Why are men more likely to hit on girls out of their league?

[Anonymous]

I see below average men hitting on women who look like super model. I rarely see any women doing it.

[MrOracle]

First and most obvious, it's because it's generally the guys who do the vast majority of the approaching regardless, so of course you're going to see guys doing this more than girls. You're going to see guys hitting on girls of all types far more than girls hitting on guys.

Second, a lot of hot women are lonely. Just because tons of men want to have sex with them doesn't mean they want to be in a relationship with them, so sometimes those hot women will date average guys if he treats her well and treats her like a complete person instead of just a piece of ass for the night, like most of the other guys do.

Third, women are equally, if not more guilty of this behavior (going for partners out of their league), it's just that they do this by accepting or rejecting offers, rather than making offers, because that's the role that most women have. Plenty of women who are 6's at best will reject a guy who is an 8 because she's holding out for a 9.8 guy she'll never get (at least for a relationship). Just because a hot guy might be willing to fuck her doesn't mean he's willing to date her, but some women will throw themselves at hot guys, and if a few of them will fuck her, she'll think she's in their league, and that somehow that means she'll be able to get one of those guys for a relationship - and thus, guys below that level are beneath her. Such women typically end up alone, but they stick with it for years before they finally realize their mistake.

[slatyb]

Why shouldn't they? The real divisions is not in appearance, and the attractive 23-year-old as often as not becomes a fat 35-year-old. There are leagues, but they are separated by intelligence, maturity, and ambition, more so than ever these days since people are so mobile.

[Asker]

I find it creepy when a old guy hit on me if I am being honest

[Asker]

And league exist in looks and status. For example Shawn Mendes is so handsome and rich and famous he is out of my league

[slatyb]

'Handsome and rich and famous' - he wasn't born that way. He spent many hours practicing his craft. He will probably find a partner who shares his interest in musical creation.

[Tyrael]

Women are just as guilty of doing this as men, if not more so.

Men do it because they're often used to rejection and figure there's no harm in trying.

Women do it because they overestimate their own attractiveness and think they have a shot.

[Anonymous]

"I rarely see any women doing it."

Uhhh, do you think that might be because women rarely hit on men at all? lmao

What you are referring to here is hypergamy and it is a well known fact that women are far more likely to be hypergamous than men.

[Ripper_E]

Because there are no leagues.
Also because they can. Better than being chicken shit and not taking a chance. Which is what majority of women do.

[Asker]

So you are telling me Ariana Grande who is super famous and rich and also so cute is in your league? Same way Shawn Mendes who is very handsome and rich and famous is not in my league

[Ripper_E]

I just said there is no league.
I'm not into Ariana Grande, and if I were, she's a celebrity that I will likely never meet. The only difference between celebrities and ordinary people is that they are famous.

[Asker]

They're also rich just replace Ariana Grande with Selena Gomez or Taylor SWIFT or any other famous singer.

[Asker]

Being famous mean status so many people want to date them

[Ripper_E]

and why do people want to date them? They are literally just people. Being famous means the world knows who you are. Means your lifestyle is different. That's not a league. That's life.

[Asker]

Because they love their songs shawn Mendes songs are very good I love his voice.

[Ripper_E]

I like Shawn Mendes too. Good musician.

[Ripper_E]

But that's the thing. There is nothing different. They are just people who happen to be famous. Everyone lives a different life, but that's not a league.

[Asker]

What about good looks? I mean if I am 5 and he is 10 then isn't he out of my league?

[Ripper_E]

First of all, how to you define a 5 or a 10? every one look different. Second, someone will either find you attractive or they don't. that's not a league.

[Anonymous]

Women do online all the time.

But women are also more risk averse. A "no" crushes many of them. It's true for some men too I guess but a lot of guys are like "the worst thing that can happen is she says no, big deal".

[FilmGuy93]

Because we're just as likely to get rejected by women who are in our league, so we may as well go for gold

[Anonymous]

Most men get rejected most of the time.

If you're used to being rejected and you know that maybe one girl in 15 is going to say yes, you might as well swing for the stars.

[N192K001]

Sometimes, they win. (I'm living proof of that.)

[KrakenAttackin]

Women don't have to hit on giga-chads. The Giga-chad just walks up to the average girl and says "let's fuck", and she falls over backwards with her legs in the air.

[GermanGuy87]

I see below average guys getting hot girls a lot , I think that’s why they do it

[Dontaaa]

I guess because why not, you miss all the shots you don't take.

[Shihab91]

Women don't hit in general... Men are the hunters. But sometimes you see good looking guy with below average girl...

[Dchrls78104]

It's a fancy. Success there would hugely boost the ego.

[vald9inches]

I honestly don't believe in leagues

[Shy_Steve]

I think because we can be more attracted to them.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

I thought there were no "leagues"

[Anonymous]

They’ve watched too much porn lol.