My male coworker wants to hangout... is this genuine?

[Anonymous]

So a guy from another organization and I have been in communication via email for work programs. And because of the pandemic and our cities lockdown any work he was planning to do with my company was not possible. We kept in touch off and on. Today he emails me and gives me his phone number and tells me to text him since my emails get buried. So I messaged him. We did small talk and then he asked when we could meet up. I expressed to him its a pandemic, everything is closed. He suggested we either go outside of our city where things aren't locked down or we could go to either ones home. Either way I told him I am tied up today. So first he said that was cool we will figure it out, then he said once we figure out the day I should just know that we will be watching crappy holiday romcoms. Then he asked again if im sure that he can't just come over today. I told him no. He said ok and to let him know when.
So... is this a general he wants to spend time with me and get to know me or is he thinking something else? His persitantness is what has me...
Thoughts?

[MecheD]

Fact is you won’t know until this occurs. He may be attracted to you for several reasons. Just for what reason is the question. With the pandemic going on a lot of people in which whom lacks a companion really are out here yearning for that. But besides that if you like him dig into him and figure out his goals behind all of this no offense but you women are superior towards brain picking so this should t be that hard. Well good luck

[20yearsolder]

I'm pretty sure they genuinely wants to get in your panties. who knows really, he may be a great guy and just wanting to get to know you

[Asker]

I was worried about that... because I was trying to get to know him and he kept circling back to us hanging out, where do I live, how far away we are from each other, (im a single mother and I told him this) and he was trying to figure out if he could come over when my child was asleep... like it just... didn't seem like someone who wanted to get to know me... so I came to GAG to level me out because maybe I was overthinking/reacting... but *Sigh*... it sounds like like what you said...

[20yearsolder]

If I had to put a wager on it, he wants to have sex with you and it will probably turn into a one-night stand or a friend with benefits situation

[Asker]

While I write you I am texting him of and on and it seems like that is his goal... like he just circled back around again "so tonight is no no right?" ... like wth now...

I get the pandemic is making everyone jumpy but... I don't like his urgency...

[20yearsolder]

Honestly, don't you think this guy is just horny and wants to fuck

[Asker]

I assumed because he was my coworker probably not likely... I mean our conversations never indicated horndog...

[20yearsolder]

I guess you will have to meet up and see how it goes. If you two meets, I would love to know the result

[Asker]

Well though he legit asked me 4 different ways, I will not be meeting with him tonight or tomorrow night. There was no way that he could possibly think that after a few mins of moving from email to text that I would meet up with him hours later

[20yearsolder]

Can't blame a guy for trying

[Asker]

So to update you... he is hella horny... and I think borderline crazy. When we originally started talking we mentioned the area/intersection that we lived. I honestly thought we were just continuously texting until he said he was driving to my intersection and when he gets there if I want to meet him I can give him the address... I texted him stop playing and within 5 mins there's a video on my phone of him driving and then a picture at the exact intersection. I legit told him to turn around and go home. He decided to drive further into the area and take another recognizing picture... I yet again told him to go home. He went home and...(now this was my fault) continued to text... and then he really revealed what he wanted to do. Now today he wakes up and keeps messaging me if I have time to meet, or maybe I can do my work at his place, he can come and get me blah blah blah... like what in the living hell.

This is taking a turn down a road I don't like...

[Browneye57]

He's horny. Duh.

[Asker]

Even though we occasionally work together? Damn

[Browneye57]

What does 'working together' have to do with it? He's looking for some pussy. You?

[Anonymous]

He wants sex.