He invited me over to watch movies but we have been to a few dates and didn’t kissed yet?

[Anonymous]

so i have known this guy for like 5 months and we started talking and it was really fun then we hung out like 4 times where we had so much fun but nothing happened like kissing or something. there was a period (two weeks) where i ghosted him because i was insecure but i realized it was stupid and we both missed each other so we started talking again and hung out again just like the old times. i can tell we r both interested in each other we talk 24/7 he s really kind to me. today he invited me over saying yea my mom’s not gonna be here do you want to go watch a movie marathon at my place? and i said yes. i don’t intend tho to have more than cuddles and kissing but i don’t know if we share the same intentions... does he just want to get some? or is he really invested in a relationship? i have no idea

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its this Friday by the way

[slatyb]

I expect he's just very anxious around you and can't read your body language. Just kiss him yourself.

[Asker]

i never kissed anybody i don't how to make a move help

[slatyb]

Kiss him the way you would want him to kiss you.

[Asker]

wow actually thank you, that was a good advice. so i should try and make the first move when i'll be there

[Stevefiveo]

It sounds like he wants a relationship with you but the fact that you ghosted him is probably making him freeze to make a move.

[Asker]

i explained him the last time we were together why i did that and apologized and he understood :) i think i could made a move then, maybe he tried and i didn't noticed. but my question still is do u think he just invited me over to get some?

[Stevefiveo]

No, I think he put too much time in to be a player like that. He doesn't like the kind of guy that is just looking to get some.

[Asker]

thank you so much that's what i was afraid of. yup i think 5 months its pretty long to stay and not even kiss or do other things :)

[Stevefiveo]

Good luck. Let us know how it turns out?

[Asker]

i will ofc! thank you

[Stevefiveo]

Welcome.

[Nicegirldaqui]

If don't want to have anything else, than tell him, i think he really likes you and Will respect you.

[Asker]

but should i tell him before? or when i am there?

[Anonymous]

Ask him if he thinks the two of you are more than friends. If he says yes, kiss him.

[Asker]

good idea! i might say that in the moment

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck. Keep us posted.

[Asker]

i will!

[Iron_Man]

No go to man’s house that you don’t know nine times out of 10 it turns into forplay or sex or both

[Iron_Man]

Don’t go

[Asker]

we actually created a really a bond and i think i can say i know him, not like and old friend or someone i know for a lot of years but i think we trust each other

[Iron_Man]

Will see

[Avicenna]

He’s probably unsure if where he stands with you

[Asker]

so what would it be his intention to invite me over?

[In_Trance]

Why didn't you kiss him?

[Asker]

i never kissed someone before and don't know how to make a move lol

[In_Trance]

That's a valid answer for sure.
Im guessing maybe he doesn't know either?

[Asker]

should i tell him? because a friend told me tou notice when its your first kiss. and if i tell him do i tell before or after?

[In_Trance]

I mean you could there's nothing wrong with that. I don't think there would be anything wrong for you to just go for it when you feel the moment is right. Trust me he's not going to push you away

[Asker]

okook thank you!!

[In_Trance]

Good luck