Why would he ask if I’m free tomorrow or the the following?

[Anonymous]

Mentioning hopefully we can see each other this week or the weekend. I told him I’m free tomorrow and ask what’s in plan... he hasn’t even answer me all day... does that mean he’s that interested or busy? Or busy with other women?/:

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not interested*

[Anonymous]

Yeh I would wait even though I know u want an answer and it seems aggravating to have to wait for that especially because tommorow is literally the next day, but I would give it some time, I’m sure he’s probably just busy. So if u don’t hear from him tomorrow and then the next few days then u could assume something is wrong until I wouldn’t stress on it to much right now, but I get it trust me lol I get really impatient at times too and I like to know shit ahead of time to I can know what to expect and what to prepare for. So I totally understand your frustration, but just keep note of it and if it becomes a pattern then definitely let it be known to him that ur bothered by it, if he’s a Leo ♌️ he’s more than likely going to be distant at times but that’s okay, but like I said right now I wouldn’t worry to much about it but def take note of it and be observant, you’ll find out eventually the reasoning behind why u didn’t hear from him today

[Asker]

omg thankssss girl, you were totally right and feel me! <3 <3 <3 It is frustating! Lol. We are "casually dating" in a complicated situation, so I know I can't really expect much from him even though I kinda like him... but he did messaged me last night last min if I was still free! I know he kinda BS his reasons, but I let it slide this time until otherwise. He also claimed he doesn't take his phone out during work.. -_-;; I figure since its our second date, I will wait another time to say it would be nice to hear from him more to continue...

[Asker]

surrpisedly, he said I made his night. I wished I asked why, but I only say "I could make your days too" lOoool only cuz we haven't seen each other during the day yet. So we did discuss a potential third date being in the day :) we'll see if it will happen or if I am still feeling it. His lack of communication is pushing me away tho.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh trust me lack of communication is something I’m extremely familiar with! But what I’ve learned is that when u hit them up often and u notice there is a lack of communication, that’s when u start doing it as well and then that makes them wonder... why are they are not texting me like usual? What is she doing? It makes them think and that’s what u want to happen. I hope that helps too , no one likes inconsistencies from people but if u show them what they are showing u then they will see and know what it’s like, they have to get the sense of missing you, a lot of them need time to miss you and they will especially if they enjoy their time with u when ur with them. Trust me I’ve recently learned this and it’s very true. Again hope this helps as well

[anylolone]

Probably shit came up, most likely not other women, most likely depression.

Lol.

I'm not saying there ain't other women, just that's most likely depression.

[Asker]

Wow what did you say depression? That’s interesting cuz he mentioned being sad last week as to why I didn’t hear much from him

[anylolone]

Well, that doesn't paint him very well, if he knew he was depressed and then setting appointments, understandable but not very reliable.

[Asker]

Agreed, but who knows what's the truth. He did last min messaged me last night. We saw each other. He walked me to my car and told me I made his night. I jokedly said, "I could make your day too" haha since we've only seen each other evening time so far in two dates. So, I'd hope our 3rd will be more in the day time...

[In_Trance]

Because he wants to know if you're free tomorrow or the following

[Asker]

He did wanna know, but after I said I’m free tomorrow... I haven’t heard from him, so I’m concern he’s losing interest and I’m confuse why I haven’t heard from him after asking me...

[RandomMexicanGuy]

Maybe he wants to invite you to do something.
Maybe he is busy or maybe he is thinking what to say/do next.

[Asker]

I hope you are right... he msged me at 8am and haven't heard since as it is now 9pm

[zoobs94]

I think busy🤔

[Asker]

I hope you are right... he msged me at 8am and haven't heard since as it is now 9pm

[msc545]

Ask him about this

[Asker]

Ask him what? He never reply...

[msc545]

The lack of a response is your answer. Forget him.

[Asker]

what does it mean? I just dont get why would he ask me this morning at 8am, and then didn't message me all day...

[msc545]

It means he is no longer interested.

[Asker]

then, what was the point of asking me if he wasn't? sighs. He was like he hope we could see each other this week or the weekend.. suggested tomorrow and Wednesday... is it cuz I am too available by stating tomorrow?

[msc545]

The reason doesn't matter. It is what it is now.

[Asker]

what if he does reply tomorrow?

[msc545]

Ignore him.

[Asker]

Oh why? I like him though.. 🥺