How come I am only good for being used and abused?

[Zje84iid]

Why do I feel like I can never be loved by a man? All I can do is get bullied and fooled by men who hate me but want to use me for love and attention and then get heartbroken thousands of times by them repeatedly?

[readyplayer001]

because you are probably soft hearted, kind etc and attract losers, it happens to the best of us. they are the worthless ones not you, f*ck them d-bags. there are plenty of us both guys and girls been through it, just know you are not alone with what you are going through or been through

[Pj1981]

That's not all your good for and I don't even know you. It is however what you are allowing people to use you for. You can stop right now and leave ignorant people behind. In the future don't settle for it. You can and will be loved just tell them no not going to happen. Make them respect you or they aren't worth your time. Have some respect for yourself to. Sounds like you are pretty down on yourself which allows others to do the same

[Rangers]

Tell me who did it and I'll bash their brains in and tell you all about the fact that it's not your fault you were abused and nobody deserves that

[Zje84iid]

I ❤ u thank u

[Aurora1010]

You should go out with guys that give you a good and sweet impression

[zeitgeist057]

Because they are aggressive, so they shove themselves to the front of the line, and you take what is in front of you.

It's interesting to see this question as I was reminiscing about an hour ago about this beautiful woman I met in Nicaragua. We were staying at the same hostel/resort/community, which had about 100 people at it at any given moment, so it wasn't small. She was teaching yoga, and I was just passing through. There was some mutual chemistry there, but there was also this really aggressive German douchebag who basically inserted himself and pestered her constantly. He was annoying, so I mostly avoided him and if he was around, I interacted with other people. When he was getting all up in her business, she was polite and entertained him, maybe there was some chemistry there as well, because they ended up hooking up.

I really don't know, maybe he was a nice guy, or maybe not even nice but somehow attractive with good qualities, and it was just me who found him to be a complete douchecopter, but I thought it was a classic example of a rude and aggressive guy getting with the beautiful woman, while the more respectful and thoughtful person (myself) was left by the wayside. I would have liked to get to know her better, and maybe something romantic would happen, but it's not my style to be loud, seek attention, and be so pushy like this guy.

[karaspara]

It's not hun but if it's what you believe about yourself you won't look any further

[venom9801]

Probably the way you are attracts that kind of attention. You must be getting something out of it if it keeps happening over and over. If you really want to break the cycle, you should take some time for self reflection before meeting anyone else.

[Sketti2021]

You'll be treated the way you allow. So you need to be strong and don't take any crap

[lycanthrope3]

How do you want to be treated

[Zje84iid]

Good

[lycanthrope3]

then demand it or leave

[Anonymous]

How is it going now?

[Zje84iid]

I got my geart broken again by the same gut who atarted to break about a a year ago at work. I actually wanted to commit suicide back then.

[Zje84iid]

I realized i am such a dumb stupid girl who doesn't deserve to have dignity or self respect and want to eradicate those from my life.

[Opinion Owner]

Followme please

[Zje84iid]

you're hidden

[Opinion Owner]

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