTheNephilim]

He has either gotten over it (or not) and doesn't wanna talk about it or didn't consider it as a big deal in the first place. Either way, try not to do that again if you think it truly bothered him or made it uncomfortable.

[Asker]

So a little more info we have been friends with benefits in the past and we cut it off because I was in an open relationship and he got uncomfortable with that, but lately he's been texting a lot again, what do you think now?

[ItsTheNephilim]

Maybe it's something he didn't see coming. Probably wanted to be exclusive if it really mattered to him.

[Adam1978]

It means he doesn't want to talk about it, if it's something it's so minor that he doesn't think it's worth doing anything about it. It's a sign you should drop whatever it is and move on.

[Anonymous]

It's fine means... it's fine.

We are simple that way.

No need for you to feel weird. He was fine with whatever you did.

If he wasn't, he'd have said so.

Again, we're simple like that.

[Asker]

So do you think it was fine I said that or he accepted my apology

[Opinion Owner]

If you can't understand my post which was literally as simple as I could make it... There's no hope for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think the only conclusion you can make with any certainty is that he is telling you that what happened was not a deal breaker.

[Anonymous]

depends. are you ugly and fat or curvy and attractive. are you a drama queen? did he friendzone you prior to this? if you answered yes to most of these like the ugly and fat and drama queen and friendzone prior then it's not fine and he's mad. but unless you said you are curvy and attractive and none of the above then it is fine

[SjE78]

when a guy says it's fine it actually means it's fine, we dont mince our meanings, if we say ok it means ok, if we say... well you get the idea :)

[ValleyofDrakes]

I don't see a reason to believe that he means something other than what he said.

He says it's fine so therefore it's fine.

[teamvic]

In that context sounds like he's saying its fine that you were being suggestive

[Asker]

So a little more info we have been friends with benefits in the past and we cut it off because I was in an open relationship and he got uncomfortable with that, but lately he's been texting a lot again, what do you think now

[teamvic]

Sounds like he's been missing that pussy Haha

If he knows you're in a relationship still and still messaging you a lot more frequently then I'm thinking there's a good chance he's tryna smash again

[Asker]

That's kinda what I thought and why I was a bit suggestive

[teamvic]

And what did he say

[Asker]

It was late and he wasn't awake so he didn't say anything lol

[teamvic]

I see, so what exactly did you tell him about you thinking he just wanted to fuck? Did you say you were cool with it or something

[RHK36]

When men say it's fine, it generally means it's fine. When women say it's fine, it's most definitely not fine so you should mess with her for sending mixed messages.

[xXMidknightXx]

Two things:
1) I think you're reading into it way too much
2) Talk to him about it. The benefit of communicating with the person you have a problem with is you get to learn more about them.

[MDF_ANJ]

Well, for woman, "I'm fine" means she might cut your dick off in the night. For guys, it usually means we're actually fine, just kinda wondering what we should do

[666llLillith666]

Your not wrong

[bulletbob555]

Hard to say for sure. It could mean frustrated, insecure, neurotic and exasperated. Yes sometimes it means the person is ok with it, other times it means its not ok but they won't tell you how they feel about it

[Browneye57]

Both. There's just no hidden meaning in what a guys says. You're projecting. This is the realm of woman.

[spartan55]

That's like the #1 female passive aggressive 'go-to' line... 😂 😂 😂 😂 You should know.

[Tamera952]

Means he's trying to masturbate and you won't shut up and leave so he can just jack off

[BCA6010]

If I said "it's fine," it would definitely mean that it's fine. Guys aren't women.

[A_Bell]

It's fine.

For women it's "It's not fine."

[MotorcycleMan]

Most of the time, that means exactly what he said. It's fine. Don't worry about it.

[HalfACharlie123]

It means you didn't do anything wrong he just didn't want it then probably.

[ChaoticHatred]

When men say it's fine, it usually means that either it's fine, or it's not fine, but I'm dealing with it because I like/love you.

[asshole_]

It means, it's fine

Unlike when a woman says "it's fine"

She's really saying "im pissed"

[pigoat]

It's fine means swipe it under the rug until he decides to talk about it or not

[talulahbee]

Ask him. Totally depends on the guy and the context.

[Anonymous]

It means he’s fine but doesn’t want to get into a lengthy conversation about your suggestive move, maybe next time you see him wear something that shows a decent amount of cleavage and tell him I made the last move now it’s your turn

[Anonymous]

when a guy says it’s fine it means it’s fine we’re not like women, we don’t say it’s fine
and really not mean it and want you to decipher some bullshit fucking mind reading crap and expect you to figure it out

[Thatsamazing]

It means he's tired of talking about it, and to just let it go. Not a big deal.

[DamnSam]

When I say "its fine", normally I just got not enough nervs left to diskuss this anymore

[Anonymous]

It means it's fine. It can also mean, it's not fine, but i will get over it on my own.

[Flippy99]

This isn't a clear sign in general.
Most likely he is okay with the last decision or statement he came up with.
Or in same cases he had just enough of conversation at all.

[hbg84]

It means the exact opposite. Same as when a woman says its fine. It's not fine at all

[OddBeMe]

It means he doesn’t want to talk about it. But we’re resilient and don’t like sensitive topics.

[not329446]

It's ok, you caught him off guard, he was not expecting that and did not know how to respond.

[AcidT0y]

It could be either, no way if knowing which from two words

[Snakeyes7]

I think he doesn’t really care about what happened.

[captain_voidwalker]

It literally means it's fine, men dont say one thing and mean another that's what women do

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It means it's fine. But if he mean't different, that's his problem.

[ttnnkkrr]

it means its fine. that even if it wasn't ok to let it go

[Anonymous]

Could be both, just ask him next time or stop overthinking...

[HapHazzard2]

Okay, I've done this recently. From my end, "it's fine" meant "yeah sure. You're really weird. I enjoy weird. Please continue."

[MDollarBill]

He means, "I not happy right now, but I'll get over it."

[JoseLuisGonalez]

When a guy says it's fine it's fine. When a woman says it's fine I know there's a big problem.

[MrTaboo]

Usually just... its fine. Most of us guys dont code things. "Its fine" means just that.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know honestly. Guys never mean what they say lol. I wish they’d just be straight up

[TheKingKavak]

I think that this guy can't talk about this with u, and it was really easy answer

[MannMitAntworten]

It means he is dismissing the moment and moved on.

[coffeewithcream]

It means, "Shut the fuck up." :)

[Iron_Man]

Means basically that everything is OK

[FrePhill]

Typical man, probably just means as he said.

[jimmy2]

Well its all good with him sounds like

[ColHathi]

Yes.

[Aquiline_feast]

Means, it's okay.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Voice tone is key