He's 23 years old and he's totally useless. We work in a dine in and takeaway coffee shop. Both of us have same shifts so we spend time together. He's very funny, cheerful and lively and since both of us are from Spain, it's easy to communicate.
Lately, I ve noticed he has taken fancy to a particular female customer who is a regular at our shop. She goes to a nearby uni and frequents the shop nearly 2-3 times a day. He used to stare a lot at her and would come up to talk to her while I or another colleague would serve her. Usually he's the one who serves her. She orders a very specific drink and he knows that. He even oversees where she is and what she's ordering.
He takes the girls drink himself as she wasn't able to make it to the counter and he took the drink from me and kept it with him until the girl came upto his counter, and gave her the favorite drink for free. Yesterday, while on shift, he refused to charge her for the cookies. When she asked him to charge her for them, he told her it's OK not need to. She looked a bit shocked and was like really and he just shook his head and nodded.
I also saw the girl gave him a gift too which he accepted. I mean he doesn't see her much like maybe 3-4 times a week or sometimes even 1 days a week as he does less hours now. So it's not like he actually likes her?
I hate him and want to report him. What can I do? Why is he doing this? Why fancy a female customer?
Lately, I ve noticed he has taken fancy to a particular female customer who is a regular at our shop. She goes to a nearby uni and frequents the shop nearly 2-3 times a day. He used to stare a lot at her and would come up to talk to her while I or another colleague would serve her. Usually he's the one who serves her. She orders a very specific drink and he knows that. He even oversees where she is and what she's ordering.
He takes the girls drink himself as she wasn't able to make it to the counter and he took the drink from me and kept it with him until the girl came upto his counter, and gave her the favorite drink for free. Yesterday, while on shift, he refused to charge her for the cookies. When she asked him to charge her for them, he told her it's OK not need to. She looked a bit shocked and was like really and he just shook his head and nodded.
I also saw the girl gave him a gift too which he accepted. I mean he doesn't see her much like maybe 3-4 times a week or sometimes even 1 days a week as he does less hours now. So it's not like he actually likes her?
I hate him and want to report him. What can I do? Why is he doing this? Why fancy a female customer?
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Do you think it is possible that you are jealous?
Why is he doing this?
You forgot to answer my question.
Yes I jealous. Now you answer mine?
Has he ever acted interested in you? Maybe he doesn't know that you have any interest in him, or maybe he is trying to make you jealous.
No he has never acted or done anything to show interest in me.
You tell. me about him and her plssss
How would I know about him and her, other than what you have told us? He is attracted to her, trying to get her attention, and being a bit obvious about it. Why don't you do something to hint that you have some interest in him?
But why? She's just a customer. Apparently she gave him a thank you card for all his kindness towards her and even wrote that if he wants to hang out, he can tell her. No number tho.
Why is he being so previous? He's a player right?
So obvious not previous?
He is young and not very smooth with women. She has given him encouragement. He has become like a male dog who smells a female dog in heat.
Why don't you hint to him about your interest?
Why not smooth with women?
But how's that encouragement? She's only thanking him didn't even give her number lol
Why is he not smooth? Lack of experience? Shy? I don't know.
"she gave him a thank you card. . . and. . . wrote that if he wants to hang out, he can tell her." That sounds like some encouragement to me.
No I meant how is not coming across as smooth?
But if she truly wanted to, she would give her number right?
Also he's also giving her discounts, even gave drink and cookies for free so he sounds like a manipulator?
He is being too obvious and acting like a schoolboy with a crush on the teacher.
What do you think he wants? Sex?
At his age, that is what most guys want.
Yesterday I caught him telling her to write her number and give it to him the next time he comes
Next time she comes. He told her twice
You seen to be obsessed with him.
Pls answer my question
What question?
Why asking her for her number twice?
That is another example of him not being smooth. He is emphasizing to her just how much he wants to get her number. He feels desperate to see a sign that she is interested in him.
But why is he doing this?
You can't control whatever he does. All that you can control is yourself. Why are you obsessed with this guy?
Will he get upset with her that she didn't give his number? I hope?
You fancy him
OK but why is he doing this?
Cause he fancies her
But why? It's not deep right?
Why? Who tf knows lol? Thinks she’s hot I guess.
But nah. It’s totally not deep.
How can you say it's not deep?
Sounds like he’s just being flirty