Why do guys suck?

[Anonymous]

I started seeing this guy about 5 months ago. I met him on Tinder and it was pretty clear in my profile that I wanted long term so I never asked him to clarify what he wanted. Things have been going well but during a conversation he said something that I questioned. He said if either of us were to find someone else we let each other go. Here all along I thought we were making a relationship so when I questioned him this is what he said. (He’s 43 I’m 47) I might want to be a dad one day so if want to find someone younger to do that but in the meantime I though we could enjoy each other’s company but I don’t want to come to Sunday dinner with your family. We’ve talked about moving in possibly, going on vacations and just spending time together. So this was really surprising! He still wants to hang out and spend time together I’m just worried I will develop feelings for him. He’s not so concerned about developing feelings for me as he didn’t mention it. I just don’t know what to do?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

His priorities are different than yours and it definitely sounds like he is just looking for something to keep him occupied until he is ready to settle down.

Not sure how he isn't sure on what he wants to do in his 40s, but I'd say to move on if it were me.

[awkward_author]

If you're that concerned with developing feelings for him, it might not be a good idea to pursue anything because he desires someone else in the long run.

[dudeinohio]

Well, Tinder is a hookup site... not a place to go for a relationship

[jahaims]

Guys you choose to spend time on* don't worry I fixed it for you.

[TheFlak38]

you hit the wall long time ago. cry a river.