Should I break up with him even if he's a nice guy?

[Anonymous]

I've been with him for 2 years but he just doesn't do it for me anymore. he's very shy and boring. Very pessimistic views towards life. He hates crowds. And never surprises me. I like to feel special and i do a lot of "wifey" things for him. I Cook clean support him massage him everything. He does the absolute bare minimum but for some reason i start to feel bad because he's a nice guy he just lacks majorly in other areas such as personality, common sense.. So its easy for me to talk to other guys. What fo i do and how do i stop feeling guilty about making the right decision for myself. I've tried to even coach him to being the right guy for me because im his first girlfriend. but you can't change a man and i dont want to.

[CentralPerk77]

Yes … boring 2 years in isn’t gonna get better … it’s gonna just pile on and on in your head - if you know this now it’s better to just walk away - you can care about him and not hate him but you don’t love him and … you should find someone you do and he also deserves someone to feel that way for him.

[a_person1]

as a man who was seemingly in the same position as you boyfriend ill tell you my opinion. i was like that with my girlfriend in ways, we're always honest with each other, and her telling me my shortcomings i do think made me a beater person. evan if it hurts its beter in the long run. the same thing goes for in the bedroom. we've bean together 7 years now and are still incredibly happy together. i hope this helps.

[FlowerSeeds]

If you're not happy then you shouldn't be with him okay be with someone who makes you happy

[Enigma69]

end it if it isn't working out. the sooner he finds out the better for him and you. it hurts but must be done.

[fred_durst]

yeah , dump him now