Why is it that Overweight woman don't want to lose weight but expect guys to do it?

[restlesswarrior]

i see a lot of overweight woman who don't want to work out but get angry if a guy doesn't do it

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i know the question is kinda funny but I have seen it


overweight woman who feel like they don't have to do anything and can eat a lot of bad food but get ANGRY (I have seen it) if a young guy or older guy has a gut


not all woman are like this but the ones I have seen are

[Ingrid422]

I think it goes both ways actually. You know I had a blind date with a guy I met online, last night. He had warned me right before we went out, after a bajillion texts, that he didn't look like an olympic model from his pics anymore. He gained 20 pounds since. I figured ''Hey, at 6'5'', he has room to put it". But in real life? It DID make a huge difference. He wasn't fat, but way chubbier than I expected. How did I compare in real life to my pictures? I looked better, as I've been told by each guy I blind dated, and I was around 5 pounds close to the same weight. So it does happen that a girl needs to be in shape and all toned but the guy? Well he's working on getting back in shape, or whatever. With girls, results are often expected quickly and drastically. Guys? Well it's on its way. That's unfair, yet if girls blame this double-standard, they are accused to being superficial. I hate it.

[Ingrid422]

Thanks for BA! :)

[washize]

Most over weight people I SEE don't want anyone FATTER than THEM.

I've never seen an fat woman complain about a guy the same size as her. I have seen fat women complain about men fatter than her.

But I have seen fat men complain about women what ANY amount of fat. I was at the mall once and this obese guy tried to hit on a cubby girl, when she turned him down, he shouted "Lay off the doughnuts honey." Everyone just stopped and stared at him. No one said anything, but I'm pretty sure, we all though the same thing.

[martyfellow]

A lot of the younger women are out of shape, but demand guys look like fashion models. Welcome to the world of double standards! This is pretty common, lol.

The double standards are different now, but they're just as arbitrary and illogical as the ones in earlier generations.

[martyfellow]

Four downvotes, the total weeight of tthe foour peopple is probably >400 kilograms.

Best Answer, no?

[TedStar]

Well, they can get angry all they want. It would be highly unlikely that she'll get the fitter guy anyway as he might feel he can get fitter girls too. Same with guys too. If a guy is morbidly obese and tells girls to get fit, he shouldn't be upset if those girls end up with fitter guys

[aedress]

Because if a man is of a reasonable weight, he still can have sex with an overweight woman, but if a man is overweight, he can't have sex with any woman, on account of how his penis is hidden in the folders of fat.

[NerdInDenial]

It's because these women are hypocrites. Men have more pressure than women because we know what the standard for men is in terms of what a "fit" guy looks like. That guy has to have a 6 pack, which is about 9%-12% body fat.

[jamesma87]

I'm pretty sure it's the other way around a lot as well...

[josesmaf]

I've seen it both ways. Men often get accused of doing this.

[Anonymous]

lol, oh yeah, right, MEN have pressure to be thin. women never experience any of that, that's why there're so many eating disorder clinics filled with bulimic young women.

[evenlift]

That's not what he's saying.

[bombdotcom]

2/3 of Americans are overweight. Bulimia and Anorexia are not all that common. Is it a problem? Yes. Is it a crappy argument that you're using? Yes. Both sexes experience pressure.

[Prettygurl12]

No idea. I bust my ass at the gym every day in order to be fit. But I've never been overweight.

[Prof_Don]

I don't see this issue as gender exclusive...this hypocrisy happens both ways bro!

[oappo]

Some people are hypocrites? Quick, stop the presses!

[chocolateismylover]

Because they think that they could just lose the weight by having sex. In order to do that they would need a smaller guy to show them how its done.

[evenlift]

Because we live in a politically correct world.

[bubbletrouble]

I have seen this from both genders.