Haha, I think you know the answer to that. Don't shit where you eat. This is a lot of shit where you eat. So yes terrible idea.
If you can both be cool about it, and you don't care if he hooks up with others, and vice versa. It can be fine. But you sure are making it more complicated. And this rarely happens, someone always gets in their feels. If you intended to date, I would say go for it but still answer all of the following questions honestly:
What happens if you or him get jealous? What happens if someone gives someone an STD. What happens if one of you starts dating? Are you allowed too have relationships with coworkers? What type of job is it? Is this a career you would like to keep? Or is this just a temporary job? Do you care if your coworker know? Because they will find out.
These are all things you should have asked yourself before you hooked up with some guy at work. That shit doesn't just happen, you had time to think about this. But you can minimize the damage by cutting it off. Or you can say fuck it and see what happens.
I will say if you do meet a guy you do want to date, and he finds out you had a friends with benefits that you work with, he is not going to be happy about it. So you will either have to lie, hide it, or possibly get a different job.
I'm not asking about being friends with benefits with him. I'm asking about working at the SAME location did you not read the question? Or did you just decide to give your judgmental opinion about something that's irrelevant?
I'm not asking for your opinion on being friends with benefits.
That's you don't get pink anon. The fact that you are friends with benefits with a guy you work with is VERY relevant. We can all read, but you are ignoring the elephant in the room. Are you just dismissing @wtf636 various ways it could go sideways? Stop being so damn stubborn and think.
@spartan55 Do you get that me being friends with benefits is my personal preference? It has nothing to do with the question. And what I decide to do with my sex life is my business. It shouldn't be judged by random strangers online. Everyone is different and not everyone wants to be in a relationship and that's ok.
Let me break it down for you, since you aren't smart to get it.
I'm not talking about your choice to be in a sleazy arrangement based on disrespect. Go ahead, knock yourself, I really don't care.
I'm talking about working with someone you are fucking. You have many opinions here telling you that it's a horrible idea. Read @wtf636 reasons again. So you ask if it's a bad idea to work at the same place as your friends with benefits. Most people tell you it is, then you argue with them? Do you know how stupid you sound?
@spartan55 Yes, it's obvious that you are an idiot. I never said I was actually working with the person. I'm asking if it's a bad idea to work with them. As in I'm thinking about working at the same place. Learn how to read before you decide to comment with your sarcastic bullshit. Because it makes you look like a fool.
You are someone online who doesn't know me in real life. Therefore your opinions of me don't mean anything.
@spartan55 Go fuck your mother
@spartan55 And why the fuck are you still talking? Don't you have a life outside of this site?
@spartan55 Eat shit you troll
@spartan55 you’re mother is a crack whore who didn’t give you enough attention. That’s why you are on here seeking it
It can turn to drama , I been down that road before and ended up having to quit my job , why it’s best not to have sexual relations with coworkers , A girl I use to work with I was attracted to became friends with me and we got close and ended up having sex , on a regular basis , we made it clear that we were just FWB’s , come to find out she had a boyfriend that she was cheating on with me , I was upset but not that upset considering we agreed to be FWB’s so eventually I met another girl and my co worker found out and she just became pure evil to me and tried making my life a living hell causing drama at work , I was so confused cuz I thought why do you care you have a friggin boyfriend but apparently she cared and started making rumors about me at my workplace and so much drama occurred , so long story short FWB’s usually turns to drama , cuz one starts getting deeper feelings for the other , so if you like your job and want to keep it , you are best not to have any sexual relations with a co worker , it’s like playing with fire
Thank you for actually answering the question and this does make sense.
Ofcourse it's dangerous because either one of you will end up being MORE SERIOUS and sensitive.
Then when either of you gets ignored, jealousy and rage builds for the one you hooked up with. It turns into a competition and your agenda becomes to teach your friends with benefits a lesson for ignoring you or when they flirt with others.
You will either try to outsmart each other or hurt each other at work.
You’re talking like you know for a fact what will happen just stop it.
Then keep quiet and don't ask questions.
I was just looking out for you and wanted to save your time and hurt but okay not everyone is worth the concern.
Do you want to work there just because he's working there?
It depends on your maturity level.
I was coworkers with my friends with benefits. The only thing that was annoying was others continuously gossiping about us and leadership purposely putting us on opposite schedules. Breaks were always fun though 😛
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Recipe for destruction. Don't fuck where you eat.
What could happen?
Subliminal jealousy often is bound to creep in...
You've been given a 'special privilege'... NOT necessarily a monopoly~
Should they elect to EXTEND that privilege, YOUR Subconscious
intuitively WILL ask: "Am I NOT 'enough?" and infer inadequacy.
Failing to realize 'friends with benefits' is a matter of 'taste' NOT commitment.
They may like ice cream, but DOESN'T mean the CAN'T ALSO like Lobster or Prime Rib!
If their willingness to flirt and manipulate BOTHERS YOU, 'friends with benefits' is NOT for you;
you've been lying to YOURSELF about your phobia to commit.
I am not asking about being friends with benefits. You need to actually read the question instead of just commenting. I am asking about working with one in the same place.
If you have it in you to be cool when he's talking to, flirting with, making plans with, and hooking up with other girls. Meaning if he has plans with another girl and he chooses to follow through with that instead of seeing you when you wanted to see him.
You have to say, "all good. I'll see you later" and go on with your business without getting butthurt, frustrated, or any other feelings he has to deal with later. If you can keep the mood in the workplace chill regardless then fine.
But outside that prolly not a good idea.
I don't count one hookup to be enough to call it friends with benefits. I would advice against working at the same place. Because your relationship will dictate your work. If you cut him off he will most likely work against you. If you keep the thing it's going to be messy. Either way it's a bad situation for your career.
I’m saying friends with benefits because that’s what we agreed on. And he asked to see me again. If I keep what thing? If I don’t work there then it wouldn’t be a problem.
What are the best things about a friends with benefits is you might not see each other for a couple days and when you see each other you happy can you play around and you joke around and you fuck around and you fuck some more and it's very joyful be with that person
But if you work with them you are by. You kind of wave hey how are you later on tonight yeah whatever LOL it's just not the same you might as well be married LOL
When I was in this situation it had it's positive and negative effects. It was distracting from my work, it was exciting when we would find a place to mess around. It was risky, and when we decided to quit it was awkward.
Yes, it was awkward but we managed to stay out of each other’s way at work.
As long as you two don't make out at work, nothings wrong. Friends with benefits is like you 2 are nothing so its ok
Friends with benefits isn't like we are nothing.
To me there's nothing but sex
We actually like each other.
@spartan55 Because I don't want to be in a relationship that's why.
Not if you’re the jealous type, and if things don’t work out in the long run, do you really wanna be working with him?
I’ve only seen drama with this, especially those who are immature
Why would I be jealous? Doesn’t make sense.
Of other girls hitting on him. He may come across a few ex gf’s who want him back
The same goes for him other guys could flirt with me. So what you’re saying is irrelevant. Like that can go either way.
What I’m saying is relevant, and of course it can go both ways
Ok so why are you saying automatically assuming that I’m the jealous type? When he could be lol.
If you become friends with the same people there and eventually break up, these friends sometimes take sides and that just adds more to the drama
I said “if”. I’m talking in general, not directly about you
The reason so many people are confused is this sex for fun stuff. It complicates things between people. How I miss the old days.
The question wasn't about having sex though did you actually read the question? Or did you just decide to give your judgmental opinion?
Bad idea.
Also, he will be telling the other guys about you/what you do/have done.
Always, nothing last forever and if it ends badly you are now in a hostile environment that you two created
If nothing lasts forever than why do some people stay married for years? I’m just using this as an example. You don’t know what will happen. You automatically assume that things will end.
Yeah, what could possibly go wrong with that situation?
I don't see why it would be a problem.
What could happen? We aren't in a relationship at all.
We've only had sex once so it shouldn't matter.
What don't I get? He's someone I went out with one time and had sex with once so what's the problem?
He did ask to see me again but we haven't yet. And sometimes we go awhile without talking so this is why I don't see the issue.
You obviously aren't understanding the situation.
Oh, it's you again the pathetic troll I'm not going to waste my time with you.
I dont really think the he/she is 30. It's some kid fooling around on the web
Because you’re a stupid fool who doesn’t understand the question that’s being asked lol.
I never asked if it was ok being friends with benefits. I asked if it was ok working the same job. Read
people answered your question you just mad cause y'all not working 😂😂
The flesh is weak. Dont expect this to workout
What are you talking about?
Google it. Or watch a YouTube video about it. you're welcome
What you’re saying has nothing to do with the question I asked.
If you wasted your time looking that up then thats the point. you're wasting your time working with someone who 🍆🐱. doesn't end well
At asker you keep getting mad when we don't give you the response you want lol.
I don’t think you understand the question. I’m not asking about being friends with benefits. I’m asking about working with one. Can you read?
You’re saying the flesh is weak like this only applies to people who are friends with benefits. This goes for people in general. Married, single in a relationship etc. So really what are you talking about? What isn’t going to work out? I think you’re confused lol.
Asker are you really 30? If so you might be suffering from developmental delay and need to get your mental checked. It's not going 5o work he will never marry you
@Uptowngirl88 I think you need to go back to school and learn reading comprehension. You’re talking about shit that’s irrelevant. Who said anything about marriage? I never said I wanted to marry him. You’re a retard.
@asker it will never work. Get over it. He doesn't like u
I've always dreamed of having a workmate who would give me a blowjob on lunchbreaks
Yes, that is a bad idea.
No stop that now whilst you are young. It goes horribly wrong.
Shut up you aren't even answering the question.
I so am, why you being a meany
Yes it's good to have time apart
I think so
Yeah I think so too
Probably not a good idea
Why not?
Depends what you mean by bad
I mean as in not a good idea
Yes. Conflict of interest.
Yes it will interfere with work
It won't end well.
What could happen?
Who said things will go sour? Stop being negative.
I know there is a chance but that doesn’t automatically mean it will.
No shit sherlock
Fuck off troll
Keep your legs closed
Everyone has sex you dumb fuck.
people Dont have sex with random men you just meet. Have some respect for yourself. He not even in a relationship with you and never will be. You're just a thot
Bitch being friends with benefits doesn’t mean I have sex with random people. Have some respect for yourself and stop assuming shit. Because it makes you look like an idiot. You’re a dumb ass lol. Being friends with benefits doesn’t mean you sleep around. You are a clueless dummy.
Close your legs. Learn to love and respect yourself. Your mom should've taught you this but didn't. You two aren't going to work and not working now. He's using you. When a beautiful, intelligent, classy woman, who doesn't slut around comes along he will throw u in the trash. Since that's what your are. You're clueless that's why you're asking us for helo😂
You are assuming shit when you don’t know either one of us personally. Who are you to say what’s happening between us? You don’t know what is happening or what will happen between us. Not everyone wants to be in a relationship people have their preferences. And just because I want to be friends with benefits with someone doesn’t make me a whore. Your mother should have taught you how to be open minded instead of a judgmental cunt.
I never asked for help about being friends with benefits. You obviously can’t read I asked if it was ok to work in the same place as someone who you having sexual relations with. You need to learn how to read.
No ones assuming anything. You asked a question and because we're not telling u what u want to hear you getting mad mad. Too bad
My mother would never encourage me to be a thot. Your mom should've taught you better than this you have no class, no morals , no values. No man values you is why you say this is your preference. Truth is no one wants to be with you and you know it. y'all not working and not going to work. When a beautiful woman comes along who is intelligent and keeps her legs closed he'll be done using u
Dumb ass I asked a question about working with someone who you are having sexual relations with. I never asked about a friends with benefits relationship. I can see you are really slow.
You probably don’t even have a mother lol pathetic troll lol.
It will never work get over it
Go drink bleach lol
You already have that's why you suffering chasing a man that don't want you 😂😂😂😂😂
Suck my dick
You still suffering and he'll never want you
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