I heard that if a Scorpio dislikes you they act like you no longer exist? So why is he going out of his way to make me feel like crap, when I don;t even bother him?
Thank you!
Ok, now this must be a typical scorpio guy answer! using his “mind games” watch how by the end of his very well written post you actually feel sorry for him for behaving the way he did. don’t forget that there is probably a heartbroken girl out there who’s feeling confused , hurt, hated by him and maybe even guilty for stuff she is not aware of doing , all this he is doing by abusing & hiding behind the word “immature”, while he is totally aware that he is to blame and she probably being punished by something she might not even did. (its like a convict would say his mother used to abused him and thats why he is probably beating up his gf! does it makes it ok?). anyways, I don’t really think immature is the right word here but rather cowardness , weak & fear of rejection. all this characters a scorpio guy would never admit to have (to the person they care about at least) . those characters has nothing to do with time (that immaturity might fix) but with personality and some people will never be able to change that so what he is doing right now is pure mean and cruel. I do agree with this guy about you need to have the courage and strength to leave him behind, although I know it must be hard, you have got to realize that he is probably not ready for you and don’t think time will help with that either cause personality change doesn’t happen by night and this sign is stubborn and fixed (and in a odd way he probably thinks he is being mature for realizing that he is acting in immature way and maybe just enjoy the drama and playing you…love and hate relationship is much more “interesting” than a regular one ).
Im sorry scorpio anonymous guy , for sounding harsh lol. Im not saying that YOU are a bad person , I don’t know you, its just that your writing got me frikied out cause this is probably the exact thing my “old friend” would probably say if we were ever had to have a “closure” to what happened with us. so you are not a bad person and I would totally go for a scorpio guy any day , and the fact that you are writing it down and share shows you feel a bit guilty about it still and not all mean… I just think you are channeling all your energies in the wrong direction cause you were very polite & articulate in your words up until you mentioned your own bad experience, so probably you still feel a bit angry and chose to keep it inside (though I don’t think your old friend would like a friend out of guilt either). Best of luck.
First, I wanted to say I've experience a similar case to yours and Im writing this down in this context hoping to get some feedback from this anonymous scorpio guy that just responded also , cause what he is saying start to fill some missing parts at my case and recently I started to feel like maybe I was being punished and avenged by him for something I wasn't aware of. I actually wanted to ask this scorpio guy , he seems to understand the fact that maybe he was hurt by something she has done but was probably unaware of and he is willing to live with that , secretly blaming her , so maybe he can live with himself.. but on the other hand that overly critical attitude that bothered the f*** out of him, he seem to be so sure she would give a f*** about him confronting her about it? how can you tell that if you just mentioned yourself that you hid your emotions well?
Maybe she can also?
It’s crazy and makes no sense to you trust me. Yet in his mind you were out to get him because he is the overly sensitive type. He looks hard cold untouchable plays games and yet you hurt him wow but honestly ignore him when and if he grows up he may find you again hopefully to apologize. Everyone desires a second chance I believe the guy who responded below answered pretty good crazy as it may seem. Good luck
He's immature, it's that simple. He has a love/hate relationship with you, and he doesn't know how to cope. He doesn't want to forget you, but he doesn't have enough courage to be honest with you and likely never will. He feels as if you hurt him in some way(even if he hasn't had a reason to feel wronged, or even if you've legitimately hurt him and are unaware of it). Maybe he was just afraid to be with you, and instead of taking responsibility for not taking his chance with you, he just lives in denial that it's his fault and secretly blames you. He probably knows deep down that you did nothing wrong and is just denying the fact that he's to blame, so he plays pretend with the truth and that's why he hasn't completely cut you off from his life. We will only cut someone off when it's blatantly obvious that we've been wronged badly by someone we once trusted. Or if he's sensitive, you could have(without realising) just kept doing little things that bothered him that he held in till it built up and developed a great anger toward you. Something like that happened to me with an old friend. It was partially my fault because I hid my emotions well, instead of telling her that her overly critical attitude was bothering the f*** out of me.. Not like she would give a f***, but still. Sorry about changing the subject, that's a whole other story, lol. If you have any other questions, let me know. More details would help aim to a specific answer for you.
thanks so much, I really appreciate your input and I agree with what you're saying, I just wish it didn't have to be this way because I don't like ending thing's on bad notes with people, especially when I cared for them.But this is life haha
If you ever any question's either or need any girl input shoot me an email : shannonblake18@gmail.com
thanks again!
No probelm, glad to help. Yes, don't stay in contact with someone like that(and this is coming from a scorpio, lol). Don't ever let someone treat you like that, always have the courage and strength to leave them behind. I would have made a gmail not too long ago, but it requires my phone# to create an account, and I'm not really into posting it online just so I can get a confirmation call to complete the activation. Do you have any other email type of email?
haha I understand. I have an old Aol account? If that works : rockthearts21892@aol.com (dnt mind the name , I made it when I was really young haha)
Alright, cool. Just curious, because most people are not, are you farmiliar with birth charts(the other planets roles according to zodiac signs)? Or only sun signs?
I actually just started looking more into birth charts because sun signs are a lot more general.However I'm still trying learn how to read them correctly haha
w w w.0800-horoscope.c o m/birthchart.php
This site is usually pretty acurate, and deciphers everything for you. Try it out.
This site has gives a lot of interesting details. Thanks! :)
No problem, lol. Just curious, would you mind if I added you on here? Because now that I think about it, I check my emails next to never. And I happen to be on here frequently ever since I made this account, and I'm sure I'd need some advice eventually. Not necessarily on women of specific zodiac signs, just probably about some girl I may meet in the future, or a friend, or women in general, lol. And of course, I'll try to help you out with any advice you may need.
Course, go right ahead.If I don't answer right away, I will as soon as I have a chance.
Is it possible to add someone who is anonymous?
oh shoot sry , forgot it was anony. My user is beentherebean
Sorry, I haven't really used this site for more than a week. How do I search using a username?
wow it's like impossible ro find where to add someone haha. I changed the anon. on here to my user name. So just click that and it should work
We put a lot of value in trust and when it is felt that that trust has somehow been breached this is the typical response.
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