Is it bad when he called me selfless?

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure he used that word to me

[JustinTimberlegs]

Selfless is the opposite of selfish. It means you're a kind and caring person. Most would say it's a good thing, but people get offended at lots of things nowadays so I'm sure some people hate it.

[jasco]

Selfless means kind and caring, selfish means unkind and uncaring

[spartan55]

It's a compliment sweetie🤦

[Asker]

That's what I thought at first. 😫🤣🤣

[spartan55]

Sure you did.

[Asker]

I swear this happened in 2020 but I have low self esteem and doubt myself so..

[Asker]

The I looked up on google the definition of selfless... it wasn't good

[spartan55]

What did you was not good about it. It means the opposite of selfish.

[Asker]

K check this out: google definition of selfless:concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own;

Honestly when I saw that... I felt that is negative af lol obviously it triggered me... cause that's what I do. And I'm trying to change that

[spartan55]

Then you are selfless to a fault. Selflessness in reasonable amounts is a positive personality trait.

[Asker]

I think negatively about myself a lot... I dont think I'm selfish at all. My mom wants me to be more selfish tho but thank u for helping oit

[Sam_The_Savage]

Darling it's a compliment.

[Wise4myage]

Quite the opposite.

[dudeinohio]

It is a compliment

[kyleelyn199723]

😬 you probably got mad at this for no reason

[Asker]

No I looked up the meaning just now and it took a hit to me. At first I took it as a compliment

[kyleelyn199723]

I’m not really getting this. Why are some women so difficult? Take the compliment. Women like you make dating so difficult for men.

[Asker]

Look up the word selfless and tell me it doesn't sound fucked up.

[kyleelyn199723]

Girl just stop. Women like you are annoying and make our gender look crazy

[weeee]

It literally means that you're not selfish. Its a compliment.

[Asker]

@weeee thank you sir. I get it now