Based on your choices, this is the perfect example of the incriminating indifference fallacy. In other words "You are not acting as emotional as we think you should be. Therefore, you are guilty/untrustworthy/hiding something."
The fact that he isn’t showing anything right now doesn’t really mean anything. He could still be sad that the relationship ended but he might be trying to put on a new face as an attempt to regain the confidence he had before/during the relationship to continue on with life but it ultimately fails.
He is cold hearted
Could be any/all of the above.
But in any case, he's moving on. Like any other person who is well-adjusted after a break up, he's comfortable being on his own.
Also, you have no idea what his internal life is like. He may seem outwardly unaffected, but he's likely processing things internally. Like a healthy person.
Why are you so interested in how your ex is?
It shouldn't last forever for it to be love. However, if one is relieved from the break up then probably the fun time for them was over. It actually helps you get over him since he is not poking you or triggering you to consider getting back.
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Maybe he actually did love you but fell out of love with you. Why did you break up with him? Did you ever love him? Or did you still love him but he didn't behave in a way that you could tolerate? Its rarely as simple as the choices that you gave us above
For me it means that, since she was unhappy, I am glad that she left and I wish the best for her. I am also glad for me, because if she stayed she would eventually take out her unhappiness on me. Most importantly, we all deserve to be with someone who enjoys our company, not someone who is only there out of convenience or till something better comes along.
Other. He is moving on. He is a guy. Guys do not act like girls, and you're a fool to expect them to.
Also, some guys are aware that if they want to hurt the girl who broke up with them, one possible way is to show no regrets about the break up, and start getting with another girl ASAP.
It makes them doubt the whole relationship. Was it even real? Did he have any feelings for me?
It's effective. But honestly, most of the time, it's nothing to do with making her feel like shit. It's simply that we're moving on. And while girls might like to sit around crying with their girlfriends and endlessly discussing and dissecting the dead relationship, guys don't. We have a beer with a mate, maybe talk about how it sucks, but by the end of the night you've got your eye on some new girl or girls, because life is short.
I believe, the reason could be something else too. When a relationship ends, it's normal that some people tends to act strong so the other person can't make of the fun as a weakness. It's even more common in men. As in the society, the men are not supposed to express their emotions freely but that doesn't mean they don't feel different emotions. It's mostly about who's better at hiding them.
It really depends on the situation. Some guys may just act unaffected because they've been conditioned to not show their feelings. In short, it's situational.
Really any, but also he could be in denial that anything was wrong and is apathetic about the whole thing because it would require him to admit things he doesn't want to.
Can we get more context? What was the reason for the break up? it could be for a number of reasons
Are you sure he really isn’t effected or maybe he’s just trying to seem like he’s not? He could be hurting inside
He's experienced enough to know that he'll be fine on his own.
He doesn't get as hurt by breakups anymore.
He's confident and he knows that there's other women out there.
Some people just don't feel empathy or apathy, even for themselves.
Got no time to lose. i take it as OK, i see our relationship is over. I'll start over again with someone else then.
E. He's been over you for a while, but didn't have the balls to end things. He might have been shagging another girl too.
You left him but you still care what he's doing and how he's feeling, lol.
He wins.
He is emotionally secure, he may be upset but respects you choice and accepts that perhaps you guys may have had issues he rather not deal with, or not worth the drama.
It just means he’s mature, and is able to move on from it without being affected. Being sad ain’t gonna help fix things, so may as well go through it happily
Depends on the person. It could mean something or nothing. You left, why do you care?
He knows there's other women out there. He likes his life regardless.
I think he does a little...
Means he doesn't give a fuck. Period
I'm going to say D, all of the above.
he is perfect Alpha Man
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