Guys, If guy sends me long texts almost like a paragraph does it show that he’s intetested?

[Anonymous]

I thought that guys don’t usually send long texts.

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I guess if he is a working man, then sending long texts does mean that he likes talking to you. Although it doesn't always mean that he likes you in a romantic way. But it definitely means that your conversations are interesting for him.

[Asker]

He sent me 14 line text in the evening. Usually he just sent me once a day text. He studies and work.

[Asker]

Also When we text he always makes sure that it's ME who ends the conversation. Even if I give a response that warrants no reply like statement he'll say something back. When I’ve looked back at out conversations I’m always the one who ends the conversation and also I’m the one who sends the first text.

Why is he doing this?

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Hey if this 14 line text is just a once in a blue moon event, then we cannot conclude much on this. I thought he frequently sends 5-6 line texts.

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Starting and ending the convo is fine. Doesn't mean much. But if he replies and gives focussed attention to you on text, then he cares enough not to disrespect you. So its a good thing. What's his age?

[Asker]

He does send me frequently 5-6 line of texts. He’s 30.

[Asker]

So you don’t think that he’s showing interest?

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Ohhhh... 30 changes things. If it's okay, please DM me. This discussion might go long.

[Asker]

Please answer to me here.

[Asker]

I did follow you

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I can’t pm you. You have to follow me too.

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Okay... normally at 30, one's social life gets way too dry. He normally has pretty few friends and even fewer female friends. So a good and fruitful conversation with any female is highly valued. Also, at this age, people seek depth while chatting (which is why long texts). Casual texts are not that appreciated. So there's a chance that he is really interested in building on your friendship as your conversations have depth. What do you guys usually talk about?

[Asker]

He also studies while working so we have talked about our studies, traveling, how people soend too much time on social media, drinking coffee and energy drinks lol. by the way he just turned 30. He does have many friends though. You think he only wants friendship?

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Wow... to me, the topics seem really good. Personally, I would be interested in talking about them for long. Also, if it's not weird, then calls can help take the friendship to a next level than texts, especially at 30.
I think that there's no 'want' here. He's comfortable in being friends and will also be comfortable taking it further. It's more on you... how you want to drive it. My judgement can be wrong but if you are not receiving any romantic signals from him, but he still spends a good chunk of time talking to you, then he is up for anything - friendship or relationship.

Also, like you said that he responds to the no-reply-warranted texts, means that he has the caring personality and doesn't like to hurt people or get hurt. So maybe, him taking the first step to take your friendship to the next level, is less likely. But he surely will be up to talk about it if you initiate.

[Asker]

Last tike we talked 9 days consecutively. We didn’t talk throughout the day. Usually I sent him a text during the day and he replied in the evening and same thing continued the next day.

[Asker]

Now his text was last and I just talked. I haven’t texted him since. It’s been a while now that we haven’t talked….

[Asker]

? :))

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I followed you back. You can pm me now

[shades777]

depends, i like to get my point across and i hate lazy replies, say what you mean, spell it out dont abbreviate

[Asker]

What if he’s constantly sending me 5-6 lines of text?

[shades777]

ah maybe you two should talk since how texting style annoys you, call him up

[boggboss]

Yes although guys do the same with friends

[Asker]

Do guys really send long texts if they just see them friends only? We we’re just talking about social media.

[boggboss]

Yes guys send texts to friends