Is it really unintentional to show your dick during a video call?

Question

I was on a video call with a guy friend whom I have known for more than a year. He was interested in me but I didn't feel the same way. We flirt a little but he gets the point that we are not progressing further than that.

As we were chatting, he switched the front camera to the back camera. He was lying on his bed, So instead of looking at his face I had a view of his lower body (with pants on). I didn't think much of it as we were on a topic about a project.

But his hands started cupping his privates through the pants. Again I didn't comment on that as it was a norm for guys to do that (itchy balls maybe). Then the pants hitched up and I noticed the hair. At that point I don't know how to tell him so I shifted my gaze away and pretended to do write notes. When I looked back at the screen his penis was at plain sight.

I was a little flustered and told him that i could see his thing. He apologized and said that it wasn't intentional and that he didn't realized he swapped the cameras. Then he told me that I should have pretended not to see it.

So it is really unintentional? If so why do guys 'take it out' ?

jmf909 · Accepted Answer

Maybe was unintentional but you do give view of your camera on the screen at same time on video calls not sure if can take that off but if was in international then he was going to have a wank while talking to you and yes that means over you so he does like you still or fantasized over you. if happens again point phone some other direction and talk without watching and when he asked why your not on screen check the screen and tell him if he is flashing that he is showing the wrong head and that you are looking at camera but his phone must be broken possibly from the rude video he is showing and unless you do like the dude cut him off from your life because he will be wank o Ing over you everytime he videos you

pajamasam · Accepted Answer

Sometimes when a guy talks to a girl he likes over text or on the phone he might reach and grab his junk. Even if he knows he doesnr have a chance with her. Its just a momentary ease of sexual tension you might be feeling without having to be public or open about.

However. Video chat? I dont send dick pics or show myself off naked unless I'm pretty sure she actually wants to see it. Simply because the awkward "omg why would you do that, I feel so assaulted" conversation isn't fun and it can cost you a friendship.

Im gonna go out on a limb and say he absolutely wanted you to see it. And he engineered a scenario where he could claim it was an accident and it be believable.

HartleyB · Accepted Answer

100% intentional if it were that easy to "accidentally" show your penis then you would see them almost every day but this guy sounds like he just wanted to push boundaries with you and it backfired. Still is unacceptable to just expose yourself unsolicited just because you have a thing for someone

allison_standford · Accepted Answer

It was definitely intentional, that guy wabted to seduce you and then wanted you to have a sex chat with him, Or maybe he wanted to masturbate in front of you thinking that that would make you feel horny and you guys would have phone sex

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

Intentional, girls do this sort of thing aswell. I've been in a video call and a girl 'friend' one day was wearing a skirt without underwear and then stood up on her bed to reach for something and i saw everything. When i told her i saw she said i shouldn't have looked 🙄 since then she was aggressively seeking out to sleep with me.

JackSmy · Answer

How do you 'accidentally' show dick? Guys don't normally wear skirts, or even Kilts (Not that Kilts are "skirts"!!! Don't piss off the Scots!!) so how do you 'accidentally' do that? I want to know, so I never have to face HR, if it suddenly happens, and some Dick Fairy comes along, a to just show dick, when you don't intend!! :)

spartan55 · Answer

Wow, you are about as gullible as they come if you think that wasn't intentional. Great choice in "friends" by the way.

rachel776 · Answer

was it hard? if it was then it was definitely intentional

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Its hard to say. It may or may not have been an accident. I dont agree that you should have ignored it

Anonymous · Answer

well it's happened to me unintentional, but not like that. That was pretty blatant and also a creep move.

MattAllin41 · Answer

He did it on purpose. he's trying to "show the goods" and get into your pants.

Anonymous · Answer

He was pushing the limits to see if you wanted some sex chat. It clearly wasn't the nature of your friendship so he should not have done that.

In_Trance · Answer

yea... unintentional... just happens to slip out. Smh

Avicenna · Answer

Of course it's intentional

EmmaMary · Answer

Just how can it possibly be "unintentional"? lmao

Smirnoff23 · Answer

Guy do it for a reaction

AmeerX · Answer

How can it be unintentional?

Jakeofalltrades93 · Answer

he wanted you to see it

stuntbrain · Answer

That's my story and I'm sticking to it

Anonymous · Answer

LMAO what a creep

Sylvanas_Windrunner · Answer

No..

_DARKNESS_ · Answer

Seems real scripted

Goopss · Answer

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