Why is he being like this?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’m into, but I never told him that I like him.. is really confusing me. The other day he straight up told me that he’s not trying to be friends. & that Really hurt my feelings. So I deleted him off fb & told him that & now if I call him he hangs up on me, yesterday I seen him & I was asking if he was mad at me. He just walked away from me. Like why is he being this way towards me?

[Assi2k]

Girl, do I have advice for you.


You can get him. If he’s acting this way, then you’ve just triggered something in him but you can fix it. But it’s gonna take some work.


If what u described isn’t too biased, I think you both are attracted to each other but feel the other’s concealing it and or playing games so you’re both trying to punish each other for not doing what the other wants.


Good news! If your story is accurate than it follows that he DOES like you PLUS some unhealthy reactions (similar to yours)


Advice: Stop reacting to him. Whatever he does, just remember it’s not personal — coping mechanisms picked up from childhood — and do something to distract you and make you feel great again.


Even better, show him that you’re unfazed by whatever he does (your happiness doesn’t depend on him). He’ll stop being upset eventually and start to be obsessed with you again🤩

[Asker]

Thank you !

[Anonymous]

I think something has triggered me coz now i am doing same thing wid a girl... if u would allow me i would tell u mine story and then wanna know what's ur opinion...

[Asker]

Sure, can u share ur story?

[spartan55]

You are 30 years old and you have no idea why he is mad?

[Asker]

No I really don’t. Why is he mad anyways?

[spartan55]

Because you deleted him from FB. Duh?

[IncognitoBandito]

The two of you have a hard time being straight about your feelings

[jmwvidz]

Did he want anything from you. I know some men just want sex nudes or a relationship/friendship.

[Asker]

No I didn’t feel like he was pushing for sex.

[jmwvidz]

I'm not too sure.