Am I wrong for not entirely forgiving my boyfriend for saying I'll accuse him of SA in the future?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He's frequently insecure that I'll cheat on him because of a shitty past relationship that ended in his ex girlfriend cheating. Because of that he has asked me numerous hypotheticals such as, if we marry in the future, would u mind if I got a paternity test for our children? Yes I'm baffled by all this but I'm often so shocked and confused I don't even know how to react. He sometimes asks me questions like, ur really a virgin right? Ones day he asked me out of nowhere if I had any side bfs or not. I absolutely lost it, and he later justified it by saying that his friend was cheated on by his girlfriend of 3 years (she was triple dating), and it kinda forced him to "ask it against his will". I told him he could've been less condescending about it, and out of frustration compared him to a shitty movie character we both hate, and he was very offended by it. I profusely apologized for it, even though it wasn't completely my fault, and I thought we'd moved past it. However, the next day, he said out of nowhere that if I can compare him to that character, the next time we have sex, I can even accuse him of SA (he didn't use the word SA, he said the R word). I was left speechless and was shocked at how he could accuse me of something soo vile and disgusting. He then apologized profusely for it, and tbh, I haven't entirely forgiven him for that, even when it's been 2 weeks.

[Lliam]

Why are you still with this douche bag? Why don't you find someone who isn't mentally ill?
He won't change. He'll just make you miserable by distrusting you, spying and trying to control you.

[AhemAhemAhem]

He sounds like a low-key narcissist. You should watch some videos about narcissists, especially covert and vulnerable narcissists. If he doesn't stop making his own shortcomings and insecurities your issue, and doesn't stop making excuses for not dealing with his emotions and making you deal with them instead, then he's going to lose you. Or worse, you'll stay with a toxic guy who refuses to change.

[LazerBean]

He's either cheating on you already or will do so if he ever gets the chance. Dump him, he's broken. It's sad that you wasted your virginity on him.

[OddBeMe]

Never wrong to feel. But he’s got problems that ain’t yours. If he’s worth helping is your q.

[Anonymous]

What the heck is SA supposed to mean? Why can’t you pronounce the whole word?

[Asker]

SA means sexual assault, and I was afraid my post would be removed for using it.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m a moderator as long as you’re keeping things professional

[abc3643]

Dump him and move on.
He needs to grow up.

[jahaims]

Use common sense and dump him

[DrPepper12]

He needs therapy. He's FAR from over her.

[Anonymous]

Why would he assume that you're a virgin