Why don't overweight guys like overweight women?

[Anonymous]

I'm not trying to offend anyone but if did I'm sorry. Out of curiosity why does it seem like most overweight guys I've ran into mock and insult overweight women and refuse to date one even though they're overweight themselves and only go for the slim or petite girls. Then they complain or refuse to take no as an answer when a slim girl doesn't want to date them. I just find it hypocritical and sometimes I wonder is this because they are insecure or do they have their own issues or does it just stem from something else? It seems like this bashing happens online and I remember a couple of overweight guys I went to high school with would do that.

[btbc92]

They do that because they just want to have sex. That's what men like that are like. They don't care about the woman they just care about who they want to screw with. Nobody basically innocence who is concerned about the physical and the sexual wants to have sex with somebody they don't find sexually attracted to want to hop in bed with. That is all it's about. It's not about love it's about sex. That's why a lot of women that looking for love, they're seeking it from the wrong kind of men. And then they don't receive it at all because they figured that having sex is only way to keep a man and that's not how it works and there's no guarantee. That's why if you don't love yourself as a person and don't understand who you are then it won't matter if you're thin or fat and I can say this or somebody who's very skinny and petite, you won't be loved if you don't understand yourself and understand what love is. Again it is not about love. It's about who they want to lay up with. And they don't sadly want to lay up with you. That is not your fault. It has everything to do with those shallow men. At least you can weed out who's good and who's bad for you.

[btbc92]

And yes, you are spot-on with that. Most of them are indeed insecure that's why they abuse and psychologically and emotionally do so the way they do towards you. I understand you don't want to hang around with those kind of creeps. They won't treat you any better just because you're thin. They hope us just to get into your panties. So when my great-grandfather used to say all men are dogs, you know why.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@btbc92
Your great grandfather was wrong for saying all guys are dogs.

[btbc92]

Nope. He's right, he wouldn't say it id he wasn't, he's a man himself. He knows. I rather believe him then guys who say not. Whats the first thing you see? Guy sees a girl he goes after the girl just for being attractive. If you never done it, then your the exception. I never chased a guy because of that.

[hahahmm]

Straight men don't want to be with a woman who looks like a dude and when women get too fat they look like fat dudes. As far as women with less fat who are overweight: It can be a symptom of feminism. Her not caring about what men think and making life all about satisfying her own desires (like eating two dozen donuts as a snack). A lot of guys aren't into feminists. Or it can be a sign that she lacks self control or has that mental illness that they call depression. Now I'm not saying it's a crime for a woman not to be perfect... but if you pile on a lot of negatives you're not as attractive as the woman with less negatives.

If I were a fat dude with a huge pot belly, I wouldn't be dating any woman who's shadow could be confused for mine.

To those who talk about not being a hypocrite: If it's not hypocritical for a man to want a woman with breasts and a vagina even tho he doesn't have those things himself, then it's not hypocritical for him to be repulsed by fat, lazy women.

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of people tend to be a bit hypocritical often. Myself I've been attracted to all different shapes and sizes, but I'm not generally attracted to overweight women, even being overweight myself. However I would never mock her for it, and I have been attracted to some before. It can sometimes depend how overweight she is also. And I find often there's a personality with them that isn't attractive to me. It's not so much the weight I don't think. In my experience they tend to be more..."in your face" kind of personality if you know what I mean? lol I didn't know what word I wanted to use, but I think that kind of explains it. That for me is often a major turn off.

[jeffryrobertbabb]

Many years ago, the father of a friend of mine said if you can, have sex with a big girl, you will never forget it. As it happened, soon after I ran into a very large lady and we had sex. We had such vigorous sex that I broke my bed. It was great sex, well worth the price of a new bed.

[worldscolide]

Same reason over weight women typically don't like over weight men.. And trust me on this I have seen land whles that wouldn't give an over weight man a second look..

[Starwitch23]

I agree with you

[worldscolide]

Incidentally my wife (skinny little thing) prefers that I am somewhat heavy lol, she feels protected, and likes that I'm basically a big teddy bear and a space heater.

[Starwitch23]

Lol. I liked it when my ex was chubby. I found him cute and just like your wife a big teddy bear.

[worldscolide]

Nice!

[Anonymous]

Overweight women are the same way.

It seems like everyone wants a prince or princess, even though they might be trashy themselves.

What we want and what we deserve are rarely in sync.

[btbc92]

That's not true at all. If you have no love for a person you should not be involved in a relationship any tips or any God that come after me today because I'm single whatever. I don't care, I don't care for it. I don't want a person whose only keep staring at me in a sexual manner. Stop treating others that way. Because the moment they swim down and stop being your sexual tastes over sudden you want to come with me for a jump because you just want to bang. Just stop. A lot of you men are hypocrites and I can't stand a lot of you that do this. Not just the women who do that also. Stop calling overweight, fat classical or chubby women trashy. Your attitude is trashy.

[Robert_]

I am overweight and I can find overweight women very attractive.

[ballweevil]

i think it happens vice versa, it is stupid but it is like that. Society is giving more importance to physical look , then inner beauty

[apimpnamedslickback]

For the same reason that broke girls don't like broke guys.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women don’t like overweight men.

[SupremeWarlord]

Because overweight women aren't attractive.

[Joker_]

Nobody likes overweight people