It is absolutely true. I don't understand why many girls don't think about men (I mentioned men not boys. Boys means immature one and men means gentlemen) like they are human. They too have emotions. It is really sad that men need to hide their tears otherwise they will be thought weak.
It depends on the person ultimately, I've met rational and irrational on both sides and it's suffocating when you meet someone completely ruled by them but maybe I'm not one to judge as I have bipolar and a possible mental personality disorder *I think they might be the same thing I don't know but I've only been diagnosed with bipolar*anyhow the bottom line is I don't think I'm fully irrational but I certainly don't always make rational discussions in the moment put it that way.
Men are ruled by their emotions. Their egos are easily bruised, they're insecure, and when you reject them they try to murder, rape or spread rumors about you. They're very unstable 🤣
I think we just learn to suppress them. A man should have self control and even though he may have tough emotions he keeps a level head and maintains himself. Nobody respects a man who loses control of his emotions. Women are less likely to "bottle" emotions in this way and come across as more "emotional". I believe both sexes have emotions. We just display them differently.
Gag is the biggest example that show many guys are very emotional or who are these bitter male gagers who often make questions/posts where they trashtalk women, blame everything on modern aka women who live in this century.
Note: i do like many guys here but it is kinda weird that gag has many antiwoman trolls
If a man is young or psychologically immature than might yes, but as he grows older and experiences the world. Men learn fast that they are valued for their logic, reason, experience, etc. Emotions don't normally play a part in inter male or professional settings, so men should avoid it.
Yes, some men are ruled by their emotions. All humans are really. It's more of a spectrum, where some men have almost impossible resistance to emotional thoughts and actions, and others seem to respond with a fist upside the head at the drop of a feather. I think women have the same spectrum among themselves. It's people.
Everyone is, the difference is, a man's emotions follow their Logic and Facts. Once the facts are there, he gets emotionally invested in defending those Facts.
Women just fly off the handle and get emotional over things that aren't even factual.
Although the truth is probably more subtle in shades of grey, I must confess having experienced that difference in handling emotions and facts with my own wife. Even if not absolute, there is still some truth in what you say.
I dont see how one could reason out things like love. Love happens, you dont love someone cause of certain facts... there might be facts but those aren't the only reasons, cause than you would fall in love with anyone who has those facts
I think you are correct. Depending on your age a lot goes to how we were raised and when. My generation you were raised not to show fear, pain, and you really didn't express you feelings. Cut your arm off, no, it's fine. So I have had to try to learn a lot as I grew older.
Oh for sure. Iāve met so many emotionally driven men. My partner is like that too, he likes everyone to think heās a tough guy but when you really get to know him you realise heās actually a very sweet and kind man, heās very emotional.
While interviewing an anonymous US Special Forces soldier on his sniper skills, a Reuters News agent asked the soldier what he felt when shooting members of al Qaeda in Afghanistan.
I can only speak for myself. I have had moments that my emotions have dictated my reactions. And there have been times that my mind has been the leading force. I much prefer using my mind over my emotions. Emotions I found get you in trouble. But thatās just me
But all you have to do is take one look at GaG, then you start to shake your head.
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Guys can be as well for sure. Or they can get the better of us sometimes (but for all human beings). But in general, women tend to go with emotions over logical thinking sometimes, more so then men. Even just look at how many women speak today currently... they often start a statement by "I feel like...", and that's not just a phrase in my opinion, but quite a bit of truth to that. "I feel", meaning that's what's controlling your thoughts and maybe your reactions or actions.
I can say women and girls are ruled by their emotions as well. I know plenty of girls who made terrible mistakes picking a guy she thought was right, only for her to scorned in the end. Yes, guys can be ruled by their emotions, both genders have their flaws.
Men are generally more logical but we're all emotional when we get right down to it. Even when you rely more on logic to make a decision it's still also emotions. If you think about it, everything boils down to "I want" no matter how you slice it. Even when you do things you don't want to do there's an incentive, that incentive is want. You probably don't want to work more hours, but if you want more money you will.
No, that would require emotions to be conscious on themselves, or at least have a consistent pattern.
It's more like people make choices based on their emotions. Or more funnily put it "out of control because of their emotions." In that sense, yes, literally the same as women if they are allowed such.
Itās actually not a joke there was an actual scientific study done and it was found that women although better at multitasking will allow emotion to get involved more freely. However men are more prone to tackle one item at a time and finish it but are significantly less emotional about it. This does not mean all women or men are this way just means the majority are.
Unfortunately, yes. Itās due to a lack of mentorship for young men, the widespread belief that men should express their emotions (there is a right time and place), and the reduction of male exclusive spaces in current society.
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It is absolutely true. I don't understand why many girls don't think about men (I mentioned men not boys. Boys means immature one and men means gentlemen) like they are human. They too have emotions. It is really sad that men need to hide their tears otherwise they will be thought weak.
It depends on the person ultimately, I've met rational and irrational on both sides and it's suffocating when you meet someone completely ruled by them but maybe I'm not one to judge as I have bipolar and a possible mental personality disorder *I think they might be the same thing I don't know but I've only been diagnosed with bipolar*anyhow the bottom line is I don't think I'm fully irrational but I certainly don't always make rational discussions in the moment put it that way.
Men are ruled by their emotions. Their egos are easily bruised, they're insecure, and when you reject them they try to murder, rape or spread rumors about you. They're very unstable 🤣
Seems more like you are unstable.
See you're the perfect example š¤£
You just seem to have psychological issues. You don't have to live like this.
No ur just ruled by your emotionsš¤£
My point provenš¤·š½āāļø
@Frauensindobjekte great example right there lol
@StormMistress see what I meanš¤£ proved me right. He has left several more comments I've just deleted them
They canāt handle the truth!
I think we just learn to suppress them. A man should have self control and even though he may have tough emotions he keeps a level head and maintains himself. Nobody respects a man who loses control of his emotions. Women are less likely to "bottle" emotions in this way and come across as more "emotional". I believe both sexes have emotions. We just display them differently.
Gag is the biggest example that show many guys are very emotional or who are these bitter male gagers who often make questions/posts where they trashtalk women, blame everything on modern aka women who live in this century.
Note: i do like many guys here but it is kinda weird that gag has many antiwoman trolls
If a man is young or psychologically immature than might yes, but as he grows older and experiences the world. Men learn fast that they are valued for their logic, reason, experience, etc. Emotions don't normally play a part in inter male or professional settings, so men should avoid it.
Roid rage!
Yes, some men are ruled by their emotions. All humans are really. It's more of a spectrum, where some men have almost impossible resistance to emotional thoughts and actions, and others seem to respond with a fist upside the head at the drop of a feather. I think women have the same spectrum among themselves. It's people.
Everyone is, the difference is, a man's emotions follow their Logic and Facts. Once the facts are there, he gets emotionally invested in defending those Facts.
Women just fly off the handle and get emotional over things that aren't even factual.
Although the truth is probably more subtle in shades of grey, I must confess having experienced that difference in handling emotions and facts with my own wife. Even if not absolute, there is still some truth in what you say.
I dont see how one could reason out things like love. Love happens, you dont love someone cause of certain facts... there might be facts but those aren't the only reasons, cause than you would fall in love with anyone who has those facts
@devilish-cutie Yes, that's true.
I think you are correct.
Depending on your age a lot goes to how we were raised and when.
My generation you were raised not to show fear, pain, and you really didn't express you feelings.
Cut your arm off, no, it's fine.
So I have had to try to learn a lot as I grew older.
Oh for sure. Iāve met so many emotionally driven men. My partner is like that too, he likes everyone to think heās a tough guy but when you really get to know him you realise heās actually a very sweet and kind man, heās very emotional.
While interviewing an anonymous US Special Forces soldier on his sniper skills, a Reuters News agent asked the soldier what he felt when shooting members of al Qaeda in Afghanistan.
The soldier shrugged and replied, āRecoil.'ā
Yes, men do have feelings!!
I can only speak for myself. I have had moments that my emotions have dictated my reactions. And there have been times that my mind has been the leading force. I much prefer using my mind over my emotions. Emotions I found get you in trouble. But thatās just me
Males didn't used to be that way.
We used to be rational and logical.
But all you have to do is take one look at GaG, then you start to shake your head.
Guys can be as well for sure. Or they can get the better of us sometimes (but for all human beings). But in general, women tend to go with emotions over logical thinking sometimes, more so then men. Even just look at how many women speak today currently... they often start a statement by "I feel like...", and that's not just a phrase in my opinion, but quite a bit of truth to that. "I feel", meaning that's what's controlling your thoughts and maybe your reactions or actions.
I agree to an extent. But I'm pretty sure the phrase "I feel like" is usually not literal.
I can say women and girls are ruled by their emotions as well. I know plenty of girls who made terrible mistakes picking a guy she thought was right, only for her to scorned in the end. Yes, guys can be ruled by their emotions, both genders have their flaws.
No. The real joke is you are being as ditzy and clueless as the stereotype of White women would have people believe.
People are emotional and social creatures. Which is what makes the introverts and extroverts at the extreme ends.
Men are generally more logical but we're all emotional when we get right down to it. Even when you rely more on logic to make a decision it's still also emotions. If you think about it, everything boils down to "I want" no matter how you slice it. Even when you do things you don't want to do there's an incentive, that incentive is want. You probably don't want to work more hours, but if you want more money you will.
No, that would require emotions to be conscious on themselves, or at least have a consistent pattern.
It's more like people make choices based on their emotions.
Or more funnily put it "out of control because of their emotions."
In that sense, yes, literally the same as women if they are allowed such.
Itās actually not a joke there was an actual scientific study done and it was found that women although better at multitasking will allow emotion to get involved more freely. However men are more prone to tackle one item at a time and finish it but are significantly less emotional about it. This does not mean all women or men are this way just means the majority are.
Unfortunately, yes. Itās due to a lack of mentorship for young men, the widespread belief that men should express their emotions (there is a right time and place), and the reduction of male exclusive spaces in current society.
Cheers!