My guy friend broke up with his girlfriend. Is this my chance?

[Anonymous]

He had been with her for about 6 years but I couldn’t help but notice how he wasn’t being valued and I’m sure he knew it too. Time and time again I’d give him my opinion. One day, he comes to me saying they broke up and he remembered my advice. Anyways... He said he was really depressed and he loved her but I gave him advice again and now he’s focused on his job. He messages me every day and even when I ignore him he messages me and is sweet. He always consoles me when I’m sad. He calls me beautiful too. He’s working on opening up his business and I told him I’d move to his City to work for him and he agreed. Is this my shot? Or no?

[daisy_jones]

Ah, it's kind of tricky. If I were you, I'd give it some time. He was with someone in a relationship for a really long time and usually, the next relationship after that doesn't really work out long term. He is probably lonely now.

If he tries to make a move on you, you should first talk to him about where his feelings are at the moment, tell him you how you feel, and you should also make a point that you don't want to be his rebound. I'm sure he'll understand.

Just take it slow and be careful so that you, or him, don't get hurt in the end. Good luck. I hope it turns out good in the end!

[CarolineW]

I'd say yes - but don't come on too strong or it might freak him out. Talk to him. He may be feeling the same as you but is too nervous to say. If he agrees, then happy days! If he doesn't then you can continue as you are, no harm done. Don't wait long though, she may well coax him back, and there may even be other girls waiting for a chance, too. You need to get in first, so that he knows how you feel. This will influence what he does if she tries to get back with him.

[DonkeyDan]

Go for it before he finds someone else. There is no guarantee that it will work out in the long run though as he is likely on the rebound from the last relationship but I'd say now is probably the window if opportunity where he'll say yes even if he hadn't considered it before.

[Anonymous]

Either it's your true chance to be with him or your heart might broke. Be careful don't rush it value everything before you take a step.

[Nomina]

"my guy"? A little presumptuous. He isn't yours.

They've been together for a long time, they just broke up, give him time to get over that. Does he want to have something else already? Does he want to be single for a bit or a while? What does he want? If you care for him, let him be for now. After a six-year long relationship, he's entitled to some time alone.

Try if you want but think of him first, not just you.

[Paris13]

Good Shot But----Don't move too Fast. They just Broke Up and if I Know Some Couples----They either Go back Together or are On and Off. Wait and go Slow with Joe. You do Not Know. xxoo

[JenniferStar]

Proceed with caution. If you really like him, then yes could be a chance, but respect that he may be hurt and need time to get over her.

[fred_durst]

6 years?
chance to become his rebound girl? sure

[Asker]

You think so? Hmm 🤔 So, should I cut him off completely? He’s he one looking for me and if I’m going to be a rebound I’d rather kick him to the curb.

[pleasestopthis]

Are you really his friend, or pretending to be, just to get into his pants? 🙄🙄 He just broke up and most likely he needs your support now

[Anonymous]

Dude no… just leave him alone. He needs time to be single. His head is messed up right now. Don’t.

[Deserter]

When did they breakup? A 6 year relationship means there'sa good chance they get back together

[Anonymous]

sure if you want to have somebody else's sloppy seconds or leftovers or if you want to be the woman that he had no other options or choices but to be with

[Fuentes]

Yeah he's gonna need some time or you qill end up the rebound girl

[exitseven]

I would say go for it.

[Dingsbums]

U can wait another 6 years too

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Jump on it, literally. Thank me later...

[Neosporin]

Yeah do it but take it slow

[noohair]

For a job yes, unless he is a pimp.

[Relux47]

Only one way to find out

[anylolone]

Possible, just make your move.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

"guy friend"?

What are you, 5?

[cloudspy]

Go for it!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes!!!

[scott04sa22]

Make ur move

[Jackblue]

Yes, go for it.