we’ve been together two years. He said about his ex who left 2016 “your more obsessed w her than I am cause you talk about her and bring her up more than I do” furthermore his excuse was he was trying to push my button
his best friend told me he said I wasn’t shit compared to her, I’m fat and crazy she’s perfect they understand the inner kid inside each other bc they grew together
i show him the one screenshot of him saying she’s perfect etc he said he didn’t say that and hasn’t brought her up to me or said anything about her to me so I should get over it.
we argue months later, I physically can’t take the second part anymore so I ask him if he said I wasn’t shit compared to her and I asked him in a very argumentative manner and told him he wasn’t shit either. he said I would never be half the woman she was, and how I will never come close to keep telling myself that and it has nothing to do with being stuck in the past im just “whack” and crazy apparently. and how he’s a piece of shit for all the cheating and things he put her through and how he’d do it to me and think with about it how I’m not his type I will never be and I’ve got the truth now don’t get butt hurt
he then claims he was just trying to push my buttons and he wanted me to stop what I was doing as in listening to others
I forgave him..
he told me this:
of course he was going to tell you all that stuff that I was talking about her.. it was his way of trying to get you away from me and closer to him. typical move. not mad at it but don't believe everything you hear. thats the past bekah where it stays.
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I let go of all that years ago beakah.. and no its not ''oh bekah is here so I'll just go with it" thats not the case. I want you. and I want you with me. I know over the years I haven't always said the right things. I'm not really the best at communication but your more than worth it bekah.
it’s two years of my life. I love him
his best friend told me he said I wasn’t shit compared to her, I’m fat and crazy she’s perfect they understand the inner kid inside each other bc they grew together
i show him the one screenshot of him saying she’s perfect etc he said he didn’t say that and hasn’t brought her up to me or said anything about her to me so I should get over it.
we argue months later, I physically can’t take the second part anymore so I ask him if he said I wasn’t shit compared to her and I asked him in a very argumentative manner and told him he wasn’t shit either. he said I would never be half the woman she was, and how I will never come close to keep telling myself that and it has nothing to do with being stuck in the past im just “whack” and crazy apparently. and how he’s a piece of shit for all the cheating and things he put her through and how he’d do it to me and think with about it how I’m not his type I will never be and I’ve got the truth now don’t get butt hurt
he then claims he was just trying to push my buttons and he wanted me to stop what I was doing as in listening to others
I forgave him..
he told me this:
of course he was going to tell you all that stuff that I was talking about her.. it was his way of trying to get you away from me and closer to him. typical move. not mad at it but don't believe everything you hear. thats the past bekah where it stays.
&
I let go of all that years ago beakah.. and no its not ''oh bekah is here so I'll just go with it" thats not the case. I want you. and I want you with me. I know over the years I haven't always said the right things. I'm not really the best at communication but your more than worth it bekah.
it’s two years of my life. I love him
