Lithuanian man blows hot then cold?

[tracie968]

Hi, I work with a Lithuanian man, I like him but he comes across as a bit of a cave man, I think he likes me but I can't be sure, I'm a straight forward kinda girl , if I like a man I let them know, I do verbally flirt and have always been that way, I never wait to be pursued I am usually the pursuer so to speak, but I can't figure this man out, I'm not sure if he really thinks I like him or if I'm joking as I tell him he has lovely arm muscles and have made other odd comments that I think he's nice, anyway, well he always wore the same combats to work same black pair with different t shirts everyday then suddenly over night he changed his dress sense and started wearing jeans into work smartish ones and I cud see he was watching me now and again and I too would look at him, I would always smile and as him how he was and I thought we were getting closer and I was sure his change of appearance was to impress me but I'm not sure now because today at work I had to go ask him to get me something up high on his work lift , this is not unusual I have to ask him everyday to get something I can't reach and I give him the paper work with the location written down with where I need him to go, well today I gave him the paper work and wrote on it PLEASE CUD YOU GET ME ... THANK YOU I added a smiley face then a X meaning a kiss, he went to get what I needed but returned looking straight faced and very red faced and hardly spoke a word to me after that for rest of the day, I meant NO harm just wanted him to take it lighthearted but know I liked him a lot, now I don't know if I shed apologist about it or say nothing, I felt quite hurt that he didn't at least find it soft, I don't know much about Lithuanian men apart from they are not touchy feely and can be bit aggressive in their tone sometimes but not intentionally. I really like him but am I wasting my time, did I scare him or is he just not interested I don't know. anyone know ? please

[cyclingmadhedgehog]

Hi, I'm in a similar situation. I've liked a lithuanian man for about 4 years. We work at opposite ends of the UK but now and then work together. He never contacted me outside work but did randomly when I was away for several weeks and he suggested meeting up when I was back which we did. I told him I liked him a lot. I could see he was uncomfortable but then he came up for 90 minutes on my birthday and took me out for a meal. I then said I wanted to date him but he said he'll see, no promises. So, I'm not sure...

[Anonymous]

He's probaly just nervous about how to approach you and does have intrest, give him sometime to come around if he hasint.

[Ynnlarcron]

Yeah you just touched him, seems maybe he never been touched like this before, and he probably likes you. He just lack of social experience, OR he's cooling things out, because he don't want relationship with you because he already have some other girl. But wonder what age and how he looks, for example if he's like "mom's son" than you should take him, before other girl takes him faster, if he's like fit-man and looking like already in relationship like experienced-in-life guru, than i guess it's second variant.