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I'm not really sure what to say here.
I can see how your "popularity with males" you can owe, in part, to "saying no to drama."
However this might be a case of definition/perspective.
And you being unemotional cannot create drama. It can cause a reaction in another person, but I would call that, for instance, frustration. Not "drama."
His level of self-expression is different than yours. But from these few sentences we cannot know if one is more or less emotional/emotionally healthy than average/typical.
Maybe you shouldn't be critiquing him as being too emotional. Maybe given the circumstances, the intensity of his feelings, or the frustration in them not being reciprocated by you, he is justified in how he is behaving. I really have no idea.
Some people can be an emotional drain on others. That certainly happens. They dump too much on others, and others are left to react, to pick up the pieces, sort through it all. And that's not exactly fair to people.
But having feelings is part of being human. I am not a believer in quashing them. We shouldn't all say every thought that comes to mind, in the moment. But expressing our feelings, in a semi-organized and constructive and thoughtful way... that should be given a fair bit of latitude.
If he wants more from you, and you don't want to give it, it may be in both your best interests to part ways now. I just wouldn't encapsulate this situation as simply, "drama." There's a lot more to it than that. It's more about inequity of feeling. And that understandably can cause frustration.
If anything, that is a REALLY good reason to end a relationship!
Yes, drama is unavoidable, and to a degree, normal in most relationships or friendships. But if it's constant, extreme, or effects your emotional and mental well being? It is healthy to end such relationships. Otherwise it will affect your health and cause more damage in the long run.
Friend or not, I would probably distance myself from said person. I might not completely cut them off, but I wouldn't associate with them as much. If they ask why, tell them because their drama is affecting you, and as your friend, you hope they understand that you need a little space from them.
Offer to help them as need be, but don't let their drama bring you down as well.
If the drama becomes overbearing with nothing changing over a period of time, yes it would be wise to break up because being emotionally stressed out constantly will deteriorate your mental health quicker than you think.
Emotional maturity is a part of growing as an individual. Yes, it's inevitable that drama will happen whether if it's from emotions being repressed for too long or from a lack of self-control, but if the emotional drama is continuously appearing with no progression occurring within the relationship, things won't change and certainly not for the better.
Why not talk with your friend about this and see what he says? Maybe he's not aware of when he gets emotional or perhaps he's in need of attention or wanting to be heard. If he's fully aware and continues this immature behavior of his, I'd suggest keeping him at a distance or cut him off completely depending on how much you care about him. There's always enough drama in the world; no need to add more to it!
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Well drama for me is another word for wasted energy.
What I want to say is drama isn't that good you know.
Your friend likes you very much probably. And makes a fuss for you still getting attention of other guys.
But from what I see he wants to take thing further and fast. But is that what you want?
I would talk to him about it and well see what happens you know.
The drama may even end after one good talk.
You gotta elaborate a bit more.
So you're friends but he has feelings for you?
How do you know?
Did he confess?
What kind of drama for example?
If she had anything to offer for me taking the bullshit, like having really high highs, I'd even participate, but if all she had was drama I'd fuck right off.
If he’s in love with you, you can’t really be friends. If it’s not that, what is it?
Most strong relationships get stormy at some point. But @Sthgjstlikethis also makes a good point.
Yes. It seems to be a key indicator that things will remain rocky whether it’s a friend or significant other. Life is too short for all of that. I wish you well with this my friend.
Yes. Why the added drama? Do you like it?
I personally don't, so I cut these off from my life.
I'm a bit too unemotional myself so i get the urge to compensate for it, maybe thats what he's doing. Tell him it's okay to be unemotional, it's fine if you're abstract , it's normal.
Yes it is very wise to end a relationship or friendship like that.
He's a man, he should know better than to be a drama queen and make his friends miserable with his drama.
what a shock a woman who has no emotions or unemotional typical of most women these days
If you can't work things out with him then end the friendship
Yes your peace of mind is most important.
If it bothers you so much, absolutely.
Yes, if there's no fixing it
very wise, drama just plain sucks
whatever your heart tells you...
End on a good note incase you need a booty call
This is a friendship? Not a realatonship
Yeah...
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