I gained weight during the pandemic & have a question for guys?

[Anonymous]

So I haven't seen my friends with benefits since before the pandemic and I wanna see him again but in worried he will be put off bc of my weight but he's been begging to see me. Guys do you care if your friends with benefits gained weight or would that turn you off? We also have known eachother for years too

[Anon-01]

A little weight gain is usually never an issue. How much weight are we talking about? Enough that you don't look the same person or what? Sometimes weight gain can be a good thing. You know, if you're lucky I mean.

[Asker]

Like 70 lbs

[Asker]

I feel like I don't look like the same person tbh

[Anon-01]

Does he know or have you been hiding it from him. I guess I want to know will be surprised when he sees you or does he know you've been putting on a few and you're just self conscious

[Asker]

He knows and I've told him.. he seen me when I was pregnant and was okay with that but I can't help but wonder how he would feel now that we haven't seen eachother basically this whole year

[Anon-01]

I think you'll be okay. He could have ghosted anytime that year if he felt it'd be an issue.

[pleasestopthis]

A few pounds probably won't be a big issue , but it's a lot of weight it may be a turn off for a lot of guys. Talk to him about it and let him know beforehand before seeing him

[Asker]

Yes it's a lot of weight.. so maybe I'll put off a meet up until I get back to my old weight

[boggboss]

Depends how much weight and what he likes

[Asker]

I'm gonna be honest I was like 230 for a while and now I'm 300.

[boggboss]

Thwn yeah I dono have u told him u put weight on

[Asker]

Yeah and he acts like it's not a big deal.. it's more about my insecurities not him

[boggboss]

Then its fine

[Luckycharms12]

Don't care