Does he regrets rejecting me?

[Deimy]

This guy friend who during our friendship used joke about sex with me in the group, be flirty but nervous when we are just two also mean to me and insult me but was shaking and afraid that something bad happened and jealous to me now distanced himself, he lives far away but he still watch every my stories, still talks about me and then something big happens in my life he say this to our friend. He rejected me once and said by laughing: ,, we will never be together". Why?

I know I asked about him already but I want advice to block him or not

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What do you think

[EyebrowChewie]

The guy isn't able to hold his cool around you so he's basically admitting he doesn't hold you in high respect and would just hurt you by constantly saying the wrong things.

[Deimy]

What do you think? He likes me or not

[EyebrowChewie]

yeah he likes you but isn't expressing that positively, do you think he's attractive in the looks dept?

[Deimy]

I would send you his photo if you have any other account just to see but no.

[EyebrowChewie]

no im not interested in him, im just asking what you think.

[Deimy]

No, he is not very attractive as a guy. Maybe 6/10 .

[EyebrowChewie]

ok so i mean he's probably figured that out by your body language and just makes it out that it's him who rejected you.

[Deimy]

Yes but I think he rejected me but still acted like he likes me, and after my confession I went no contact, he kept reminding me about that message..

[EyebrowChewie]

sorry what message is he reminding you of?

[Deimy]

Where I confessed to him that I liked him

[shade_19]

Then? what after that?

[Deimy]

@shade_19 what do you mean

[shade_19]

@Deimy When he reminds
U of that message
Where does the conversation go then?
Ends there itself or what
what u reply to that conversation
Does he wish to talk to u or he just cute the conversation there

[Deimy]

@shade_19 He said:,, you said you like me, you wrote it". I said I was wrong.

[EyebrowChewie]

What you mean by you said you were wrong is that you regret saying it because he's being a creep

[Deimy]

Yes regret saying it

[shade_19]

Then let it be
Just block him if u r uncomfortable
Or ignore him if u don't bother

[Deimy]

@shade_19 why he acts like this?

[EyebrowChewie]

There's no point trying to understand an unreasonable person.

[shade_19]

@Deimy why is he doing this? Well, it doesn't really matter. He's avoiding u directly.. just kind of having under his eye... like far away casual friends.
As eyebrows said he's just being unreasonable
You'll ask him, he won't tell.
Just ignore him and move on
As i said, find people whom u feel complete with (u don't need a 3rd person)
Then even u can face and talk to him as a friend or else he'll keep avoiding u and you'll just feel more kind of humiliated and alone

[Deimy]

@shade_19 he always initiated contact, not me...

[EyebrowChewie]

like Shade is saying he's not direct with his communication, he's hoping you'll change your mind because you said you liked him once, but the fact is he just expects you to like with zero effort made by him to change your mind. He could have struck up a decent conversation and showed you he's changed but actually he's still his usual self but from afar.

[shade_19]

Let him initiate contact.
Have a casual hi, how r u and Don't read further msgs (if he's getting back to the same point of u proposing to him)
If u don't feel comfortable then ignore his msgs and calls, simple
If needed then block him.
U need some time for urself
Take him and the incident out of ur mind for some time and take time for urself. For ur sake

[EyebrowChewie]

@shade_19 yep that's it.

[shade_19]

Ya, she's just trying to be nice to him or what I don't know.
But the thought of him and the incident is just eating her up

[Deimy]

@shade_19 yes thank you guys really much. It hurted me very much but I always have a feeling that he always liked me but because he clearly has problems in his minds he can' t express it. He clearly has a low, self esteem and was rejected also heartbroken in the past.

[shade_19]

Ya, maybe he's guilty as well for how he treated u.
But the truth is that even if he's trying to be nice, he's just ending up to hurt u by reminding u the same thing that u regret

[shade_19]

Maybe he even kind of likes u , or is yet now to be friendly to u.
But he's not clearing it as well
So it's u who's going back and forth again and again and it's not good for u

[EyebrowChewie]

@Deimy be direct with him and tell him "you like me and you want to know me but you don't express this very well." Go from there and if he screws up again I dunno.

[Deimy]

I always knew he likes me cause you know it was obvious from the way how he talked and can' t explain himself. I asked him why he is nervous with me , he replied:,, cause I don' t have a crush for you" . I did not even aak about crush or love but he just answer no sense like he tries to deny it. So, we are in no contact, he live in other city, he distanced himself, but as I said he keeps watching my stories, talks about me to others, and wished me a happy birthday nicely but he did not care about it before. I was surprised.

[shade_19]

Ya, as i said he is guilty for treating u badly. And he appreciates u
Maybe it's simple appreciation full of regret of not treating u properly
Maybe he wants to make things right but doesn't know how to do it.
But if he's just spoiling things up then waiting for him may not be good
But u just be direct for once with him ," I KNOW I'VE ASKED THIS a lot OF TIMES AND HUMILIATED MYSELF BUT JUST ONCE AND FOR ALL, DO U FEEL FOR ME? or DO U LIKE ME?
If he's still doing same senseless shit then leave it. He's attitude won't work the relation.

[Deimy]

@shade_19 yes I think he now understands that he was stupid but it is too late, he lives far away, we will never be together.

[shade_19]

Well...
Time to move on then

[EyebrowChewie]

@shade_19 LOL typical ain it. Girl cares to think about it but has said the word never to seal his fate. I dont know if she means we are the worst wingmen this guy could ever have? and he doesn't even know 😂

[shade_19]

😂 ya man! Instead of telling her to give him another chance , we just told something that backfired the guy's actions
Imagin him trying to be nice to her by msging her good morning and she blocks him
While he'll be thinking why did she do so😂😭 that'll be soo bad

[shade_19]

While we'll be busy in our lives having no idea what happens to that guy and the relationship

[EyebrowChewie]

@shade_19 haha yeah, but id rather she blocks him (pity) because if he keeps watching her stories he'll likely see her with a new guy because we repaired her self-esteem 🔥🔥 it will have him think wtf? 🤣

[shade_19]

Either way, he'll just be sad,
She doesn't block him and he sees her stories with another guy
She blocks him and he has no clue what is she doing and with whom is she
But can't help it🙆
She asked the question here, and we came here as... 👼 or😈 idk😂

[TheFlak38]

Sex with you can happen only with a ten gallon bag over your ten gallon head.