Do real men have a protective instinct that kicks in when they see women they care about cry? (Page 2)
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Yes, I love to comfort a girl, when I see a girl cry
When I cry about 6 times a year it is hard to take frequent criers seriously.
I have a lot more respect for mentally tough women who can control their emotions.
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Yes and y'all get silly as hell when y'all start crying so a lot of times we try to stop you ahead of time so you don't embarrass yourself 😉
Yes for sure even girls that I don't know and depending on how stress they are is the level of instinct then I get
Do real women have submissive instincts that make them wanna cook and clean for a real man?…
Yes if raised correct
i think so yes
nurture..
@Sam2021 thanks man
@Sam2021 I agree with this word use. It sounds much nicer. But it’s the same thing women just don’t like the word submissive. They seem to think these days it means slave. Submissive to me in this context means she’s never the star she’s support. A good star grabs and holds everyone’s adoration but also means shouldering a greater burden. Meanwhile a good support is never as noticed in the scene but is pivotal for the scene running smoothly. They handle the more mundane issues so they star can focus on the problems at hand. Without support the star could never make the scene as outstanding as it is. So while the support doesn’t get the adoration the star gets, failure to perform at any numbers of tasks will not cripple the entire scene and isn’t held to the same standards. Playing second fiddle they call it.
My personality would never allow me to follow someone I don’t respect as a leader but if it did Ide happily give up the spotlight for less responsibility and accountability. How easy I could hang it… my only responsibilities being cooking, cleaning, sex, and child rearing. You women had it made. I meanwhile work 6pm-6am 6 days a week and 2 years ago I was working 7 days a week for over a year. Trade ya.
If a woman cries than a man should be there for her to comfort her and solve her problem, the same way she does with him!
A real man won't let anyone makes a woman cry because if she cries than she's hurt and feeling pain...
In public I am repulsed by it. If it's someone I care about I just want to hold them and let them cry it out. Make them feel better.
No, depends on the reason for me. If it's something trivial then her little emo episode will pass and I'll be annoyed. Something important then I'll want to comfort her.
Yes especially if he knows her better and he didn't meet her randomly.
Yeah. I guess it also depends on whether she cries a lot or if it's a rare thing. And it's not just for women, I'd probably react the same way with a male friend too.
I don't know about the others, but I do. To a ridiculous point sometimes, like missing an appointment just to check on a complete stranger I've seen crying.
aww that is sweet
I certainly do to a certain extent. I’ll sit their and listen, being the shoulder to cry on, but then at the end, I’ll put a boot up you butt and encourage you to put yourself back together.
Not really since it's not a 'protecting situation'. Men might actually feel rather useless in that situation, which might be part of why men hate when women cry.
The answer to the question is yes.
Thank you
For me, it's my mom. If I see my mom cry and someone made her cry you better prepare for the negative talkbacks and maybe a kick in the face or more.
I have a protective instinct, particularly with women in distress... but then, I'm the type that will run into the fire, not away
I wouldn't call it protective. I'd be more "concerned" if I cared about the woman.
Fair enough 😀
It's a difficult question, because if I really care about a woman, I do feel a certain kind of desire to protect her well being to begin with. But I only maintain that "feeling" if I know that my caring actually matters to her.
I understand theirs no 100% yes or no
I have a protective instinct that kicks in when I see any of my people suffer. Reason why I joined the military.
If I see a strange woman crying, all I can do is offer a bottle of water and I can hear her out at least. And I'll drop the lady to her house.
No don’t do that kiddo it’s dangerous to drop strangers home or talk to them
@Sarahr123 Ohhh i see, then i think passing water is enough, thanks sis.
Real men? As opposed to those cardboard cutouts we see everywhere now?
No as opposed to ones who act like women