Married man blows hot and cold?

Anonymous
Before I get any hate comments or comments telling me not to be a homewrecker, I am not interested in this man. It’s just behaviour I have observed and I don’t understand what it means. I’ve never made a move on him, I see him as a friend.
He owns a cafe and I’ve known him for 6 years. He flirts with me and he stares at me, winks at me, compliments me, says sexual things (mostly making comments about the size of my boobs), always asks me if I have a boyfriend yet, seems jealous when he sees me talking to another man. He has hinted that things would happen between us if he was single.

He gets very intense when he flirts and then all of a sudden he becomes very standoffish towards me. This will last for a few weeks but he barely talks to me and when he does he seems cold.
I've noticed that he’s been working every day for the past month and he’s never done this.
Married man blows hot and cold?
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