I've been with him for 2 years but he just doesn't do it for me anymore. he's very shy and boring. Very pessimistic views towards life. He hates crowds. And never surprises me. I like to feel special and i do a lot of "wifey" things for him. I Cook clean support him massage him everything. He does the absolute bare minimum but for some reason i start to feel bad because he's a nice guy he just lacks majorly in other areas such as personality, common sense.. So its easy for me to talk to other guys. What fo i do and how do i stop feeling guilty about making the right decision for myself. I've tried to even coach him to being the right guy for me because im his first girlfriend. but you can't change a man and i dont want to.