Is asking a random girl online for pics cheating and can we fix it?

[NobleRose]

My boyfriend and I been together for last couple years, the other night I discovered he had a short conversation late at night and he told her she’s really hot (he never says this) and asked for nudes which he got he didn’t tell her he was in a relationship either. I called him out and he keeps apologizing now and keeps promising he loves me.. it makes me feel worthless and stupid cause he doesn’t want to see my body anymore but he claims he does.. he swears he loves me and wants to fix it. Is there any hope at all?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Ask yourself this:- If you never found out, how long would he do that for and how long before he slept with someone else?

Sorry but no. That is a relationship-over offence as far as I'm concerned.

[slatyb]

Is that the only problem? It sounds like you want commitment and he's not ready.

[NobleRose]

He treats me well it was just this one thing

[Kayla99]

My ex did this all the time. I understood, but ultimately you have to decide if you’re willing to put up with it. I was. But that’s me.

[Dinklex3]

That's cheating to me and I'd break up with him.
Do whatever you feel is right.

[NobleRose]

Would you say there is hope?

[Dinklex3]

I mean.. there's always hope.
You know him better than me.
If someone betrays my trust once then that's it. You should be able to trust your partner and by cheating once I'd never be able to trust them again.

[LoveYourself24]

As a dude, if he’s asking another girl to send him nude pictures and all this behind your back, he doesn’t love you. If I’m with a girl that I love I’m not gonna go out of my way to ask another girl for nudes behind her back. He knew what he was doing was wrong and that’s why he didn’t tell you. Get away from this dude, in my opinion.

[Avicenna]

It’s emotional cheating. You may be able to overcome it, but he needs to avoid sny slip-ups and he needs to go out of his way to make you feel desirable.

[NobleRose]

So you do believe it can be over come?

[anylolone]

Would he consider it cheating if you done it?

As I usually say, it's the people's in the relationship that make the rules, frequently by accident.

[Shah11]

Once things broken,
It's stay broken forever no Matter how you fix it.

[spartan55]

How did you discover this conversation?

[NobleRose]

She found me

[spartan55]

Hmmm, I kind of doubt that.

[NobleRose]

We all had a discord server and I called him babe during our game and she private messaged me

[spartan55]

Did you dump him?

[NobleRose]

No I didn’t… we are just kinda weird now?

[spartan55]

Ya think? Enjoy...