Have you ever been heartbroken before? How would you describe the feeling?

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Apulu_3 · Accepted Answer

Al though I don't show it but small things can break my heart. Once I scored less marks in a subject and my mom angrily said that I can't even pass 10th if I study like this. This touched me so much that I would skip my sleep only to study so I can get nice grades and my mom won't be disappointed. Other thing was when my friend just broke up with me without me knowing (we were of 4 grade) . Like she was my guide and probably the only friend I had in this school. (happened in 6th grade) She told our friends group (a group of like 9 girls including me and her) that we are no more friends (we were the closest one on that group). I got to know about this recently when one girl of that group (we barely talked when we were in that group but now we are type of friends since 6th grade) became my friend and we were randomly talking about she brought this situation and she was surprised to know that I didn't even knew about this (happened 2 months before in 8th grade). I always wondered why she avoided me now I know she must be embarrassed of keeping me as friend but she is a really nice person though.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

It hurts but it happens. Just know it’ll be mended. I was slick hurt today but no more than 5 mins after it happened, this randon old lady approached and said “Dont let it get you down. You keep your held high. Gods got you. Amen.” I almost cried cause it was like a miracle moment with a guardian angel

EssenceOfLight · Accepted Answer

I've been still in relationship with my ex love as I recognized she doesn't love me that way I loved her. Even we slept still together I felt really alone even if she cuddled on me. My mind said leave her but my heart knew I will miss her if I go. I knew our (my) love dies every day a little bit more like a patient with terminal cancer. Finally she gave mercy head shot to this decaying relationship because she cheated. I wasn't even surprised because I refused to do my "duty" and her bed boy. I didn't ask why and went away. I thought I will suffer a lot but I didn't feel alone, I felt free.

ArrowheadSW · Accepted Answer

Yes but it has been well over ten years. I was dating a lady and it was going well. However she reconciled with an ex while we were dating and suddenly we weren't dating any longer. It was so sudden and I wasn't given a chance to come to grips with it. I felt sick for like a week. Anyway I think I dodged a bullet anyway. She has been married and divorced at least twice since then.

Sarahr123 · Answer

No I haven’t but I have had my ego hurt once. I got emotionally attached once and it was mutual so no heartbreak.

I have always been the one to turn down offers from boys and I have never had a boy not be interested in me but once there was a boy who was completely not my type and he was like ultra orthodox religious and perhaps that’s why he was distant too but he seemed to show absolutely no interest and that kind of hurt my ego and I stalked him for a few weeks on every platform. I just wanted to understand why he didn’t like me lool.

Zigzagwigwag · Answer

Its like the whole disappears and all you feel is pain

Like the person you love got their bare hands and ripped out your heart...

Like they shattered it and every little shard of you broken heart is slicing from the inside out...
Then like they burnt each individual shard with their lighter turn each shard into charcoal one at a time before crushing each burnt part of your heart into ash and blowing it away in the wind with the rest of your body left in smoke

RoseWilliams2412 · Answer

The feeling of no one wanting you, loving you or caring about you. It is like the feeling of being in a windowless room for 10 years. But in actual time, it is only a minute.
That feeling of emptiness, having cold lead instead of your heart. That's the feeling.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Painful. Yes, breakups can generate this, but out right betrayal by the people you were supposed to be able to trust the most is this times ten. Death is better than betrayal, that pain runs deep. And I am not just talking in the context of male/ female pair bonds though that can be painful as well. You do not know hurt until you've have been betrayed at the most intimate levels. When you find out the majority of your life was based on a lie, that is soul crushing.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I felt like I had lost something deeply personal that I would never be able to replace and that thinking was faulty. I realized it was God’s love I was looking for and not the guy I liked who demonstrated God’s love to me.

t-8900 · Answer

Yes and it was probably like Caesar getting stabbed to death by 23 "friends". But what makes it worse is that you don't die like Caesar. You feel that pain Deep inside. My first break up took me almost 3 years to fully get over.

Anonymous · Answer

Well I’m heartbroken this days because a guy I like (haven’t told him ) anyways he keeps saying we are friends.. he calls me his friend. And everytime I hear the word friend my heart hurts and my tears flow… and yep I’m 30 shit happens at 30s too!

lilaccc · Answer

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exitseven · Answer

She ripped my still beating heart out of my chest and threw it on the ground and stomped on it. It felt like that.

RawIronhide · Answer

Like a pain in your chest like your heart is melting but not in the warm fuzzy way.

serious · Answer

No. Nothing like that ever happen and it will never happen as well.

pickedcrisps · Answer

Like bad anxiety. It went away over months to a year thank god.

MJtheCoach · Answer

Yes my best friend said he’ll help to get get and her ended up fkin her behind my back.  Cost me a girl to get rid of a snake.  Now I’ve own my own radio station helping men.

JosyJosy · Answer

The feeling of the world empty even though we face overpopulation

Anonymous · Answer

I don't why, but it always breaks my heart to see a girl with a broken heart. Maybe 'cause they're so beautiful it just shouldn't happen?

Nazgol · Answer

I have. It's not pretty. It's a dooming feeling, the one that's like the end of the world & you can't see any brightness without that person kind

doctorwow · Answer

Being at the bottom of a pit knowing you can climb out but not wanting to

Millie845 · Answer

Yes I have been heart broken, it is very painful and hurtful.

Fuentes · Answer

When i was younnger, and i can't really explain it but its something my walls are always kept up

jimmy2 · Answer

Yes it like being ran over with a truck. Like out in the ocean and jump into the sea. It like signing up for Mars trip

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Yes I'm going through it now & really really struggling

readyplayer001 · Answer

yes and numb, empty, cold

GoldenCage · Answer

Being lost, numbed, bad memory, depression

Anonymous · Answer

Lost the sense and meaning of life and to live.

wankiam · Answer

i am right now and it feels like physical pain

noohair · Answer

Like your heart has been cut in half.

tee_64 · Answer

As if someone died

whiteorchid · Answer

an indescribable feeling

Sonorous · Answer

Dick shriveling

Slim57 · Answer

Yep a dark hole with no light in sight

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes over a girl

Ectomorph · Answer

Depersonalisation.

Anonymous · Answer

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